& Meet a girl & Do you know the marriage custom?

Every festive festival, the day of catching up, and even when movies are shown in the stockade, are opportunities for Miao youth to get together and engage in social activities. Miao people call it "Changpa", which means "Hui girl". The best chance to meet the most girls is to catch up. On this day, young men and women put on their new clothes. They rushed to the market and walked to the basket. They don't carry the burden. Women hold green cloth umbrellas, in groups of two or three, and in groups of five or six. Young men and women play and chase along the way. After arriving at the stadium, the men and women joked with each other. Men and women don't stray at this time. But generally speaking, people play it as "rushing to the sideline" when they are outside the stadium. On the way back from other places, young men "fight" with young women (begging for candy and falling in love). The humanitarian said, "A hundred flowers are fragrant, and the girl who walks in front is like a fairy. We are ahead of each other, but we are afraid of missing the good opportunity. No (cousin), share a piece of sugar? " If the woman didn't mean to say "fallen leaves fly and flowers don't smell sweet, we dare not stop you from asking for sugar." Sorry, you're late. The candy was given to someone else. "If you are interested, that is another scene. Get in touch, use metaphors to cross-examine each other and find out each other. Accompanied friends come out to help them from time to time, and they advise each other, both men and women. Dating, some in the future, more in the bright moon tonight. In order to wait for each other and point out the direction, there is a grass sign on the side of the road (it was hit by thatch). Lovers send rings, ribbons and photos to each other. After a certain test, determine the relationship, choose an auspicious day, and the girl elopes to the man's house to get married. After the girl got married, she broke away from the ranks of young people and stopped interacting with them. Miao "Hui girl" has its moral norms. Young people pursue the loyalty and purity of love, permeated with deep feelings and friendship, and showed the poetic life of Miao people.