Zeng Shiqiang: In fact, children are given by God

I often ask many parents whether they would go to a temple to pray for a child before they gave birth to a child. Many of them will privately admit to me that they have done so. But after giving birth to a child, she refused to admit it, saying that she gave birth to the child by herself and had nothing to do with the Mother-Giving Lady or Guanyin Bodhisattva.

People are so interesting. When you ask for kindness, you are extremely kind, but then you get it and write it off. In fact, children are given by God, and God is nature. This is not superstition.

This is the age of science. No one will object to using science to explain that humans are a part of nature. Parents come from nature, and so do children. We are all sent by God. There is nothing wrong with your children being born to you, but they are not owned by you, but by God. Everyone belongs to God, which is nature. This is very scientific.

In the Chinese concept, nature is God. God sends this child to your home. Your child belongs to God, not to your parents. I think this point of view is very important. If a child belongs to his parents, then the parents can give birth to him if they love him, and die if he loves him to death. But in fact, it is only when God tells him to live that he can live, and when God tells him to die, he must die. It can be seen that we all belong to God, that is, natural.

To take it a step further, children have the right to choose their parents, but parents do not have the right to choose their children. Why do you say this? Think about it, many people want to have a boy, but end up with a girl; many people really want to have a girl, but end up with a boy; and many people really want to have a child but can't. These are all facts. If parents can choose their children, then those who choose boys will give birth to boys, those who choose girls will give birth to girls, and if they want twins, they will have a pair. In fact, this is not the case. This proves that parents do not have the right to choose their children, but children are qualified to choose their parents. He was originally planning to be your child, but he might have regretted it before he was born. He felt that it was terrible to choose such parents, and then you had a miscarriage. When he was born, something was wrong and he died, so he would not care about you. That's a lot.

Children are treasures entrusted to their parents by God. Parents have no ownership or choice over them. Children have the right to choose their parents, so as parents, you must open your mind, welcome them, and accept them completely. Furthermore, every child is an independent individual with an independent personality, and the living environment and lifestyle of each generation are also different. If children want to pursue their own lives, parents must respect them and tolerate them. , don’t force him, don’t have excessive expectations, and don’t pin things you haven’t achieved on your children.

You must know that everyone has their own mission in this world. God finds suitable parents for their children, hoping that parents will inspire, guide and train their children based on their nature and potential. Good living habits teach him how to behave, and his children will find their own path.