Week 222.3 | Write down your wishes and read them frequently, which is easier to realize.
Date: Monday, January 17th, 222
Coordinates: Zhenjiang
Weather: Sunny
I'm Colette, and I'm going to meet you. I'll be a female growth consultant with my left hand for scientific parenting and my right hand for self-growth.
This week, our company didn't have a rest, and all of us worked overtime, because we had to save overtime until the New Year, so that we could have a few more days off during the New Year.
I made a sort of this week in my spare time and listed a framework. I was super happy!
Sister Handsome recently has a new book, Write Your Wishes on Paper, which is also my true portrayal this week!
I came into contact with and used the Efficiency Manual in 218. At that time, I also had many innovative versions, but I couldn't understand the essence.
I blindly imitated it, and finally used it for 2-3 years, but I couldn't stick to it, so I changed it to an electronic version!
I don't know what kind of person you are. I have no feeling when I use the electronic version.
I am a nostalgic person. I like to use the paper version of things. When I see the beating characters on the paper, I feel the passage of time!
As luck would have it, I bought the early 222 thin edition under the recommendation of Master Cong Cong this year, and I got a better understanding of the concept of use, so this year's efficiency manual is 1% filled in, which is very substantial!
what have I accomplished this week? I said listen!
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222, article 3, Weekly resumption
Nutrition breakfast is punched in 6 times, totaling 11/1 days
Resuming mental method 3, section 1
Good parenting course 2
Foot soaking 5 times
Weekly resumption
Daily resumption: 7 articles. 3-week resumption
? Section 1 of the method of complex disk mind
? Jump rope 5 times
? Good parents take two classes
? Punch in the nutrition breakfast for 5 times
X community actual combat verbatim draft Section 2
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Career, family, self
One career
This week, I overfulfilled my job, and also assisted the front desk in customer service, and at the same time cooperated with the boss to communicate with the hospital and ask for account reconciliation.
in non-working hours, I get up early and after work, which is used for learning, growing, reading, resuming classes, taking students, accompanying each other and nourishing growth!
Some people see a year's hard work and ignore 1 years' growth. On this week's study road, I am more determined about my future path.
I am very happy and happy, and I am super looking forward to meeting my glittering self in the future.
Two families
① High-quality company every day
In the early years, I would think that my children would hinder my growth. That's because my structure is too small and I have the biggest position in the world: mom.
at this stage, raising children is the main business, and making money is a sideline.
Every day Monica is super looking forward to it. I can get off work early, watch TV and play games with her, and I often surprise her, which may be related to my jumping thinking.
For example, do you know the human slide? That is, I carried Monica on my back and held her ass with my hands. At home, it is very exaggerated to say that our flight flew to Australia ... to the United States, and now it is Japan ... < P > When she was not looking, I scratched her down in the blink of an eye, and I laughed every time, which made me very happy.
It is mentioned in the positive discipline teaching that when children like a certain game, they make hearty laughter. This game is worth playing again, so we should play it at least 3~5 times a day.
In the process of high-quality company with Monica, let her feel the unconditional love of her parents, and store her sense of security and belonging, so as to save for the future.
② upgraded version of daily routine table
This winter is particularly cold, so this primary school in Zhenjiang, Jiangsu Province has a holiday very early, which is hard. Monica's grandmother comes to our house every day.
I watch Monica during the day, I go to work, and I shift at night, but what you don't know is that Monica is a particularly naughty child.
I have a lot of ideas and a big temper, so I discussed with Brother Long that we can work out a daily behavior standard table after discussion among the three parties.
There are items that Monica will add points and items that she will lose points, and finally, with Monica's full consent, she will have a 13-point assessment.
if the score is above 8 points, it is considered as a pass and you have the right to watch TV for 2 minutes.
since the updated version of the daily management table was made, Monica's score is only high but not low.
because of her words: the higher the score, the better.
The daily management table can help children manage themselves, and at the same time, they can get tools that are beneficial to good habits.
If you are interested in the daily management table, you can refer to my previous article, hoping to inspire you.
Raising children requires methods, which get twice the result with half the effort; The method is wrong, and the parenting is tiring. If the parenting process is tiring, it means that the method is wrong and you need to try a new method!
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Three selves
Apart from work, starting a business and family, it is self-growth. This week, according to 222, make goals and proceed in an orderly manner, such as:
1: Get back to your heart. Section 3
Find your life mission, and you can find the meaning of life through the 8th birthday party, life mission statement and people's second creation.
This week's case is because the child is not confident, and he doesn't want to go to school or eat. When the mother is sleeping with him, she finds that she has enough sleep, but the next day she will still say: She is dizzy and doesn't want to go to school.
In fact, the underlying logic is that the child is afraid of school to some extent, and may have poor learning ability.
At school, she will be very tired and stressed, which will lead to the decline of physical function.
Because of this, parents should not label their children and vent their emotions blindly, but think about how to help our children better.
how to help children?
step 1: the same principle is needed.
Tell your child that mom feels that it is stressful for the teacher to reprimand her if she can't keep up with the school curriculum, and so did mom when she was a child. What do you think about mom? How can she help you? Or you want me to do something.
Step 2: Tell your parents' true feelings
I see that when you are doing your homework at night, you don't want to write when you encounter a problem, and then you play games and watch videos until late at night
I'm worried about your health, and at the same time, your appetite is not very good, and your body will collapse in the long run
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Step 3, invite your children to discuss how to solve this problem.
Look, how do you adjust your state, or how do you want your mother to help you?
Make a deep link with your child, so that the child can feel that parents don't label and blame him for learning problems, but really care about health from his point of view, so they pay attention to it.
Solve problems through link analysis, and then help children better.
So when our parents learn scientific parenting methods, they can help their children in time
and they can't make things worse because of their own emotions, so I also appeal to you: You can learn how to be a good parent and contribute to your children's future.
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Reflection this week
What needs to be reflected this week is whether to read quickly or chew slowly. My opinion here is that classic books should be read slowly.
For practical books, we must apply what we have learned. Being quick is not the most important thing, but the key is to be able to apply what we have learned, change our current life and solve problems!
Therefore, when learning knowledge or reading, we must use knowledge for the purpose, which is also the fundamental difference between adults and children.
Adults must learn to solve problems, while children's learning is to supplement extensive knowledge.
keep in mind the principle of applying what you have learned.
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Parenting gains &; The meaning of self-improvement
This week's parenting harvest, all young children are looking for a sense of security and belonging. In the process of raising children, especially children, we must give them enough;
the meaning of self-improvement: as a mother, you need to be strong in all aspects, work hard, take care of yourself, and live a wonderful life!
Parenting makes you:
Once more childhood, regret will not be repeated
Once more living, life will be extraordinary
No parenting, no growth
Parenting, meeting a better self
Parenting is the beginning of your life
Savage, and it is the best course of your life
Self-healing. Heal yourself
Keep improving and growing
No one is born to be a good parent
Good parents need to learn
What you want your child to be
What you want to be
With Colette, Parenting and self-improvement
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Plan for the 4th week of 222
Resume course method 4
Punch in breakfast: 5 times
Micro-sports: 5
Good parents, 2 sessions
Resume in the 4th week of 222
A verbatim draft of actual combat in community operation
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just look at my daily reply.
My circle of friends opens the daily re-opening clock, and the weekly, monthly and annual re-opening clock is in WeChat official account.
There are parenting records and self-growth. As a mother, my greatest wish is:
I hope that my children will grow healthily and excellently, that their self-growth can keep pace with their children's growth, and that * * * will become better and better!
If you are a woman or a mother, you are welcome to learn and grow with me.
I'll see you in the fourth week of 222. Come on!
In March of 222, Xiao Quexing
Monica executed the daily management table;
I made a nutritious meal for 5 days, which is really awesome.
jiaozi is really happy to eat handmade brand meat;
Help others, and really get full of energy
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Good life = scientific parenting+self-growth
Only when mothers know both scientific parenting and self-growth can life be better!
Be a better self
Remember to pay attention to @ Colette after reading it
Watch more dry goods in time
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About the author: Colette, a working mother, has a 7-year-old daughter Monica, who focuses on scientific parenting and self-growth, with the goal of becoming a female growth consultant.
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