202 1 can't Tomb-Sweeping Day go back to her family? What does Tomb-Sweeping Day pay attention to when he goes back to his parents' grave?
202 1 Tomb-Sweeping Day in the lunar calendar: 202 1 February 23rd; Gregorian calendar: April 4th, 202 1 year, suitable for Gregorian Sunday:
Marry relatives, travel, clean engagement deals, make alliances, and bury animals in bed.
Pasturing, burial, relocation, service, adoption, relocation and burial, and finding heirs.
Yellow calendar taboo:
Open the market, pray, build and break ground.
Judging from the 202 1 Tomb-Sweeping Day Gregorian calendar, this day is suitable for going out and going back to my parents' home.
However, in some areas, there is a folk custom and saying that Tomb-Sweeping Day will not return to her family, so it is best to consider it according to the customs of her husband's family and her family.
What does Tomb-Sweeping Day pay attention to when he goes back to his parents' grave?
In most parts of Tomb-Sweeping Day, it is said that married women should not go back to their parents' homes to visit their graves for basically the same reason.
According to the older generation, the married daughter is the spilled water. In the past, women married with their husbands' surnames and could not be counted as family members. Naturally, you can't worship your ancestors, you should worship your ancestors.
In addition, if a married daughter goes back to her parents' home to visit her grave in Tomb-Sweeping Day, she will be considered as having no men at home. No family with a son will let her come back to visit the grave. Even if she wants to sweep, she has to wait for her brother and uncle to finish sweeping, or come back to sweep the grave after Qingming. And you can't go to the grave alone, you must be accompanied by a male relative. What's the taboo of sweeping graves in Tomb-Sweeping Day?
1, do not eat before sweeping the grave.
It is usually early in the morning on the day of grave sweeping, so it is not appropriate to eat. If you can't carry it from a long distance, you can only eat vegetarian food to show respect for your ancestors. In addition, when sweeping the grave, don't bring food other than offerings into the cemetery, and don't eat in the cemetery. One is disrespect, and the other is disadvantage.
2. Avoid taking photos in the cemetery.
Most of Tomb-Sweeping Day's grave-sweeping is for ancestor worship and needs respect. A god raised his head three feet. Never take a group photo in the cemetery when sweeping the grave, or even take photos at will, otherwise it will attract bad things. It is likely to lead to imbalance between yin and yang and damage personal fortune.
3. Avoid frolicking in the cemetery.
Grave-sweeping in Tomb-Sweeping Day is generally carried out by a family, and it is normal to take children with them. But sweeping graves is a serious matter after all, and you must never play. You know, after all, the cemetery is a place where ghosts sleep. Laughing and cursing in the cemetery will disturb the ghost, which is disrespectful and may lead to revenge.
4. Avoid commenting on graves.
Tomb-Sweeping Day, when sweeping graves, should respect other people's graves or ancestors' graves and watch your step. Don't trample on other people's graves or flowers in cemeteries, and don't comment on other people's graves, otherwise it will be considered blasphemy, and you will get into trouble when you encounter something bad.