1Gregorian calendar in September, 999
1. When the woman gets married, the eldest brother lifts the sedan chair and walks out on her own, which is regarded as having no attachment to the family.
When the woman gets married, the family will burst into tears, and the more they cry, the more sad they will be.
3. If a man is sick, he can't get married then, but he can get married ahead of time, which is called rushing to Xi.
4. Avoid mourning. If there is a funeral at home, you can't get married within one year, but you can celebrate during the funeral.
5. Unmarried women can't spend the night at their husbands' homes.
6. When the woman gets married, don't touch the ground and look back, for fear of taking away her family's blessing.
7, avoid the man to the woman's house to get married, called drilling pot holes, upside down door stickers.
Don't be happy, two brothers or sisters can't get married in the same year.
Among brothers and sisters, the younger one can't get married before the older one.
10, intergenerational marriage is the most typical behavior, and consanguineous marriage is the most taboo.
1 1, marriage customs with the same surname are common.
12, "blood and bones don't flow back" opposes the marriage of uncles and aunts, but on the contrary, there is "pro-marriage plus pro-marriage"
13, taboo premarital sex, emphasizing "chastity", especially for women.
14, it is forbidden for healthy people and people with physical disabilities to fall in love and get married.
15, "Men don't kiss for help, women don't kiss for permission", opposing young men and women's free love.
16, men are older than women, but they are also afraid of the age difference between the two sides.
17, avoid the age difference between three and six years old, "three-year-old penalty" and "six-year-old rush"
18, it is generally taboo that women are older than men, especially that women are one year older than men.
19, to avoid men and women being born in the same month in the same year, which will affect the reproduction of the next generation.
20. When discussing marriage, the personalities of men and women should be combined.
2 1. When getting married, it is taboo that the woman belongs to the tiger, and the "pokeweed root" born in the middle of the night is even more taboo.
22. When getting married, avoid being a female sheep, and avoid "being a female sheep, keeping an empty house".
23. Avoid touching trees, big stones, well platforms, etc. Cover them with red cloth on the way to the wedding reception.
24. You can't take the water on the way to the wedding.
25. On the wedding day, it is forbidden to listen to the room at night. They all say, "People don't listen to ghosts."
26. In 2008, the 13th of the first month, 11th of February, 9th of March, 7th of April, 5th of May, 3rd of June, 1st of July, 27th of August, 25th of September, 23rd of October, 21st of November and 19th of December are "taboo days", and "sheep" is homophonic with "sheep", so women who avoid sheep were born in ".
27. Don't propose or discuss marriage in the first month, nine times out of ten you will fail.
28. When getting married near the full moon, the bride's family sent chicken, noodles and so on. On a day called "Full Moon Tea", the wedding was over.
29. On the way to see the bride off, it is becoming more and more popular to avoid the children in the village "smashing the bride".
30, taboo one-day marriage
3 1, choose the date of marriage, and avoid not having beginning of spring in the blind year (widowed year).
32. In the choice of auspicious days, avoid the broken moon, weekdays, closed days, closed days, robberies, disasters, evil moons, monthly punishment, disasters, lack of moons, big hours, celestial officials, four wastes, four taboos, four poverty, five tombs, eight specialties and days of death.
During the wedding, the bride should avoid wearing black and white clothes, usually red.
34, in the wedding, avoid children crying.
35, wedding, avoid mourning, widows, pregnant women into the new house.
36. Avoid women in white clothes entering the house on the wedding day.
37. Avoid encountering funerals, throwing objects or exchanging gifts on the way to the wedding reception.
38. Couples who have been married for less than a month are forbidden to keep their rooms empty, which means they can't grow old together.
39. When getting married, it is forbidden to go back, otherwise the husband and wife will not reunite.
40, taboo others sitting on a couple's bed.
4 1, the bride should avoid stepping on the threshold when entering the man's house, otherwise the man's house will be destroyed by the disease.
42. The bride's clothes should not have pockets, which will take away the wealth of her family.
43. Within three months of marriage, the bride should not look at others in the mirror for fear of losing her husband's love.
44. Husband and wife should not eat other people's wedding cakes and banquets within three months to prevent the celebration.
Husband and wife should avoid going to the theatre within three months, otherwise they will quarrel.
46. The fixed wedding date should not be changed to another day, and the husband's family will die on the other day.
47. The bride's clothes should not be sewn with two pieces of cloth, which means "loyalty to one's own life" and "no remarriage".
48. I, commonly known as the "little wife", am inferior to my wife, so people should avoid being concubines.
49. When welcoming the bride, the bride should avoid falling to the ground on the way.
50. Welcome bridesmaids and avoid married people.
5 1, avoid second time around in marriage.
52. Don't say unlucky things in marriage.
At the wedding reception, guests should not accidentally break plates, spoons and other tableware.
54. Newly-married women should not enter the confinement house within 100 days.
55. Choose a Quanfu boy the night before the wedding, accompany the groom's official to "press the bed" and seek early birth.
When the bride goes out, her sister-in-law can't see her off, because "sister-in-law" is homophonic with "sweeping" comet.
When going out, the bride should wear shoes backwards, which means not to forget her family.
When the bride first arrived, her aunt accompanied her to dinner. She can't eat, she can only watch. This is called "watching the seat".
If you go home three days after your marriage, you must go back to your husband's house before sunset, and you can't spend the night.
60. Brides are not allowed to visit other people's homes during their honeymoon, except for The Bloody Hymen in January.
6 1, the wedding date should not be clear or ghost month, which will affect the fortune of a couple.
62. One month before or after the wedding, it is not appropriate to visit the sick or attend the wedding reception.
63. Don't lend the newly-married mirror to others, lest the mirror destroy the marriage.
64. You can get married only when you are "in the right position", and the low-ranking party is unwilling to "climb up"
65, the choice of marriage should not be contradictory: the white horse is never afraid of the green cow, and the golden rooster sees the dog crying; Dragons meet rabbits and children walk in the clouds. Once snakes and mice meet, they will rest. When a sheep meets a tiger, it will cut off its head, but when a pig meets an ape, it won't reach its head.
66. Both men and women who get married at the age of 18 will encounter the "eighteen difficulties" after marriage.
67. On the wedding day, the man took a shower and wore a raw cloth sweater (only three times when he was born, married and returned to the mountains).
68. Gift giving and engagement should be in pairs, and singular is forbidden.
69. Write the gift list and invitation card in red paper (avoid white paper) and avoid writing singular words on it.
It is forbidden to say the words "heavy" and "again" when appointing, which will lead to "bigamy" and "remarriage"
7 1. After the engagement, both men and women will change their names and call their relatives and friends each other.
72. Every three festivals (Duanyang, Mid-Autumn Festival and Spring Festival), the man will go to the woman's house to "observe the festival".
73. After the bride price is delivered to the woman's home, it is forbidden for the woman's home to accept all the bride price and return some of it to the man's home.
74. "Proposing (fixing) an appointment" is put forward by the man first, and rarely requested by the woman.
75. Marriage, the date of marriage is the most critical, and we must calculate the date to avoid evil.
76. If you can't get married in two beginning of spring days, you must have a second spring.
77. Multiples of the age of marriage, namely, 24, 36 and 48, should be avoided.
78. Unless there are no children, male concubinage is also criticized.
During the busy farming season, there are many "bad months" such as May, July and September, so it is not suitable for marriage.
80. "On July 7th, we welcome newly-married women to avoid festivals", which is related to the legend of the Weaver Cowherd.
8 1. On the wedding day, the bride has menstruation, which is called "riding a horse to visit the bride, and the family is ruined", which will make the bride jealous and scrambled eggs.
82. The number of people who greet or send off their relatives should be in pairs, and a "whole living person" should be sent.
83. No one is allowed to demand or force debts on happy days.
84. The bridal chamber and wedding dress are decorated by long-lived and happy women, avoiding widows and pregnant women.
85. I like to send off guests with gray paintings at the bottom of the pot. I don't want to get angry.
86. The bride doesn't cook for three days, and the couple doesn't work for three days.
87. After the bride got into the sedan chair and left the gate, her family immediately closed the gate to prevent the wealth from being taken to her husband's house.
88. The bride is not allowed to cry at the wedding. It is unlucky to cry again at this time.
89. It is said that the bride is suffocating. It is forbidden to peek at the bride in the sedan chair. If you see it, you will be blind or die.
90. I'm afraid that one of the couple will die early in bad weather, especially thunder, on the way to the wedding.
9 1, the sedan chair will stop at the man's door for one minute, in order to put out the bride's fire and not to make mistakes in the future.
92. The sedan chair needs to pass between two piles of flourishing fires in front of the men's house, which means "prosperity".
93. When the bride gets off the sedan chair, she should step on the sack, which means "inherit the clan".
94. When the bride gets off the sedan chair, she should sprinkle peanuts and grains, which means "many children are blessed" and "abundant grains"
On the wedding day, two sensible young people should be invited to sleep in a new bed for one night, which is called a "hotbed".
96. If the candle doesn't burn well or goes out halfway, the couple will be in trouble and can't grow old together.
97. When eating a wedding banquet and cleaning up dishes, avoid stacking empty dishes together to avoid committing the taboo of "bigamy".
98, wedding, avoid the bride is not a virgin, there is a custom of falling red.
99. On the wedding day, the bride stepped on the groom's shoes, and the groom could not raise his head in front of his wife all his life.
100, don't marry a widow, and don't go back to your ex-husband's house after marriage.
The above is related to January sheep guarding the house, February sheep, March sheep and September sheep, and it is about the sharing of marriage. After reading the calendar, I hope this will help everyone!