The fortune teller says you have to rely on yourself _ The fortune teller says you have to rely on yourself. What do you mean?

It's better to ask for help than to ask for help? It's better to ask others than yourself. Although this statement is very domineering, it is a real sentence, a philosophy of life. Bitter and tired, only oneself carry; If you are hurt, only you can bear it; Cold and hot, only you know.

You are poor, you can't tell others because others can't laugh at you. If you are wronged, you can't tell others, others will say you are timid. If you are unhappy, you can't tell others. Others will not help you, but will only sympathize with you at most. Only you can say anything to yourself.

If you have the ability, you will be popular everywhere; I am incompetent and left out everywhere. It is an unchangeable fact that society depends on ability to eat now. Parents can only give birth to you and support you to adulthood, but they can't support you for life. Everything depends on yourself.

If you can eat everywhere, you have to rely on yourself. My personal views are as follows.

Capable people are especially diligent.

Anyone who has the ability will be particularly painful at first. Eat the worst and do the hardest and most tiring work. I don't feel tired in the dark every morning. Some people say that some people have made money and become bosses, but have you ever known how many hardships they have experienced? People are ordinary people from the beginning, and he (she) can bear hardships more than others, so he (she) becomes a big boss.

Second, capable people are particularly strong.

A capable person learns to be strong. Everyone will encounter difficulties, and there will be times of depression. The more difficult it is, the stronger it is. In the face of difficulties, we should hold our heads high and face it bravely. Only by working steadfastly towards your own goals and making unremitting efforts can you reach the peak of a brilliant life.

Third, capable people can put themselves in others' shoes.

Capable people can often analyze and solve problems from the standpoint of others. Understand and help others to the maximum extent, so that others can get more benefits, and at the same time, they can get more profits, achieve a win-win situation, and everyone is happy.

The four capable people are all ordinary people.

A capable person always considers the situation of others with a normal mind. In the construction site, in the workshop and on the operating platform, he (she) is not telling you what to do in front of you as a boss, but doing the work of ordinary people as an ordinary worker. If you want to be your own boss, you should start from an ordinary worker, never attend meetings, and do better from bad to good. The boss is not a god, others are ordinary people.

Capable people know how to tolerate others.

A truly capable person is not forcing others, but tolerating others as much as possible. When you do something wrong, people will not fly into a rage and scold you in person, but will explain to you very gently where you are wrong and how to solve it.

Capable people know how to respect others.

When discussing some issues, he (she) doesn't use his/her own views to raise himself/herself, but puts his/her own views in the daily affairs discussed by everyone, asking for their opinions and whether they can be implemented. Constantly listen to other people's ideas and opinions, and know how to adopt other people's good suggestions and ideas.

A capable person is a patient person.

A capable person is not a person with a bad attitude, but an open-minded and patient person. No matter how you lose your temper, he (she) will not be angry, will listen to your opinion calmly, and then convince you with reason and make you admire.

Eight able people learned to be kind.

A capable person is a man of few words. No matter who you meet, he (she) will communicate with that person very kindly. The verbal communication is concise, euphemistic and pleasant, which makes people feel very comfortable.

Nine able men learned to take risks and fight.

Capable people dare to break through and struggle. The success of many entrepreneurs depends on hard work and real skills. Behind every successful person, there is bitterness and pain that others don't know. At first, they also experienced street stalls and camping. Because they have the courage to fight hard, whether they succeed or not, they must try their own spirit of struggle.

The pony crossed the river. The pony didn't believe what the squirrel said. The river is full, and it will drown. He doesn't believe what the old cow said either. The river is small and shallow. It decided to stretch out its legs first to test the depth of the river. It is the same for us to do business. We always have to try. How can I know whether this business is good or not? Learn to dare to fight and take action to try to have a chance of success.

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Through the above discussion, it is proved that a capable person is both an ordinary person and an extraordinary person. They suffer more than ordinary people, do more things, think more questions and take longer detours than ordinary people.

Their success is beneficial to people, society and country. Their spirit of daring to struggle and create deserves our study and respect.