75-year-old mother-in-law's heart: What are the four things that future generations will not dislike if they live to 100?

Everyone is fair in the face of time.

It never favors anyone, nor does it give preferential treatment to anyone. All my hair turned white, and the past was in a hurry and I never looked back.

Finally, you will find one thing: not everyone can face aging calmly.

Because in the past, not everyone could get what they wanted.

The old people who are most in line with the public's vision should be like this: surrounded by children and grandchildren, all filial, healthy and happy.

Only in this way can everything go smoothly.

But back in real life, it is really difficult to do this.

I once heard an old man lament that it was disgusting to live too long, so she didn't want to live too long. It's best to die in an accident while she's awake and still moving.

Sounds a little sad.

But the old man is really not very happy.

At the age of 74, she has four children, two sons and two daughters, but in the face of her pension problem, the children are pushing each other off.

Everyone is afraid of taking on more responsibilities, which means pain.

Although she is old, she is not stupid and can see everything. But she can only play dumb. At this moment, she has no right to speak.

When I get old, I am most afraid of the word No Country for Old Men.

But when it is inevitable, there is no other way but to face it calmly.

At this time, another old man said that if children are not so filial, as parents, sometimes they should find reasons from themselves.

After all, there are many unfilial children, and there are so many children. If they are all unfilial, it's time to reflect on themselves.

She said, "You should think about whether there is anything annoying about yourself. Don't think that your children won't doubt you. They are all human beings. If you do something wrong, you will definitely be unhappy when you are a child. If you are unhappy, you will not be filial to you. "

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The old man is 75 years old and a kind old lady. Although she is no longer young, she is still very energetic. She said that she had been exercising.

The descendants of the old people are very filial. Others say that her life is good, but she says that she has so many lives, mainly relying on her own consciousness.

She once said: "People who live to 100 will not be disgusted if they can do four things well when they are old."

The first thing is to take care of your health.

The mother-in-law said that taking care of herself is not only taking care of herself, but also not doing what she knows she can't do.

She said: "Many people know that they have diseases such as high blood pressure, and doctors also remind them to pay attention to their diet. It happened that some people just don't believe in evil and eat everything, and eat well every meal. Who do you want to show them if they are sick? You can't move when you are sick, and it is a child's business. "

Old people pay attention not only to diet, but also to exercise. Every morning after breakfast, they go to the park for a few laps and then go home.

So she has been in good health until now, walking fast and without procrastination.

This point has also been deeply recognized by mothers since childhood.

Grandma who grew up is the kind who depends on her age, but she is not as old as that mother-in-law. She is 73 years old. She sits on the sofa all day and doesn't like going out, but she still eats meat. She grows fatter and fatter. Some time ago, she has reached the point where she can't lift her feet.

This is a headache for my little mother. Tucao's mother-in-law doesn't take good care of herself and is afraid of death. She takes all kinds of medicine. If she is uncomfortable here, she will take medicine there. Sometimes she has to take medicine four or five times a day, but she just won't listen.

The second thing, the old man said, is to love cleanliness.

No one likes a person who doesn't like cleanliness, especially when he is old, his metabolism will slow down, and if he doesn't love cleanliness, he will definitely feel worse.

That mother-in-law really loves cleanliness. She keeps herself clean and the house is not messy at all. She sweeps the floor every day.

She said it was a habit left over from childhood. As long as I insist, I can keep it and clean it up easily. It is considered as exercise.

On the other hand, it's really annoying that old people are too untidy.

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There is a mother-in-law across the street from my house. She is 78 years old and lives with her youngest son. Some time ago, her long-married daughter came back, and she would rather sleep on the sofa than with her mother at night.

Her daughter whispered, "Mom's room smells of urine, so I can't sleep at all."

Her daughter-in-law often spits, and her mother-in-law doesn't like to be clean and says she doesn't move. How can she be so lazy and not tidy up?

Love is cleaner, your heart is smoother and outsiders are more comfortable.

The third thing, the old man said, "Don't talk too much even in front of the children. Don't say too much about what you should say, especially don't care about children. "

The old man really knows. She never cares about her own business. She just said to take care of her life.

If a child complains to her, she will comfort her, but she will never speak ill of anyone.

Some old people are just defeated by words.

I've heard many similar things:

When her mother-in-law is old, she lives with her son and daughter-in-law. As a result, she started first, demanding everyone with her own principles of life, and some even had to take care of water and electricity.

My mother said something.

A mother-in-law lives in her son's house and thinks that her daughter-in-law gives her granddaughter more living expenses every month. She kept saying that she shouldn't give so much, that she was wasting, that she had worked hard before, and that she only used so much.

As a result, my daughter-in-law quarreled with her and said, "You didn't earn the money. How do you care? "

Later, it broke up in discord, and the daughter-in-law always had opinions.

The fourth thing, the old man said, "Be polite in front of the children."

The old man thinks that as long as he can move, he should do his own thing, and don't put on airs with his elders in front of the children, thinking how great he is.

Her two daughters-in-law are also very kind to her, because there is really nothing to choose from.

She went to her son's house, and once her daughter-in-law was not soft enough to cook. She is a little old and can't eat, but when the daughter-in-law asks her if she is used to eating?

She even boasted: "Habit, delicious, you are all very capable, you see I ate a big bowl."

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She is always like this, no matter which child's house she goes to, no matter whether it is delicious or not, she is full of praise. Even her two daughters said, "Mom is very polite."

She lives in her hometown town and seldom goes to the children's house in the city except in special circumstances.

Therefore, more often, her children will choose to drive to the town to see her, and when they leave, she always asks them to bring their own dishes.

One year, she accidentally broke her leg while walking, so she had to stay in bed for a while. Her children said to take her to the city.

She refused to go at all, insisting that her other foot was ready and she could move by herself.

First, her eldest son picked her up and couldn't persuade her. Then he called the other three, and then they all drove by together just to pick her up.

I'm going back as soon as my legs are healed, and no one can stay, saying that I've caused them trouble.

Her children say that mom is very kind.

But the reality is that the more polite she is, the more filial her children are.

She is still the tough, clean and polite old lady. I heard that this year's Spring Festival, everyone agreed to go to see her together, and then spend the Spring Festival in their hometown.

Before going, she called and said not to go. The epidemic is so serious that everyone stays in their own homes. Health is the most important thing.

Everyone listens to her.

Aging is inevitable for everyone.

But showing yourself is a controllable thing.

The mother-in-law said that when people are old, the most taboo is to lean on the old and sell the old. If you want to be happy in your later years, you must not knowingly commit a crime and step on some mistakes.