20 18 can I go to the grave to worship my ancestors on the Dragon Boat Festival on the fifth day of the fifth lunar month?
One of the most important and common contents of Dragon Boat Festival is offering sacrifices to ancestors.
1, not only Qu Yuan, a poet who threw himself into the river, but also Wu Zixu, a loyal minister, and Cao E, a filial daughter, died in some places. On this day, many zongzi are wrapped and then thrown into the river, just like being buried in the grave for the dead, while the rest are enjoyed by themselves, so zongzi is actually a sacrifice.
2. It is inevitable to feel sad when offering sacrifices. Therefore, like Tomb-Sweeping Day, the Japanese artificially created a powerful Yin Qi, and these Yin Qi, like Yang Qi, will also hurt the physically and mentally weak.
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Such as depression, bad mood, physical pain and so on. Therefore, the Dragon Boat Festival is not suitable for anything, let alone inauguration, moving, construction, opening, marriage, celebration and other festive activities. It is also not suitable for participating in recreational activities. Visiting parents and reuniting with family is the right choice.
According to the calendar, Dragon Boat Festival is not a good day to worship ancestors.
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Don't open the market for the Yang Gong anniversary by praying and marrying Nakai. Zhai Zhai Zhai was built, and when he went to his post, he invited his descendants to beam and plant it as a gift, offering sacrifices to Enshi's cave, and setting up coupons to build dikes.
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Don't build a bed in Yang Gong to avoid the anniversary. Break ground and start drilling and burying. Acupuncture entered the house, moved away from home, traveled far away, eased medical care, and built a house with columns.
From the Gregorian calendar, we can see that Yang Gong's memorial day should not be used in all taboos, which shows that this day is a broken day (that is, Qu Yuan's memorial day) and it is not suitable for holding major activities. Therefore, according to tradition, it is impossible to worship ancestors; What are the precautions for ancestor worship? The choice of flowers
It is usually chrysanthemum, because chrysanthemum is regarded as a flower of sustenance in ancient China, which means missing and nostalgia. White chrysanthemum is the most suitable, and it can be matched with some green grass, such as lily, green leaves and carnations, which will be more beautiful. Huang Ju, known as Longevity Chrysanthemum, is more suitable for visiting patients.
Pregnant women are not suitable for participation.
It is often said that pregnant women should avoid mountain climbing worship activities, and not only that. Strictly speaking, it is best for women not to participate in such activities during their holidays, especially after 3 pm. Remind friends: our motherland is vast, and the custom of sweeping graves in the north and the south is slightly different. For example, in the south, children usually go to the grave, while in some places in the north, daughters usually don't. If they are married daughters, they will go to the grave with their husbands.
Laughing and cursing are inappropriate.
Because the cemetery is the home of ghosts, you should not go over graves and offerings, make loud noises, ridicule and curse, use foul language, run around and touch, and urinate everywhere. This is not only a disrespect for your ancestors, but also a harassment of nearby gods. You can't trample on other graves or criticize the design of graves, which will be considered blasphemy. If you encounter a bad atmosphere, you will get into trouble and go home.
Not suitable for taking pictures
In China, ancestor worship is not only to commemorate ancestors, but obviously means to worship and pray for the dead. Special reminder to friends: whether it is the grave sweeper himself or the grave sweeper and cemetery, you should be careful when taking pictures in the graves of your ancestors. It is even more taboo to bring other graves into the camera when taking pictures. Otherwise, your fortune is likely to decline and be unbalanced in all aspects.