20 15 years, I am 50 years old, knowing my destiny, and I realize that, as my father said, I tolerate other people's lives. Is my life really bad?

In ancient China, there was a saying that a person had two fortunes, three geomantics, four virtues and five studies. Life refers to a family born in poverty and a family born in wealth. The second luck refers to a person's fortune, the four virtues refer to how many good deeds you have, and the fifth is that you should read more books if you want to change your destiny. And what you say is only because of your character. Nothing to do with life. I suggest you don't count eight characters. One's luck is to drop one layer at a time.