How about 202 1 lunar September 23rd? Can we have a funeral that day?
Gregorian calendar 202 1 year1October 28th Thursday Scorpio (Gregorian calendar)
202 1 year lunar September 23rd (lunar calendar).
Today's Gregorian calendar is appropriate.
Avoid everything today and don't use it to do great things.
Today's yellow calendar is taboo.
Avoid everything today and don't use it to do great things.
It can be seen from the above-mentioned places in today's Gregorian calendar that funerals are not allowed on this day.
A detailed introduction of funeral taboos.
1, don't cry when you are dying, drop your tears on the dead.
At the funeral ceremony, relatives and friends of the deceased should remain calm. At this time, no one is allowed to cry, otherwise, the dead will not be able to leave, their souls will not be able to ascend to heaven, but will stay in the funeral home. If you accidentally drop your tears on the deceased because you cry, it will make the deceased wander around the world and cannot be reincarnated.
2, avoid burial, pallbearers say heavy words.
During the funeral, the pallbearers should keep quiet and avoid talking about the word "heavy". If you accidentally blurt it out, it may lead to changes, for example, the coffin is heavier and harder to lift, or the coffin falls to the ground when moving.
Don't cut your hair or shave your beard during mourning.
According to folk custom, their relatives can't have their hair cut and shave during the funeral at home. It is generally believed that this is to express extreme grief, so that it is impossible to take care of pruning. And its other purpose is to ward off evil spirits and make itself look different from usual by unkempt appearance, so that the undead can't recognize it and avoid being disturbed.