8 1 High EQ Chatting Skills

1. Replace "What's your name" with "May I know your name"? .

2. Replace "Do you understand" with "Did I make myself clear?" .

3. Replace "hungry" with "eat".

4. Replace "I know" with "Thanks for reminding me".

5. Replace "I don't know" with "Maybe I can find out".

6. Replace "I can't" with "I can learn".

7. Change "whatever" to "whatever you say".

8. Replace "Hmm", "Mm-hmm" and "Oh" with "OK", "Got it" and "No problem".

9. Replace "How do I know" with "I don't quite understand this".

10, replace "I haven't seen it" with "It sounds great".

1 1. Replace "I can't drink" with "I am good at pouring wine".

12. Replace "I'm not available" with "I'm in a hurry".

13 Replace "thank you" with "you".

14. Replace "what you said is wrong" with "what you said is very good, but".

15, replace "I don't smoke" with "you smoke".

16. Replace "Go away" with "I need to calm down".

17. Replace "Thank you for waiting" with "Thank you for your patience".

18, replace "not bad" with "quite good".

19. Replace "Are you there" with "Are you there?" What I'm trying to say is. "

20. Replace "I was wrong" with "I'm sorry, I was wrong".

2 1, put "How have you been recently?" Replace it with "what's going on"

22. Play "Do you remember me?" Replace it with "I met XXX last time".

23. Replace "I thought so" with "I misunderstood".

24. Replace "Leave me alone" with "I listen to your opinions".

25. Replace "You are so stupid" with "You are very thoughtful".

26. Replace "it doesn't matter" with "I'm ok".

27. Replace "too annoying" with "you are happy".

28. Replace "You are too troublesome" with "You are too lively".

29. Replace "you can't do it" with "you work harder".

Replace "you came home so late" with "I've been waiting for you".

3 1, put "What do you want to eat?" Replace it with "I recommend that these families are very good."

32. Replace "You don't know how to care about me" with "Your concern makes me very happy".

33. Replace "You are great" with "Master is by my side".

34. Replace "lying in the trough" with "a thousand words in my heart".

35. Replace "Break up" with "I need to be alone for a while".

36. Replace "You are so ugly" with "You are so cute".

37. Replace "You are beautiful" with "Wow, you are beautiful".

38. Replace "You are so handsome" with "You are Daniel Wu himself".

39. Replace "hahaha" with "You are so funny".

40. Play "Tired?" Replace it with "Let's take a break".

4 1. When chatting, replace "I" with "we".

42. Speak, and replace "but" with "and".

43. Others praise you for your good figure and replace "no" with "you are different, even if you have a good figure, your face value is still so high".

44. Some people praised you for your good capacity for drinking, replacing "I can't drink well" with "I really can't drink, mainly because you are in a good mood and have a different capacity for drinking".

45. When someone calls you sick, replace "you are sick" with "you are not infected".

46. Some people praised you for your good looks, replacing "you are good-looking" with "you are better, not only good-looking, but also so pleasing to speak".

47. The leader said that you had worked hard. Replace "not difficult" with "nothing, you should do it." Leadership is harder than me! " .

People tell you that the clothes you are wearing today are really beautiful. Replace "OK" with "Thank you, your hairstyle is good today."

49. People say that you are a little short. What does it matter to you that I am short? Replace it with "No way, it's all given by Yan value".

50. When the leader praises you for doing a good job this time, replace "thank you for your praise" with "leaders have taught you well".

5 1. Some people say that they want to go to the movies, so they change "What movie to watch" to "When am I free now".

52. First affirm the views that you don't fully agree with, and then put forward your new views in a supplementary way.

53. When asking for help from others, add "OK" at the end of the sentence.

54. When someone sends you a smile on WeChat and you don't know how to reply, just say "Your smile is beautiful".

55. When someone asks if you are in, you say, "Tell me what's going on first, and then I'll decide whether to change my pants." .

56. Don't just say "hello" on the phone. You'd better add "hello" at the end, which will show politeness and respect for each other.

57. When you receive a gift from others, don't say "thank you", but say how you feel when you receive the gift.

When someone says "thank you for your help", you can say "I'm a stranger, don't mention it, I need to trouble you in the future".

59. When someone praises you: "You are so talented", you can say: "Thank you for your compliment, I appreciate your vision more.

60. When someone says "Your face value is really high", you can say "I like the way you tell the truth so seriously".

6 1. When someone asks you how old you are, you can reply: "Everyone says I am like 18, Da Chun, and you are just like you".

62. Don't make fun of other people's shortcomings.

63. Don't say things you shouldn't say in front of others.

64. Don't eat too much, it will be cooked quickly.

65. Auntie should be called Sister, and Sister should be called Beauty.

66. Don't impose your views on others.

67. See through without saying anything, and leave some room for others.

68. When you don't understand, it is wiser to keep silent.

69. Others can laugh at themselves, but you must never agree.

70, learn to refuse, you have the right to say no.

7 1, don't try to win every conversation. If you win the truth, you lose your feelings.

72. Don't deny what others say they like.

You can laugh at your friend, but you can't laugh at what he likes.

74. When sharing the glory, mention those who have helped you.

75. When chatting, pay attention to whether others are interested in what you say.

76. Don't embarrass others by exposing their shortcomings in public.

77. Don't tell the secret to the wind, it will spread all over the forest.

78. When praising others, don't be too vague, but pay attention to the specific praise details.

79. Don't promise others easily; you must do what you promise.

80. Talk about food when you don't know what to talk about.

8 1. Talk to friends when you feel uncomfortable, but don't always pass on negative energy to others.