28 details, let you learn to know people at a glance.

See through a person's personality and heart through details, so that you can see through human nature and read people's hearts.

1. If you feel uncomfortable at first sight, it means you are not suitable. Trust your first instinct and try to reduce the chances of dealing with people who don't get along well.

2. If you want to know a person thoroughly, you can visit the place where he lives. People who often tidy their rooms and work regularly have an optimistic life. You can't observe your heart through appearances, but you can see a person's attitude towards life through your heart.

3. Look at people not only by their mouths, but also by their actions. Only when words and deeds are consistent will you know whether he is reliable or not.

4. Details can most easily reflect a person's quality. For example, people who pay attention to the volume in public places, people who pay attention to the back when pushing the door, and courtesy to the elderly/children on the subway. Usually, people who are considerate and inarticulate will convey their sincere praise through some small gestures rather than words, such as double-clicking praise.

5, people you are familiar with are easy to "naturally disperse". Because they will not deliberately maintain a peaceful relationship, they will soon ignore some people.

6. If you accidentally do something wrong, people who like you will understand without explanation, and it is useless to explain to people who don't like you at ordinary times. Therefore, people who know you can't explain it, and people who don't understand you can't explain it. You don't need to waste your breath.

7. People who laugh unsuspecting are usually warm and kind. At least they look friendly and friendly.

8. A friend who wants you to have a good life doesn't necessarily want you to have a better life than him. Don't be spoiled by jealousy. If you want to tell your friend good news, you can say, "I bought a car, but I have to pay back the car loan every month." In this way, my friends will sound more balanced, not only can they put away their jealousy, but also can maintain a good relationship.

9. An optimistic and cheerful person will not change his mind because of the sulfur of life. This kind of person is always smiling and broad-minded. It will be much better to get along with such people more.

10, a person is not strong, and the gas field can be seen. There is this person sitting quietly, but there is an inviolable aura. Some people are tall and powerful, but they don't look as terrible as they thought. If you want to keep others in awe of you, you can start by improving your own aura. Good image, hard strength and wide connections can directly enhance your aura.

1 1, argue irrationally, people who talk a lot are usually more subjective than others or think of others without putting themselves in their shoes. They want to prove that they are right and get the recognition of each other, but usually they don't think from each other's point of view.

12, people who don't make friends at ordinary times are not necessarily quiet. TA is in his own interpersonal circle, maybe there is another side, maybe it is gossip.

13, birds of a feather flock together, people are divided into groups, and what kind of people have what kind of circles. Judge what kind of person he is. As long as you look at his friends, you will know that people who can learn actively often have many hidden skills, and they will never be eliminated by the times.

15, if a person is out of place with his surroundings, is maverick and does things that ordinary people dare not or cannot do, then he is either a genius or a madman.

16, people who laugh outside and feel sad inside usually have helplessness in their laughter. They often have deeper pain than those who write sadness on their faces.

17. People who look unhappy and not angry at ordinary times are hard to control once they are angry.

18, tell the truth after drinking. Those who can control their alcohol consumption are often more likely to achieve great things. On the contrary, those who ignore and shout after drinking are the most likely to screw things up.

19, people who applaud after watching a performance are often tolerant and understanding. Just as a person likes this content when he sees it, he must be a person who understands and respects others.

20. Behavior is the mirror of personality. Every move of the other person can be used as a reference for you to know people. For example, when communicating with each other, TA's eyes have been dodging, mostly because of psychological inferiority or shyness.

2 1, people who often ask rhetorical questions in communication are mostly self-righteous and conceited. They often say "don't you" and "do you understand?" This kind of unequal and disrespectful language communication makes people feel disgusted and stay away from it.

22, chatting often does not stand in line, and people who are Monday morning quarterback are not very reliable. They are always bluffing. It's easy to mess things up at a critical moment by misleading others.

23. Everything likes to win or lose. It will definitely not be a winner, but a fiasco.

24. When a person is angry, test self-cultivation; When you are alone, you test your character. Solving emotions is always before solving problems.

25, new integration into a group, don't rush to line up, keep silent and be a bystander, you will find more.

26. The more people talk nonstop, the more people say everything, and the less smart they are. It is the hardest for such people to keep secrets from you.

27. Effective ways to get to know people through communication:

(1) Find a quiet and relaxing environment. A relaxed environment can relax the vigilance of the other party, and the words spoken are more valuable;

(2) Choose a topic related to him. Let the other person feel valued, and he will listen and reply to what you say more directly;

(3) In an easy-going way. If you treat him as a friend, he will treat you as a friend and make the other person feel friendly and cordial in an ordinary and easy-going way.

28. What are the really powerful people like? Dare to change in comfort, be self-disciplined when you are alone, and be willing to treat others as usual when you are down and out.