Gong Li, 55 years old, overweight, was teased and searched. I see the greatest evil of public opinion to women.

Unexpectedly, Gong Li will one day be ridiculed for her figure.

There is an entertainment news that says: Gong Li and her husband jean michel jarre appear in the street, and Gong Li is wearing a pink dress with suspenders, but her figure seems to be much rounder.

Some media say that Gong Li is a kind of "happy and fat". In any case, the subtext is "the goddess is in poor shape. You see, she is only 55 years old and getting fatter and fatter. "

I went to see the photos of Gong Li. Isn't it in good shape? My arms are a little thick, so what? Wearing a pink dress with suspenders is a bit fleshy, but what's the matter? Is this a bad figure? Do you have to be thin to look good?

Gong Li's figure is the best now, what's more, she never pursues thinness, which is a kind of "healthy beauty".

In the comments, many netizens also voiced for Gong Li:

"What are you fat about? Do you know how to respect women?"

"It's not just thin bamboo poles that are the stars."

"Don't be so hard on women, she is also an ordinary person."

We have to admit an objective reality. Public opinion has always been a double standard for men and women. Men get fat in middle age, as if it's nothing. If women gain weight in middle age, they will be called out of shape, especially the female stars in the entertainment circle, who will be severely treated by some people. It seems that in their eyes, women have to be thin, and women look good when they are thin. Isn't this aesthetic itself very morbid?

Gong Li's figure is not "fat", but very symmetrical, not to mention fat and "out of shape".

Gong Li, 55 years old, with a fat figure, was ridiculed and searched, and I saw the greatest evil of public opinion to women.

02

Speaking of public opinion's double standard of "male and female figure", I have to mention the apology of actor Wang Zhi some time ago.

In "Braving the Wind and Waves", Wang Zhi was voted back by netizens and entered the Resurrection Competition, which also made us see her figure on the stage. After Sister Lang's resurrection, Wang Zhi was scolded for hot search for two reasons: first, she ignored team selection and Wang Feifei PK, and second, because of her chubby figure.

Actually, I want to say that Wang Zhi's apology is unnecessary. Why did he apologize?

She shouldn't bite off more than she can chew with Wang Feifei PK, but why should she apologize for her fat figure?

Isn't Wang Zhi in good shape?

Can you wear such tight clothes without showing your meat? Wang Zhi is still thin, but she is still treated severely. Some people even think that she is fat because of her thin figure, which is really speechless.

Wang Zhi said in an apology:

"I'm not afraid of pressure, and I'm not afraid of difficulties. It's just that I didn't control my diet for decompression during this time, and my body management was a little lax. I'm really sorry for not giving you a good performance. I will definitely exercise well in the next day, waiting for my sister to slim down! "

I have to say that it is really difficult for female stars in the entertainment circle to apologize for "not controlling their diet" one day.

Which male star do you think needs this?

The host Qian Feng is so fat that everyone still ignores him, and everyone's attitude towards him is ridiculous.

And Xu zhēng, whose stomach has turned into a ball, went on a hot search, and netizens praised him as cute, and this matter passed. It's really harsh for a female star here.

It seems that in the eyes of the world, this female star just can't be fat. If she is a little fatter, she will be ridiculed by the group and become "heinous"; Male star? It doesn't matter. It's cute to get fat. Isn't this a double standard?

We have to admit, in fact, the fatal injury of men in China is obvious, and their ability to resist pressure, including self-discipline, is not as good as that of women.

Take keeping in shape as an example. You see how many middle-aged female stars have nothing to say. Yi Nengjing, 52, is as tight as a girl. The 50-year-old Wenjing has become a thin bamboo pole; Faye Yu, 49, has no choice in figure; And Summer Xu, who is 5 1 year old, is like a girl who is 18 years old.

How many male stars in the entertainment circle can do this in middle age?

Look at Daniel Wu, once a male god, but now he has become a fat uncle, more and more like "Su Daqiang", but people don't care so much. If this matter is put on a female star, it is estimated that she will be scolded to death.

Women can be strict with themselves and become perfect women according to their own pursuits, but at any time, public opinion should not be double-marked. Don't think that it is normal for men to gain weight, but it is a heinous crime for women to gain weight. Other men even blame women for their infidelity, which is ridiculous.

03

In reality, some men will blame their depravity on women.

A few days ago, I wrote an article about Wang Yuelun's suspected infidelity, because many people attributed Wang Yuelun's indiscretion with other women to Li Xiang's being too strong. At that time, I was deeply impressed by a reader's comments, which also represented the general idea of some men:

"It is wrong for a man to cheat. But there are four reasons. First, there is a tigress at home and she doesn't feel the warmth she deserves. Secondly, women gain weight after giving birth after marriage, and men's interest in women decreases; Thirdly, men have strong self-esteem and feel depressed and tasteless about the lifestyle of career-oriented women, that is, strong women; Fourth, there is no democracy at home and business is good. The woman controls family fortune and controls family fortune as a magic weapon to control men. "

I was really furious when I saw this comment. Oh, these are some men.

Men make mistakes in marriage, not from themselves, but from women. Everything is women's fault, and four reasons are on women's heads. What family has a tigress, what women get fat after marriage, what women can't stand strong women, and what women control men's money, they care too much. Why not say it's your fault? Are you so afraid of taking responsibility?

In my opinion, some men in China are pampered and feel superior, but they are cowards. How incompetent they are to make women pay for their mistakes.

Why do men cheat in marriage? I mean, this has nothing to do with a woman. It's all up to him This is the man's own fault. Please find the reason from yourself, instead of blaming the woman for her infidelity and so-called depravity.

In the TV series "Standing at Thirty", I like a sentence by Wang Manni: "At this time, you are still accusing her of giving you pressure. Every time she asks you, she always marks herself as 100% first. Should you think about it? You don't deserve her, and you take your wife's perfection as a reason for cheating. Is it too low? "

Some men really don't know good or bad. When their wives gain weight, he doesn't like their deformed and unattractive bodies. His wife is beautiful and good in every way. He also said that his wife was too strong. Why not look for reasons from yourself? Many times, it is men's own incompetence that creates the so-called "women are strong and men are weak" model.

Don't deny that this is a fact.

Don't be too double-standard for women's bodies. It's normal to gain a little weight. Some people cheat, don't say it's the wife's fault. What wife is out of shape? Why didn't you say you changed your mind? Find more reasons from yourself and be less malicious to women. We women can be strict with ourselves, but we will never allow others to be so double-marked.

I hope that one day, women will no longer be morbidly thin for beauty, but will pursue health more, and she will not be afraid of being laughed at because she is a little fatter. Not fat? What happened? As long as you are healthy, fullness is also a kind of beauty.

I hope that women can do whatever they want instead of having such a big psychological burden.

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