Uncle Tang died at the age of 80 and had no son. The family decided to let me be a dutiful son. Is it wrong for me to refuse?
Let you be a dutiful son, from the blood relationship, you and your uncle should be very close, from the family relationship, you are a dutiful son, equivalent to the top door, indicating that your uncle is not alone! In fact, making you a dutiful son is not as responsible as you think. It's just to make a fuss and break a basin or something. As for the funeral expenses, I believe your uncle's daughter should not worry you!
As a nephew, you should have a sense of family honor. For the sake of your family and your uncle, you should also hold up this facade, especially in rural areas, where traditional ideas are deeply rooted. If you don't want to be a dutiful son, you will be ridiculed that your uncle is an orphan.
As ordinary men, we may not be able to serve our motherland, but we can stand up for the honor of our family and prevent others from seeing our family jokes. What will outsiders say if you don't stand up? Do you think it sounds good to say that you are not sensible, selfish and unsophisticated?
If you don't do it, your uncle should be buried. As for who should be a dutiful son (your uncle's son-in-law), some people will say, "You are a man in this family, how can you let a man with a foreign surname be a dutiful son ..." Although the present society doesn't care about these forms, in the traditional concept, there are some things you don't want to do, especially in the family, which are responsibilities and responsibilities.
Uncle died, love and reason should be to give the old man a ride. In rural areas, after the death of the old man, the funeral is more exquisite and important. In traditional culture, funerals in rural areas are very grand, and they are commemorative activities held by the living for the dead. On the one hand, it is awe of life, on the other hand, it is to express infinite grief for the deceased.
Perhaps the reason why you don't want to be a dutiful son is that you think this practice is a feudal superstitious activity. If you are wrong, don't simply think that this is a superstitious activity, but a folk custom and a continuation of traditional culture. In the eyes of ordinary people, this is an act of attaching importance to family, and it is an honor to discuss making you a dutiful son at home.
In rural areas, why do you prefer boys to girls? In fact, the biggest factor is that after his death, at least some people devoted themselves to the old basin for Dai Xiao. Since you need to be a dutiful son and lead the old man out, you might as well put down your posture and give him a ride. No matter how the old man treated himself before his death, at least comfort the living, especially respect the old man, because blood ties are linked, which is the inheritance of filial piety and goodness culture.
Everyone is an independent individual, and you have the human right to do it yourself. You can either say yes or refuse. Because he is not good to you, not as good as your parents, and asks you to be filial. However, he must be your elder and related to you by blood. Since ancient times, China's traditional culture has attached great importance to the inheritance of family history. An old friend has no children, and parents let you be filial, which is the respect and love for the old friend and the best opportunity to accumulate blessings for you. Be a man, but ask about the future of Mo Wen by doing good deeds. There must be Qing Yu who accumulates good deeds.