After 70, the eldest sister and the boys after 90 called to fall in love. After 50 days of love, they got married. How is their married life?
Tan Wanping, 23, and Li Liangyou, 46, are both bike lovers. Just six years ago, they took part in the bicycle race at home together. On the way, Li Niang accidentally fell and broke her left clavicle. At that time, Tan Wanping decisively gave up the game and sent Li Niangyou to a nearby hospital for treatment. During his stay in hospital, Tan Wanping often took care of Li Niangyou when he was free. Although the other party is 23 years younger than himself and similar to his son's age, Li Nianyou was deeply attracted by Tan Wanping's kindness and sense of responsibility. After leaving the hospital, they fell in love for a long time and soon called in love. After falling in love for 50 days, they got the certificate by flash marriage.
After the two confirmed their relationship, Li Niang had a surprise to join. Unexpectedly, after the divorce, she got married with a 23-year-old boyfriend. However, Tan Wanping was strongly opposed by his family. His mother angrily questioned Tan Wanping: She is about my age. Have you considered my feelings as a mother? How do you want us to get along and address each other in the future? Have you considered the problem of future children? Faced with such a thing, Tan Wanping and his wife even found Li Niangyou's delay, hoping that they would cut off contacts in the future. In the face of parents' opposition, let Tan Wanping more firmly choose to persist and protect that love.
In addition to the strong opposition of family members, outsiders don't think highly of them, and many colleagues in the cycling circle are also talking about them and saying everything. In addition, in fact, 46-year-old Li Niangyou also has her own concerns. She is worried that Tan Wanping will be more mature in the future. Will his mind change? I'm so much older than Tan Wanping, and I really can't figure out what it will be like in ten or twenty years.
Despite the great pressure, Tan Wanping proposed to Li Nianyou. Tan Wanping thinks that Li Nianyou is mature and sensible, and there are many things that two people can think of together, but in Li Nianyou's view, Tan Wanping will do something practical, firm and determined. After establishing their relationship for more than two months, Li Niangyou and Tan Wanping got married on 20 16 1.5. On the wedding day, the two came to the police station to issue a certificate, and then successfully registered with the Civil Affairs Bureau to receive a marriage certificate.
Speaking of it, Tan Wanping, then 23, used to be a chef, while Li Niangyou was engaged in administrative work in a hospital in Liangping. Both of them are from Liangping, and they met in the cycling hobby group on 20 14.
After their flash marriage, a series of realistic and sharp contradictions followed. First of all, the first point is the problem of children. Tan Wanping said that there is no idea of having children at present, and Li Niang said with a smile that this issue is actually not very important. Secondly, how to integrate into each other's families. Li Niang had a son with her ex-husband, the same age as Tan Wanping. At present, they get along well.
Second, the differences in physical conditions between the two sides are also inevitable. It is not difficult to imagine that Tan Wanping was in his prime decades later, and Li Niang had already passed menopause. At that time, the two of them can also help each other to sue Qi Mei? In this regard, Tan Wanping said: "We have many similar hobbies and have many views and ideas on many things. I think spiritual communication is very important. " Li Niang said: "I was worried that she would change with time, but after getting along with Tan Wanping for a long time, I got to know him better and better. He is a very determined person. " The two are full of confidence in firmly developing this relationship.
Compared with before marriage, Li Niang went to the beauty salon less often, and she didn't like dressing herself up as much as before. Maybe her mind is younger. Many people say that her state looks good. Li Niang said, "I gradually fell in love with doing housework, and we would quarrel." I will give him a little, analyze where the problem appears after each quarrel, and find ways to solve the problem quickly, so we have not quarreled twice because of the same problem. " They have a clear plan for their future life. Tan Wanping studied automobile beauty maintenance in Jiulongpo District, rented a humble house, completed his studies in three months, prepared to go to Liangping to find a related job, and finally opened a direct store. Despite the poor conditions, Tan Wanping still studies hard.
For this kind of love, what Bian Xiao wants to say is that with the more developed society, people's ideas have changed more and become more open and inclusive. Of course, compared with "keeping one person, choosing a city and growing old together" more than 40 years ago, there are more different forms of "dew couples" under richer material conditions. They fell in love with each other at first sight, divorced if they didn't agree with each other, and directly reported that they just got a license in the morning and divorced in the afternoon. No matter what kind of marriage, the more blatant love, the truth must be achieved!
After 70, the eldest sister and the young man after 90 called to fall in love and fell in love for 50 days. What do you think of this?