Tears of 3 million Japanese women: engaging in the customization industry has become their lifeline. what do you think?
Here, there are no short stories cleaned up by movies. There is only one real daily life in a corner, desperate to break free from the daily life of beautiful women who shed tears for better survival: a convenience store girl with a lovely smile has to work several times all day long to make do with supporting her family; A beautiful young lady was walking in a busy street with a small box. She was an "Internet cafe refugee". She rented a house and only wandered around in coffee shops or Internet cafes that were open 24 hours a day.
A beautiful and elegant young woman must put up with everything and become a single mother in the custom-made industry, .............................................................................................................................., in order to save her life and her baby's living expenses and education expenses. Otherwise, if you make a mistake, you will lose everything. Otherwise you are so helpless, you will lose.
As a result, no matter how hard they try, they can't get out of the predicament, and it's hard to have the illusion of transcending class, even if they just transcend from "inhuman life" to "all normal daily life". 20 1 1 year, the Japanese Population Research Institute released an incredible data information: two out of every three single girls people aged 20 -64 will fall into poverty.
If there are not so many "cases" that make people feel obviously uncomfortable, it may be unimaginable. In today's relatively developed Japan, at the bottom of the lower class, there are so many people who have exhausted all their strength. But they are almost there, trapped in the infinite cycle of poverty indefinitely, and inevitably exist "rudely".
19-year-old Tomomi, who used to be at home, is a typical Japanese family style of "men are outside and women are inside". However, my father's unexpected death made me suffer from chronic diseases, and only my odd-job mother could not support three children. As the eldest daughter of the family, You Mei only worked two jobs when she was studying, and also did most of the housework, doing the daily life and spiritual essence of her sisters like her mother.
After working for two years, I have long lost my idealism, and my only wish is expectation. It would be great if I could support my family from 9 am to 9 pm every day. If the poverty in Youmei is caused by an unexpected "accident".
Then, for a 40-year-old single mother like Harumi, she has to take her younger brothers to live a daily life because of divorce, and she has to find a job again after many years. When they divorce, poverty will eventually follow. The husband who had an affair lost all his savings by investing in stocks, so he couldn't give alimony.
Therefore, even if Harumi used to be an announcement employee of the company for sale, due to the fetters of her two children, she could not find a job that was idealistic enough to support her family again in social development. Even if they work harder, they are still not warmly welcomed and discriminated against. Only in a few technical jobs, such as online customer service, administrative clerks, cleaning workers, etc., they are reduced to "dispatching workers" who get 80% of their wages.
Among them, although there is a very big reason because of Japan's "other half deduction rules and regulations"-that is, after marriage, couples who have not announced their work at home can apply for exemption from insurance fees such as pension insurance, and they can also work at home together when filing tax returns to avoid reducing various taxes and fees. In other words, the "bottom" of contemporary Japanese women's poverty, on a very large level, actually came into being with the development of Japanese society, because in terms of "regulations", China encouraged women to become housewives.
Therefore, the traditional "preferential current policy" is favored, so that Japanese women have passed on the benefits of "marriage" in the traditional style from the beginning, ignoring the promotion from culture and education. (PS: There is another reason. According to the survey, in the whole social development of Japan, men are generally in the same position, and their wages are about 20%-40% higher than those of women. In addition, family tax returns make men "more valuable" than women. )
But in Japan, which has experienced years of economic depression, men themselves are doing well. Who wants to get married to increase the risk of poverty? More tragically, class+diploma also determines a person's future life. Therefore, women with low diplomas and middle and low incomes will have a high probability of meeting men in the same situation, and such men generally have various "problems", such as alcoholism, gambling and laziness. Let yourself and your family fall into poverty.
In the end, the ladies had to divorce bitterly and take their children back to social work to make money to survive. I hope they can stay with the children all the time, because this is the last thing I can guarantee; I don't want to. I didn't even think about it. In the "female poverty", the larger poverty group is also a single mother born of "unexpected" pregnancy, and the endless cycle of intergenerational transmission of poverty is difficult.
Lizi, a 35-year-old single mother, has been harmed by Japanese laws and regulations, which do not allow divorce. In order to better raise three children, she has to work four jobs, and her daily life is still difficult. Often divorced from the beginning, because of domestic violence. I didn't even have time to tidy my clothes when I left. I just took my daughter and ran away in a panic. I didn't sue for divorce until I received two other children who were at school and ran far away.
So after the divorce, of course, you can't receive alimony. And a single mother like her, with so much work pressure and four jobs, has no business insurance and no summer vacation, how can she take good care of her children? What's more, it translates into an increase in income, which also greatly increases the management fees of children and gradually falls into an inevitable infinite cycle of poverty.
Ironically, in Japanese society where the service industry is developing rapidly, the best way for them to "save lives" is to work in a customized industry where they can see hotel accommodation and take care of their children. And "extreme" without worrying about service projects. Once you are engaged in this kind of "high-paying" erotic service project (massaging customers in a small room, taking paid guests for a walk, human service projects, etc.). After that, all the guarantees they encountered that could not be generated by the management system of the Ministry of Social Security could be completely covered.
Even a lady with "good standards" can have enough time to give her children a happy living and learning environment. But even if there is such a field as "a straw" in the end, it has a threshold in concrete daily life. If you are younger, more attractive and slimmer, you will have more customers and better income.
However, these older, obese and average-looking people have to go to the "unique" service projects that they can't imagine next, and they are regarded as small animals, which is harmful to the human body in essence. Like/kloc-Gigi, who is 0/6 years old, her parents have long since divorced. When she followed her second-married mother to her stepfather's house, she was not only sexually assaulted by her stepfather, but also "voluntarily" left home to live independently after her stepfather was injured and unemployed.
Then, based on the standards of youth, appearance and slim figure, "help friends" make money to live themselves. But even so, now she only carries a small box every day and walks in a 24-hour coffee shop or Internet cafe, leading a poor life. All this seems to say: poverty has a lady's face. But this is not a joke, but the "truth" that the whole world ignores.
As early as 1995, the United Nations made a report, which clearly put forward a shocking result-70% of the poor households in the world are women! Even more frightening is that no matter how diligent they are, in fact, they can't escape the poor intergenerational transmission cycle system in the end. The reason is very tragic, because the more children from difficult families, the more they will lose the opportunity to receive cultural education.
From my parents, I inadvertently inherited the shortsightedness brought by poor money and the ideological poverty brought by poor information content. For example, some people can apply for various welfare benefits in order to ensure the relatively perfect development of Japanese society. Therefore, some children can live their daily lives without working when they see their parents, so they will gradually lose their intention to study, train and work, and do nothing to live their daily lives.
And if some parents treat their children with the mentality of evading responsibility, the children will subconsciously follow suit. In this way, the vicious circle of poverty is on them, resulting in an inescapable closed-loop control, in which generation after generation is driven. Mr. Lu Xun has a saying that can just respond to this matter: "I mourn his misfortune and hate his contempt."
Although "Women's Poverty" is about the terrible social problems encountered in Japanese social development, it actually has a certain warning significance for China's social development. Although in the end, the book still only draws a difficult problem, puts forward many cases, and makes statistical analysis of many investigations. And from beginning to end, I didn't come up with an answer that can deal with this problem.
But in the final analysis, because of this problem, there may only be a "treatment" method that has been punctured, but there is no clear explanation at all ... Fortunately, I was born in China, and although the influence of women is still numerous and uneven, it is really "many". If we are born, we have no choice. Then how daily life goes, everyone may be able to change-because everyone is their own salvation. what do you think?