When will you go to the grave in the first month of 2023?
When sweeping the grave, take a shovel and sickle, first clean up the weeds on and around the grave, then fill up the small ditch washed by rain with soil, and then sprinkle a new layer of soil on all the graves. The thickness should be covered with old soil, not too thick. Be careful not to take soil before and after the grave, but on both sides of the grave, preferably away from it. Fill in all the places where the soil has been dug, so as not to make people uncomfortable. Don't pat the grave with a shovel after spreading the soil. Slapping hard is disrespectful to your loved ones. Slowly level the soil with a shovel.
Pregnant women can avoid going to the grave. In some areas in the south, both men and women can go to the grave. In the north, daughters generally don't attend her parents' graves. A married daughter can visit her husband's mother-in-law's grave with her husband, and don't frolic when she goes to the grave. Some people think this day is a happy day. After all, there are many activities besides going to the grave.