Ariel Lin was abandoned by his father at the age of five and married into a rich family, but this is a continuation of a tragedy?
Perhaps Ariel Lin should feel this truth the most. From birth to now, Ariel Lin seems to have been in trouble, from one pit to another, endlessly. Outside, we only saw her beautiful light ring, but we didn't understand how hard she lived. Why did Ariel Lin, who was desperately living, end up so tired?
Young people who "repay debts"
Ariel Lin, who was born in Taipei, began to suffer when he was young. At the age of five, my father ran away from home, leaving my brother and her to my mother. The maintenance of daily life suddenly became a heavy burden, which made my mother breathless. Although my mother's income is limited, she has to work outside for that meager salary. Taking care of my brother suddenly became the responsibility of Ariel Lin, who was only five years old. Mother and son are helpless and lead a hard life.
When the salary can't make ends meet, my mother can only live on credit cards. I have run credit cards in every bank, robbing Peter to pay Paul, and try my best to make their brothers and sisters live a good life and receive a good education. But when I was in high school in Ariel Lin, my mother had a stroke and fainted, and the only pillar in the family fell down. The deposit slips of various banks also came to the door, reaching as high as 6.5438+0.2 million RMB. As the eldest sister, Ariel Lin can only take over the family from her mother.
/kloc-When he was 0/6 years old, faced with huge debts, Ariel Lin went to school while desperately taking part in competitions and advertising. Once people work hard, there will be unlimited possibilities. Participated in a beauty contest with a prize of 30,000 yuan, but was unexpectedly selected by a brokerage company and embarked on another life path. Under the packaging of the brokerage company, Ariel Lin hosted, received advertisements and made TV series, and his career became better and better.
Until the idol drama "The Kiss of Pranks" was broadcast, Ariel Lin's fame increased greatly. With more job opportunities and rising wages, she finally paid off all her debts after working for six years. However, during this period, busy Ariel Lin never gave up her studies. With amazing willpower, she was admitted to an ideal national university. Making movies, advertising, going home at night, taking care of her mother and busy studying, she broke through the limits of her body again and again.
In 2008, long-term high-load hard work caused her physical problems. Ariel Lin has been feeling unwell. She was found to have a tumor in her brain and needed surgery. He was admitted to the hospital in 2009 and the operation was very successful. After all, young people have a good foundation and recover quickly. After leaving the hospital, she didn't dare to stop, continued to work, and filmed "I may not love you", which made her famous again.
It is difficult for a rich daughter-in-law
The career is booming, and the family is back on track with her efforts. When everything was just right, the man appeared. Lin Yuchao and I have known each other for 10 years, but they have been meeting at their cousin's wedding. When feelings come, they are always fierce and unstoppable. 20 14, 14 On February 24th, Ariel Lin, who had never had any scandal, suddenly announced that she would hold a wedding with Lin Yuchao in Taipei.
Seeing the handsome rich second generation Lin Yuchao, I always thought that my miserable life was over, but I never thought that marriage was as simple as love. When you get the marriage certificate, you decide that you should not only live with your husband, but also integrate into his family. Lin Yuchao, who comes from a wealthy family, always has very strict family rules, which is too difficult for a person who has worked hard outside since childhood.
For example, my husband once said, "When I am not at home, you can go back to your mother's house when you are free.". It means that when I am at home, you must never go back to your mother's house, which is really harsh for a woman who values her family very much. In addition, the husband also strictly stipulates that Ariel Lin can't fart in front of himself. Husband and wife live together, this kind of thing is inevitable after all, how embarrassing it is for Ariel Lin to say such a thing.
In addition to the husband's request, there are old rules circulating in the family that need to be implemented. After many years of marriage, Ariel Lin greets her in-laws every morning. No matter how busy she is outside, be sure to greet her at 6 o'clock the next morning. Greeting the elders has always been a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, but times have changed and women can go out to work. Leaving home is complicated. As an elder, can't you understand the difficulties of your daughter-in-law?
These are not the biggest problems in marriage. The main trouble now is having children. After six years of marriage, Ariel Lin has not given birth to a son and a half for the Lins, which is a big taboo. Due to the pressure of elders, Ariel Lin can only stop production at present, and even prepare a 65.438+0.5 billion yuan Feng Shui mansion in advance, and everything is ready. But her husband has been working hard in Los Angeles for a long time. When will she get pregnant in China?
There is a lot of pressure to change careers.
When the family was in trouble, Ariel Lin had a job when he was young. But now 38-year-old Ariel Lin, in the face of family difficulties, does she still have a way out? The heroine of idol drama has always been famous, but with the continuous growth of age, her innate advantage has weakened. Moreover, young actors are also going out one after another, and there are countless excellent ones. Is there still a market for idol dramas in Ariel Lin?
For example, Sun Li, an actress of her age, has successfully transformed with the market. From "The Queen of the Palace" to "An Jia", she changed her style of acting and was recognized by the audience. What about Ariel Lin? Still eating Yan value rice. Sooner or later, the unchangeable style will be pushed away by the torrent of the times. Career is her last weapon. Holding her tightly can protect her last dignity and prevent those giants from looking down on her.
Of course, in the face of career difficulties, Ariel Lin chose other ways to solve them. After hearing someone question her unchanging acting skills, she resolutely put down all her work and concentrated on studying and improving herself. I went to London University alone to study for a master's degree in acting, completed all the courses in one year, and launched my graduation work "Lost Taipei" as a producer. Besides, because of studying abroad, she can speak fluent English.
While working hard for her job, she also slowly let go of her hatred for her father. Because of grandpa's death, dad returned to her life, and years of bitterness naturally made Ariel Lin extremely resentful to him. But seeing that there was love in his mother's eyes, his brother longed for his father's love, and Ariel Lin's hatred was passively shaken. Many years later, she took the initiative to contact her father, and the relationship between father and daughter broke the ice. Her parents remarried after 23 years.
Accustomed to putting all the pressure on himself and living for others, Ariel Lin completely lost himself, so he wrote a suicide note at the age of 23. Fortunately, the girl never gave in to her fate, and the difficulties that followed never knocked her down, but she became more and more depressed. Life is hard, but Ariel Lin has been trying to live, stubbornly resisting the sadness in life and making himself invulnerable.
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In Ariel Lin's life, he seems to have been in a state of upgrading. I have been burdened with heavy responsibilities since I was a child. After I got married, I was chained by a rich daughter-in-law. But my busy life has been pushed forward by suffering. Looking back, every step we took was difficult, and some successes may not be wanted at all.
Ariel Lin once said, "Performance is a process of exploring human nature, and I am performing with my life". Perhaps it is through all kinds of hardships that I can realize such an unforgettable philosophy?