13 the laws of the universe let you control your own destiny!
This is an article that is closely related to everyone. We live in a world composed of "tangible" and "intangible". Only by understanding the laws of the universe can we better control our life.
One day, when you were driving to meet an important client, you saw an old couple with a flat tire. You didn't want to take care of it because you were in a hurry, but you felt you had to take care of it, so you stopped the car to help them change their tires. You changed the tire, and the old man will give you a sum of money to show his gratitude. You turned down the old people and wished them good luck. Then you go on your way.
When you arrive at the appointed place, you find that the customer came later than you, and the customer quickly signed an agreement with you.
Do you feel lucky?
But this is not luck, this is the law of the universe.
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Causality law
Nothing in the world happens by accident, and everything happens for a reason. This is the most fundamental law of the universe. People's fate also follows this law.
Socrates, an ancient Greek philosopher, Newton, a great scientist and others also think that this is the most fundamental law of the universe.
People's thinking, language and behavior are all "causes" and will produce corresponding "results". If "cause" is good, then "effect" is also good; If "cause" is bad, then "effect" is also bad.
As long as people have thoughts, they will inevitably continue to "plant causes", and it is up to them to decide whether to plant "good causes" or "evil causes".
Therefore, if you want to build your own destiny, you must first pay attention to and understand what kind of language and behavior your every thought (starting your thinking) will lead to, and what kind of results these languages and behaviors will lead to.
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People's minds (thoughts) are always attracted by the reality that accords with them.
For example, if a person thinks that the road of life is full of traps, he is afraid of falling when going out, of traffic accidents when taking a car, and of being fooled when making friends, then the reality he is in is a dangerous reality, and a little carelessness will really get him into trouble.
Why is this?
The universe itself is made of energy, and everything attracts at the same frequency. What frequency you emit will attract people, things and things to you. That is what we often say: whatever you think will happen, the more you are afraid of what will happen.
The reality that people live in is attracted by people's minds, and people are also attracted by the reality that conforms to their own minds. This mutual attraction is always going on in an unconscious and subconscious way.
A person's mind is negative and ugly, so is his environment, and so are the people around him. A person's mind is positive and kind, then his environment is also positive and kind, and he will also attract positive and kind people to his side.
If a person can control his mind and focus on the people, things and things that are beneficial to him, he will attract them into his life and they will attract him.
Therefore, controlling the mind (thoughts) is the basic idea of fate. Learn to be a man before you do things, and always remember to cultivate your mind and cultivate your nature.
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Confident law
If a person really believes that something will happen, whether it is good or evil, good or bad, it will definitely happen to this person.
For example, a person is convinced that positive things will happen to him, and positive things will happen. And if a person is sure that he is dying, that person will die soon.
Therefore, it is the principle of destiny to replace bad beliefs with good ones.
Honesty is a blessing. If you want to accumulate blessings for yourself, you need to establish honesty first. This will form a virtuous circle and life will be smoother and smoother.
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Relaxation law
Only when people relax can they achieve the best results. Any mental slack or impatience will bring bad results.
What mentality is the best mentality? The answer is the clearer the better!
Aim at the ideal personality, ideal realm, ideal interpersonal relationship and ideal life you want;
Don't worry about when these things will come. Relax, work hard and do what you have to do, and these things will come to you one by one.
On the contrary, the more persistent and anxious you are, the less you can get the ideal result, or even get the opposite result.
For example, on a hot night, there is no electricity, and you lie in bed sweating, unable to sleep and miserable, always wondering when the damn electricity will come. Electricity always doesn't come when you are in a hurry, but when you finally have enough, people are quiet, stable, naturally cold, falling asleep, electricity comes, and suddenly your room is brightly lit and the electric fan is turned on.
This is not a coincidence, not a superstition. This is the law, this is the law of relaxation.
It is also worth noting that the so-called mindlessness does not mean that there is no thought in my heart, but that I have thoughts but don't stay. "I have nothing to live for."
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existing legislation
People can't change the past and can't predict the future. We only live in the present, and we can only decide and change ourselves at this moment. One's own thoughts, language and behavior. The past and the future do not exist, only the present is real.
Therefore, the focus and starting point of building destiny can only be "the present", and there is no other way.
According to the law of attraction, if people always mourn the past, they will be trapped in the old reality they want to change. If people are always worried about the future, people's worries will attract unwanted situations to reality.
The correct attitude should be, regardless of good or bad fate, actively focus on adjusting the current thoughts, language and behavior, and fate will develop in a good direction unconsciously.
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Eighty-twenty law
In order to achieve a certain goal, it takes 100% effort.
20% of the results will appear in our efforts or results. The remaining 80% is invisible, or will be invisible for a while, but it will continue to affect us and repay us in the next life.
This is a very important law. Many people lose confidence and give up when they pursue their goals because they can't see obvious results for a long time.
To know that fate is a long-term thing, you must have enough patience.
Don't expect to pay 100% effort and get 100% return immediately. As long as we do it in the right direction, with the right attitude and firm enough, we will get all the rewards.
The time and wisdom of the universe are not completely visible to us at present. Only the accumulation of quantity and continuous efforts can achieve qualitative changes. Everything we do comes back to us in various forms, which is also one of the laws of the universe.
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Legitimate law
Each of us will get everything we deserve, not everything we want.
This "deserved" is what we do, what we think and what kind of faith we send out will be rewarded.
Zen master Yungu is right, and teacher Fan is right: a daughter is worth her, and those who starve to death will starve to death. This is a fact.
Everything we have is not for nothing, and we should get it. Similarly, if we can't get it, it proves that what we want is not what we deserve.
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Altruism law
"Altruism" means helping others and benefiting others. If you think of others everywhere and benefit others, the person who benefits the most in the end is yourself.
Altruism is not to sacrifice oneself or neglect oneself, but to build greater value through the relationship of life and the energy cycle of giving and receiving.
For example, if you make everyone around you happy, the happiest person in the end must be yourself. You have fulfilled the achievements and success of others, and the person who finally achieved the greatest success is yourself.
Another example: some companies were founded for the naked pursuit of profit maximization, and these companies are often short-lived and disappear within a year or two; And those companies that are committed to providing quality services to customers and quality products to the society are often enduring and growing.
This is a law that harms others and does not benefit others.
It is worth mentioning that in the law of altruism, improving self-worth and improving the value of others often happen at the same time. When you improve the value of others, your self-worth will also improve immediately.
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Law of giving and receiving
The law of giving and receiving is the law of conservation of energy: whatever you give will eventually be returned to you in multiples.
For example, if you give money or material, you will get many times in return; If you give others happiness, you will get the happiness that others return to you. If you give stability and reassure others, you will be doubly happy.
Similarly, if you cause anxiety, hatred, anger and sadness to others, you will get these feedbacks many times.
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Principle of not reporting in kind
This principle is that the less you pay, the greater the return.
The universe is an extremely accurate actuary. Anything you give will eventually come back to you in various forms. When you give with a pure heart, there is no selfish desire and delusion at all, and the reward you get will be the purest and richest.
Just like the example given at the beginning of this article, so please remember: giving is more blessed than receiving, and giving is a great blessing in itself, and there is no need to get a return from the receiver. Weigh an elephant (stone). Everyone says that if an elephant is given another silk scarf (in return), how much weight will the elephant gain?
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Love yourself principle
Learn to truly love yourself: not narcissistic and selfish.
Love and accept yourself, regardless of poverty, wealth, illness and health.
If a person does not love himself, then he can't love anyone.
Only by learning to love yourself and having the ability to love can we love others and the world. Only when you are truly happy, stable and fearless can you have a broad mind.
If you don't even love yourself, then you can't really love anyone. This is very important.
Some people equate self-love with selfishness, which is a misunderstanding. If you know it carefully, you will find that if you don't like yourself and are dissatisfied with yourself, it is easy to have jealousy and resentment. I am also a member of all living beings. Why do you love all sentient beings while rejecting yourself?
So please know yourself first, make good friends with yourself first, and then talk about loving other beings.
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Forgiveness principle
If negative thoughts are compared to a tree, then its root is "anger". If the roots are cut off, the tree won't live long. If you want to cut off this root, you must know how to forgive.
The first people who need to forgive and forgive are your parents. No matter what bad things your parents have done or are doing to you, you should forgive them completely and thoroughly.
The second object to forgive is all those who have hurt or are hurting you in any way. Remember that you don't need to play with them or be good friends with them. You can simply and thoroughly forgive them and cut off the roots of the negative tree.
The third person to be forgiven is yourself. No matter what bad things you have done in the past, you should forgive yourself and sincerely repent and repent. Errors need to be corrected, not punished.
Forgiveness and forgiveness are not for others. But for ourselves. In order to make yourself in life, don't always bear the burden of pain and resentment; In order to be truly free; For ourselves, we will not always be swallowed up and dragged down by resentment and negativity.
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Principle of responsibility
As human beings, each of us must be responsible for everything.
We need to understand that our life is our own, not others'. We need to be responsible for our own lives; Be responsible for your own choices; Take responsibility for your mistakes; Be responsible for your actions, words and thoughts.
When people take a responsible attitude towards themselves, they will be full of strength and will continue to move in a better direction. Only by being responsible for yourself can you live a real life. You won't depend on others for everything, you won't always put yourself in the victim's position and wait for help, and you won't always stop complaining.
Please always remind yourself that I am fully responsible for all my words and deeds, circumstances and life.