Named and renamed seven bogeys 20 17!
Names were originally intended to facilitate people's communication, but many people's names in life are neither fish nor fowl, male nor female. No matter what the original intention is, this naming method of "not male or female" will objectively bring negative effects on interpersonal relationships. The natural attributes of both sexes in temperament and personality make women use words that reflect tenderness, beauty and virtue, while men are used to naming them with words that reflect vitality, broadmindedness and grandeur. But these do not mean denying the strong side of women's hearts and the fragile side of men's hearts, but a general impression.
Names should be personalized, but moderate, and gender differences should not be completely blurred. "Not male or female" is unrealistic and harmful, and should be suppressed and advocated.
The second taboo: the naming taboo is "excessive".
Everything is measured. It is also best not to digress or overdo it. Naming is mostly to express ambition, desire, personality and so on. But many people in life go too far or too far in naming.
There are usually two situations: one is "boasting" and over-exaggerating. Such as Li Weili, Guan, He Neng, Wan Lihu and Yue. The second is excessive "self-modesty", even self-mockery and self-mockery. Such as Wang Zhuo, Zhang Yu and Jiao Yu.
The third taboo: avoid "following" great men and sages when naming.
Great men and sages are respected, but this respect does not have to be expressed by copying the names of celebrities. This kind of behavior itself is only a mechanical application, which is not creative and covers up its original personality.
Young people should be confident, not inferior or arrogant. It is understandable to worship great men and sages, follow their example and set your own goals in life, but you must never worship blindly. They should overcome the blind obedience psychology, advocate rational naming new thinking, and embody their personal characteristics, the connotation of the times and aesthetic taste.
The fourth taboo: names should be "shallow" and "negative"
There are negative and lazy words in the name, which may cause unexpected erosion and harm to the owner's mind, and also affect others and society, and should be avoided.
The name is superficial in meaning and lacks self-restraint and artistic conception. At first glance, it gives people a very boring feeling, and then it loses the role that names should play. Such as Wang Yi, Man Cang, Lacey, Judas and Fu Gui. Such a name is like unprocessed stone, and it is difficult to give people beauty. The name content is single and superficial, which can't attract people's attention, can't get people's favor, and is as plain as a glass of white water; Only by enriching and increasing the depth, the name will not play its due role.
The fifth taboo: the name is out of date.
Naming according to "established rules", applying "proverbs" and reflecting backward values and aesthetic consciousness are all manifestations of "vulgarity". In real life, many people still take Fushou Ankang, Yaozu Guangzong and Sangang Wuchang as names, such as Ma Jinbao, Chang Youde, Li, Zhang and Zhao Shouxian.
The sixth taboo: the name is vulgar and low-level.
Taking a vulgar name is like a handsome and beautiful person wearing a dirty dress, which will be a lifelong regret.
If you have an elegant and cultured name, even if this person is not elegant, he will be more elegant in the eyes of people who don't know him.
Elegant names are not only memorable, but also like a breath, which unconsciously cultivates the soul of the name owner, improves his behavior and plays a subtle role.
The seventh taboo: avoid using uncommon words when naming.
Words that are not commonly used in names are easy to mispronounce and misspell, distorting the meaning of the name itself; And it will bring unnecessary trouble on many occasions, such as computer input, bank account opening and so on.