What does it mean to get married on an auspicious day?
Interpretation of marriage in the yellow calendar;
This is a good day for a man and a woman to get married and hold a wedding. Live with another partner.
Detailed explanation of marriage
1. It means to marry a woman and a woman.
History of Han Poetry Volume 4: Whether there is borrowing, eating, drinking, marrying, fishing and hunting. "History of Han Geography" records that there are many descendants of Jin in Taiyuan and Shangdang who married and died. Yan Shigu Note: Take, read and marry.
2. Generally refers to the marriage between men and women.
Yan Zhitui in the Northern Qi Dynasty's "Yan Family Instructions Governing the Family": If you get married in modern times, you will get rich by selling women, but if you buy a wife, you will lose your silk. Compared with your father and ancestors, you will care about more and less responsibilities, and the market is no different. And pointed out that marriage. Yutai New Gu Yong Yuefu: This is sad and sad. You don't have to cry when you get married. You want to be a person and never leave each other.
Marriage customs:
The night before the wedding, the groom went to visit relatives. As soon as the groom left home, he called the sedan chair away. The groom will enter the bride's house after sunset. Relatives and friends of the woman's family came to celebrate together. The Yue family held a wedding banquet to entertain their son-in-law and relatives and friends (there was another wedding banquet attended by relatives and friends in the early morning of the next day). The son-in-law sat at the first table of the Yue family this time, and he will be just like his own son from now on.
After breakfast the next day, the bride and groom exchange tokens. Generally speaking, the groom will give the bride a new handkerchief and an orange stone bracelet, which means purity and beauty. The bride gave the groom amulets of red bamboo stones and purple ice silver, which meant good luck and life safety. You must leave immediately after you exchange tokens. The mother of the bride didn't come out to see her daughter off, so she had to sit on the kang and pray for her daughter. The bride's uncle, uncle or brother accompanying the groom and groom is called the best man at the wedding. The person who sends the wedding should choose someone who has both children, good health and good luck, so as to send good luck to the couple. If there are many married women in this village, you'd better leave early. There is a good saying. As soon as the bride left the boudoir, she was called into a sedan chair. After getting on the sedan chair, the bride can only look forward, not backward. It means that marriage is long and there is no turning back. If the groom meets an acquaintance on the road, he can only nod and not talk. Homophonic words lead to loss of contact. If you talk too much, you will lose your meaning. At this time, the man's house is full of happy couplets, happy characters are all over the streets and alleys, firecrackers are hung high, and relatives and friends are waiting at the gate to prepare for the bride.
When the bride and her party arrive, according to the division of labor in advance, there are aunts and aunts who pick up the bride, aunts who don't pick up the bride, and aunts who don't pick up the bride, that is, the woman's aunt doesn't take part in sending the niece to the sedan chair, and the man's aunt doesn't take part in picking up the niece from the sedan chair, but is accompanied by the wedding host who picks up the bride. The person who picks up the bride will send the bride to the new house; Pick up and drop off guests and send them into the living room. At the same time, firecrackers exploded to create a festive atmosphere.
The wedding reception begins at noon. The bride enters the banquet; The groom didn't come to the table, but served tea and water. The seating arrangement is very particular. The guest was seen off at the top of the first table. If many people see them off, they must sit at every table. Then friends are big, and friends of family should try to arrange seats as well as possible. Collateral relatives are uncles, uncles and uncles in turn. Direct members, whether grandpa, dad, uncle or uncle, are all service groups. Even if there are seats, there are no seats. There are many rules when eating, so we should be careful not to break the tableware. Just like during the New Year in China, you should be colorful. The condiments on the table should be changed from garlic to jardine and vinegar to plan. The high-profile feature of the banquet is that when the fish comes, the accompanying staff should do everything possible to make the guests drink more. Drunk homophonic is the most and best meaning. Guests often say that the fish is on the table and I am under it. I was drunk and lay under the table without eating fish. When eating, people at the table want to eat both rice and noodles. Don't just eat one thing, it's called having soup and rice, and having both children. I wish the bride and groom both children.
After the banquet, the bride's family will go to the new house to have a look so as to report back. It's called attending a small banquet. A small banquet is a decoration and a process. It's just a symbolic table of tables and drinks. However, it should be noted that at the small banquet, the parents and elders will send an eight-foot mirror, and the couple will put it in the middle of the house after receiving it. Within 90 days after marriage, please ask the mage to print according to the couple's birthday. If you were born in March, April and May of the lunar calendar, you need to add a wooden essence and a royal coin to the seal book, and then Qian Fan fans will stamp it. People born in June and August of the lunar calendar need to add hibiscus umbrellas to the album for printing, paste grass for printing, and print with a hundred eyes. People born in September 65438+ 10 165438+ 10 need to add bamboo, red maple, Xicheng and Watanabe sunflowers and crabs to the photo album. People born in lunar calendar 65438+February 65438+ 10 and February need to add cloud pommel horse, feather heart and boat to the album. When attending a small banquet, the sender should say some friendly words to her parents-in-law on behalf of the bride's parents. If your daughter is all thumbs and can't do housework, please be a father and mother in the future. The groom's family should prepare snacks for the guests to show their gratitude. It is very impolite if you are too busy to remember. The wedding reception officially ended when the people who sent the guests away.
At night, there is a custom of making trouble in the bridal chamber, and the villagers try their best to play tricks on the bride and groom. Influenced by the concept of "brother as father", brothers and sisters-in-law in the same generation will not play jokes on each other or make trouble in the bridal chamber; Brother-in-law's uncle and sister-in-law are unscrupulous and are the main force of the bridal chamber. This bad habit was gradually eliminated.