Feng shui determines your life.
Blessed are the blessed.
In the traditional geomantic thought, there is a saying: blessed land, blessed living environment, blessed people, blessed land.
"Blessed land has blessed land and people live in it", which means that not everyone in blessed land has blessed land, and those who have blessed land live in blessed land, which is indeed blessed land. And those who have no blessings, living in the blessed land is not good, not only can't get happiness, but also become "evil", which is harmful and useless.
"Blessed people live in a blessed land" means that for a blessed person, the place where he lives will become a blessed land, regardless of whether this place is blessed to others.
Feng shui is closely related to people. Whether the feng shui of a place is good or not depends on whether it is good for people living in this place.
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Man's first feng shui: heart
Keep a kind heart.
Hugo once said: Kindness is a rare pearl in history, and kind people are almost superior to great people.
The ancients in China also said: At the beginning of life, human nature is good.
Kindness is a gift from God. Those who love will be rewarded, and those who are blessed will be rewarded.
Do good deeds without asking for blessings. Kindness itself is a blessing. People who know kindness live a warm and happy life.
There is no need to punish evil and promote good, because the heart of the wicked is always cold, and it is sad not to taste the warmth.
A person can be neither rich nor unknown, but if he loses kindness, his life will lose its foundation.
Sow a good heart and let people feel beautiful and happy in life.
Cultivate a tolerant heart.
Because you know, you are kind.
All tolerance is putting yourself in others' shoes.
Put yourself in others' shoes and you will understand their difficulties.
I relented and began to forgive others' mistakes.
Tolerance has its own bottom line. Blindly tolerance is a kind of weakness.
A person who doesn't understand tolerance will lose the respect of others, and a person who tolerates blindly will lose his dignity.
Cultivate a humble heart.
Humility is a vision. People who know humility must have seen a bigger world. They know how high the mountain is and how deep the water is. They won't be mad at their little achievements.
Humility is a strength, and a humble heart is like a weed. It does not make fun of the outside world, nor does it care about the ridicule of the world, but silently accumulates its own strength.
Humility is a kind of tolerance, the mountain is high without fear, and the sea is wide without fear.
Wang Yangming said: life is seriously ill, one is lazy and the other is proud.
Modesty does no harm.
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Men's second feng shui: mouth
Don't expose people's shortcomings
People live a face, trees live a skin.
No one does not love face, and those who hurt others' face will also hurt others' hearts.
Don't hit the face, expose people, and expose weaknesses.
Dragons have scales and die when touched.
If you embarrass others, they will definitely find their place back.
Don't talk short in front of the lame, don't talk fat in front of the fat man, and don't talk ugly in front of "Dong Shi".
Many friends, many roads.
People who can't control their mouths make enemies everywhere, and the road of life can only be blocked more and more.
Don't brag
Zhao has an alchemist who likes to talk big. He claimed to have seen Fuxi, Nuwa, Shennong, Chiyou, Cang Xie, Yao, Shun, Yu, Tang, Mu, the Virgin of Yaochi and so on. He has lived for thousands of years.
One day, Zhao Wang fell from his horse and was seriously injured. The doctor said it would take more than 1000 years of blood to cure him, so the king of Zhao ordered the alchemist to be killed to get blood.
Scared the alchemist to clarify that he was bragging, but Zhao Wang didn't believe him, thinking that he lied to save his life or killed him.
Many people like to brag when they are free, as if they can't show their skills without bragging.
But once others believe it, they will pay the price. So, don't be careless and brag at will.
No nonsense.
Mozi once answered his student Qin Zi: What's the use of chattering?
For example, the frog in the pond barks every day, making it thirsty, but no one ever pays attention to it.
But the rooster only crows two or three times at dawn. When you hear the cock crow, you know it's dawn, so everyone pays attention to it.
In life, incisive opinions can be welcomed, but generalizations are boring.
Practice has proved that if your words have substantial content, you can add charm to yourself by correctly grasping the discretion of your words.
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Man's Third Feng Shui: Behavior
Don't take shortcuts.
Of course, there are shortcuts in life, and you can ferry people to the other side of happiness without too much effort.
But if you take more shortcuts, you will lose the ability to climb mountains.
Shortcut is a skill, while climbing is an exercise.
In this world, there are more rugged roads than smooth roads, and there are few shortcuts.
High-rise buildings rise from the ground, big waves wash sand, and life needs a little accumulation.
I'm used to rough roads, and it's possible to take shortcuts occasionally. But I'm used to taking shortcuts. If I take the rugged road again, there will be a lot of complaints.
Do not harm others and benefit yourself.
Don't do it because of small goodness, and don't do it because of small evils.
From good to good, from evil to collapse. Doing good is difficult, and doing evil is easy.
People are mutual, sincere and helpful.
Everyone is not a fool, how do you treat others, others will treat you.
You think you have earned it, but in fact you have lost your personality.
Dream back at midnight, and even be condemned by conscience.
Don't take advantage of petty gain.
There is no such thing as a free lunch, and pies falling from the sky may not hit you.
Behind all the petty advantages, there must be a greater price hidden.
Always remember that not all good things will come to you.
Not taking advantage of petty gain is an education. Zuo Yu said, "You can't make money with cheap people."
Taking advantage of small things, but losing everyone's trust, the loss outweighs the gain.
Sometimes, people take a step forward, everyone has a steelyard in their hearts, and over time, everyone will respect you as a person.
Losing is a blessing, not taking advantage of small things, but also a kind of wisdom.