Wang Leehom was "rejected" because he was too old and was terminated. How important is talking?
People can't talk, just as fish can't live without water.
Zhu Ziqing, a famous essayist, said: "Life is nothing but words, except words. The so-called worldly wisdom is half-spoken. "
People who can talk will not mix too badly in work or life.
There are two drivers who drive for the leaders, one of whom will be laid off because of the downsizing of the unit.
So, the two competed for posts.
The first driver spoke for about ten minutes and said, "If I want to drive again in the future, I must clean up my car, obey the traffic rules, ensure the safety of my leaders, and save fuel ..."
The second driver finished the race in three minutes.
He said: "I used to abide by three principles, and now I still abide by three principles." If I am used in the future, I will abide by three principles: first, listen and say no; Second, eat and drink; Third, if you do it, don't do it. I used to be like this, I am like this now, and I will be like this in the future. "
Obviously, the second driver was left behind. Why?
"Listen, don't say" means that the leaders sit in the car and study some work, which is often kept secret until they talk about it. Drivers can only listen, not talk. If they talk about it, it's a loophole.
"Eat, don't drink" means that the driver must always accompany the leader in the meeting here. He must eat at the end of this and that, but he must never drink. This is called protecting the life safety of leaders.
And "if you drive well, you can't" means that as long as the leader doesn't use it, I will never drive for my own benefit.
So wise, the language can be concise, which leader will not like it?
Some people always think that those who have a glib tongue only talk about it every day, but actually do nothing, and always despise those who have a glib tongue.
As we all know, it is not easy to speak well and speak properly.
Language is the externalization of thought, and what you say shows your accomplishment, experience and emotional intelligence.
When Yang Lan was the host of Zhengda Variety Show, she was invited to tianhe sports center as the host.
Halfway through the performance party, she accidentally fell down the steps.
The emergence of unexpected situations is really embarrassing.
However, Yang Lan got up very calmly and said to the audience with the unique eloquence of the host: "It's really a shame to make a mistake." Did I not know how to roll hydrangea just now? The steps of this performance don't seem very good! But the program on the stage will be wonderful. If you don't believe me, look at them. "
This self-deprecating impromptu speech was very successful, which not only freed Yang Lan from embarrassment, but also showed her extraordinary eloquence.
As soon as her voice fell, the venue immediately burst into warm applause.
Some viewers also said loudly: "Welcome to Guangzhou!"
Talking hosts are not only Yang Lan, but also some other famous hosts, such as Dong Qing, Wang Han and Sa Beining, who are also good at using language. They can achieve good results by using the wisdom of language.
They know how to control the overall situation with words, which makes people laugh and cry.
Even if you express the same meaning, different people will have completely different effects.
In ancient times, there was a king who had a dream one night that his mouth was full of teeth.
So, he found two dream interpreters.
The king asked them, "Why did I dream that all my teeth were gone?"
The first person who interprets dreams said, "Your Majesty, dreams mean that you can't die until all your relatives are dead."
The emperor was furious and his men beat him with a hundred sticks.
The second dream interpreter said, "Supreme Emperor, this dream means that you will be the oldest of all your relatives!" " "The emperor was very happy, so he took out one hundred gold coins and gave them to the second dream interpreter.
In fact, the two dream interpreters expressed the same meaning, but the results were different because of their different ways of speaking.
So you see, the same words are more comfortable and acceptable when spoken by people who can talk.
Then, how can we be serious, praise and criticize, advance and retreat, and be comfortable?
Here are a few principles.
First, sincerity is very important.
Although talking and speaking is an art that requires deep skills, you might as well try to be sincere when you don't know how to reply to each other.
Only sincerity can get sincerity.
When you communicate with each other sincerely and express your views seriously, the other party can feel it, and as feedback, they will also listen carefully and give feedback.
Second, use humor appropriately.
Humor is a kind of life wisdom, which embodies an optimistic and positive lifestyle and an open-minded attitude towards life.
Just like Yang Lan's sense of humor in an unexpected situation in the above story, it helped her to resolve her embarrassment in time.
People who know how to use humor will be popular everywhere.
Third, listening carefully is the premise of opening your mouth.
As the saying goes, eloquence is silver and listening is gold.
Listening is a courtesy, a manifestation of respect for the speaker, a high compliment to the speaker, and the best compliment to the speaker.
If you can listen carefully to what a person says, believe me, the other person won't hate you.
Everyone has his own desire to express himself. When he talks about expressing his views in Kan Kan, the best appreciation for him is listening.
For a salesman, the most important thing is his speaking skills.
As for top salespeople, the ratio of speaking to listening is usually 7: 3, 70% of the time is spent listening, 30% of the time is spent praising and agreeing, and answering questions at the same time.
Isn't it incredible? The most important skill in speaking is not speaking, but listening.
But that's the truth. When you can stop interrupting others and listen to them carefully, you will become a talkative person.