There are no men in Feng Shui.
The speed of yangzhai is not long, and the speed of yinzhai is slow, which has a lasting impact.
Judging from the star bureau, there is something wrong with your home structure, which needs to be changed accordingly with the operation.
When burying relatives, please understand that people choose the place and time, and Yang Zhai also needs to be adjusted.
Old graves generally affect three generations or so, and then they become weak, and your father has a direct influence on you, which is relatively great.
What you can adjust now is your father's side. Don't worry about the rest. You can consider asking a discerning person to help you look at your father's grave.
As for Yangzhai, the portal will be rebuilt. This requires a new direction and opportunity.