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The daughter's palace is in the same palace.
There are excellent children or children with special talents.
Children are very opinionated and arrogant, and it is not easy to listen to their parents.
Wolves share the same palace.
Children have distinct personalities, are competitive, have high desires and are fickle.
Tian Yue Jiahui
It can make children smart and learn. I also know how to take care of myself.
Qing Yang Control/Dharma Association
Make children more withdrawn or impatient. Sometimes it's hard to communicate.
Pay attention to whether there is miscarriage or abortion during pregnancy.
It may also be a phenomenon to have children by caesarean section.
Ling Xing Tonggong
When children are young, they should pay attention to safety and avoid accidental injuries.
The number of children is small.
Ground robbery/ground defense association
It is possible to have a shallow relationship with children, spend less time together and get less support.
Wu qu Hua quan Jia hui
Children have strong personality and are independent and competitive.
Children's subjective consciousness is very strong and it is not easy to change. Act decisively.
Children's situation
You used to attach great importance to your children, but because of your lack of business intentions in family life, the relationship between parents and children was affected, and you spent less time with your children, so you can only take care of your children according to your own ability. Usually getting along is neither too loose nor too mandatory. Although disciplining children will have their own ideas, they will try to make adjustments according to their situation or preferences. Basically, I spend more time on my children, and I can also show moderate concern and take on the responsibilities of my parents.
Communicating with children is very flexible and interesting. Children can actively participate in their subjects and choose logical or technological education methods. Due to the emphasis on skills and inspiration and the pursuit of quick results, it is easy to become superficial, even encouraging children, so that children often lack a complete or solid foundation, and the ups and downs are relatively large. Although not good at nagging when getting along, it is easy to produce emotional reactions and let children escape.
Ideal child
Children who are more in line with your personality should have the characteristics of "self-esteem, competitiveness" and "absorption and material desire", and occasionally have unexpected changes of ideas:
The trait of "self-esteem and competitiveness" is easy to show noble appearance, and words and deeds are often dignified and strong, which will make people see their own advantages as much as possible, treat people with relative arrogance, and don't like others to oppose themselves face to face, so they are often big men or big women.
The characteristics of "absorption and material desire" make people feel omnipotent by being able to contact and absorb all kinds of popular information around them, and then learning and selling now, while learning is often not concentrated enough, easy to be complicated and superficial, not professional enough, exaggerated and empty talk.
Your ideal child should be balanced. They can respect your opinion, express their views appropriately, and try their best to find a way acceptable to both sides. When encountering difficulties, his performance is also reasonable. He will try to face problems first, accept challenges, and will not give up or escape easily. However, if he is beyond his ability, he will seek your support and will not insist.
His interactive attitude should be lively and energetic, but sometimes he is careless and forgetful. Conceptually, it is not too rigid in tradition, and it is a bit quaint. Usually I will be more coquettish to you, especially when I do something wrong or want something from you. With a more active personality, you can easily feel his enthusiasm.
Get along with strategy
Because your strengths and abilities in getting along with children are slightly weaker than your weaknesses, that is, the potential for harmonious interaction with children is slightly insufficient, I suggest that your basic strategy in getting along with children is "teaching first, supplemented by forbearance". Teach children to care rather than discipline regularly, avoid taking care of everything and reduce the influence of shortcomings. Basically, as long as you put your heart into it, you should still be able to establish a basic parent-child relationship. In addition, when getting along, we should adopt a more tolerant attitude, give children a chance to try and make mistakes, and help clarify the truth, so that it is easier to enhance the parent-child relationship.