The daughter of the sanitation worker is domineering and sneers: Don't let the children go crazy because of the comparison.

The video is about a sanitation worker cleaning the road, and as a result, several students passing by pointed at her. It happened that the daughter of the sanitation worker was there, and the students smiled and said, "Your mother is a garbage sweeper."

The reason is that my daughter's school held an activity and happened to pass by the place where the girl's mother swept the floor. At this time, two classmates laughed at her: "Your mother is a garbage cleaner."

Teenage children, daughter heard this, not only did not look down on the mother's career, but firmly defended their own and their mother's dignity and fought back:

"My mother doesn't sweep the garbage or sweep the streets. Do you have such a clean road? Your mother is not qualified to sweep, and people don't want your mother to sweep! "

This passage touched my mother as a sanitation worker, and countless netizens also deeply felt that it is especially important to raise children.

In life, children will inevitably suffer blows and setbacks. Parents should teach their children to do so when they are dissatisfied with their studies or ridiculed and belittled by others.

0 1 Teach children to look at comparison with a normal heart.

Once people have the heart of comparison, their mentality is easy to be unbalanced.

Therefore, parents should guide their children in advance, don't be slaves of desire, treat material comparison with normality, and treat real learning and growth with competitiveness.

There was a hot search on the news earlier. The client in the news is a boy who has just entered junior high school.

The boy was born in a poor rural area. In order to make him study hard, his parents tried their best to save tuition and buy books for him and provide him with a comfortable environment for growing up.

The boy also lived up to expectations and was admitted to the middle school in the city with excellent results.

However, after entering the school, facing the dazzling array of novel stationery and fashionable clothes of his classmates, he strayed into the cage of comparison, was gradually influenced by his classmates' ostentation psychology, and began to yield to his own desires.

On a holiday, he went home and asked his parents for 1000 yuan on the grounds that the school had to pay for materials, in fact, in order to buy a pair of brand-name shoes he missed.

Parents take pains to work two more jobs for their children's material expenses, and their physical condition is getting worse and worse, but the children are completely ignorant.

Behind the child's temporary vanity is the hard work and hard-won love paid by parents with sweat and blood.

Parents should teach every child to know himself clearly, find his own position and follow his own life path. The harder he works, the luckier he will be.

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Teach children to respond to ridicule with confidence.

After his mother divorced, Obama lived alone with his mother, and even often suffered from racial discrimination.

His mother told him that "there is no need to feel inferior in black."

However, Obama chose to duel and scold those who laughed at him. My mother chose to go to Indonesia to do anthropology work, and finally got a doctorate.

Obama's mother told him with practical actions:

Stupid people will only belittle others, and smart people will make themselves strong.

As long as we have a correct attitude, respond indifferently and work hard towards the goal, we can finally reach the height we want.

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Self-motivation is a child's greatest courage.

A junior high school student named Li Renzhi said something to his mother, who is a take-away deliveryman, in The Tale of Teenagers, which made countless people present cry:

My mother shuttles through the streets of the city every day.

She is a delivery girl. She gets up early every day and is greedy for the dark. Feng Shui and sun exposure have not stopped her.

Nevertheless, there are still many people who don't respect this profession. Sometimes I will give bad reviews inexplicably, and even make trouble without reason.

However, Li Renzhi did not point the finger at others because of his mother's suffering. Many students also commented that he was a kind and helpful friend.

Because he wants others to give his mother some kindness and consideration like himself.

Mother after hearing these words, in the audience both nervous and gratified:

"Son, thank you for being so considerate of your mother. In fact, what you see is actually just a few people, just a few unreasonable guests, and there are still many kind people in life. "

Years have left some marks on the mother's face, but this introverted mother always tries to give her children a positive and healthy side.

The way parents go all out for life is the best example for children, and it also gives children the courage to face life.

No matter how long, I hope our children will never forget to respect others and work hard for themselves.