How to get a wedding red envelope
May you two love each other forever and grow old together! Attention should be paid to the collection of wedding gifts: don't inadvertently measure the thickness of wedding gifts when you hold them in your hand in front of guests. This behavior is as impolite as counting wedding gifts in person.
Pay attention to the gift: the cheque-type wedding red envelope cheque is small in size, and it is easy to be lost if it is mixed with a lot of cash, so prepare a special bag for storing the cheque and leave the cheque and cash for storage. It is also better to distinguish different kinds of checks, so that it will be more convenient for newcomers to deal with them afterwards.
When a check is received, the checker can roughly check the details such as the head or the signature of the new person. Whether the check can be cashed is still suitable for the new person to go to the bank afterwards. It is impolite to count the bride price in front of the guests, but not counting it will also cause the final accounts to be messy.
The best way is that one person is responsible for receiving the gift money, and when receiving it, mark the guest's name on the wedding red envelope, and then give it to another person to take it into the lounge for accounting. I hope it is useful to everyone. You made a couple, and you made a couple successfully. Now that we are married, we need to tolerate and take care of each other in the future. Congratulations! He is a word, you are a music score, and you two are a harmonious song.
A match made in heaven makes husband and wife harmonious. May you be United and happy forever! Happy wedding, sweet and beautiful! What should I write in the wedding red envelope? Send heartfelt wishes to the breeze and let the clouds offer sincere friendship; The air is full of intoxicating sweetness.
I wish my most beloved friend, from now on, love will last forever, ten years in the same boat, and a hundred years in the same bed. Finding him/her in the vast sea of people is obviously a fate thousands of years ago; Countless necessities, occasionally precipitated, can't be the result of meticulous carving on sansheng stone? Protect this fate with your heart, dear.
Congratulations on finding a good home! How to give a wedding red envelope When the gifts given by the guests are of different sizes and can't be worn on the spot, it is very impolite to put them aside if the newlyweds just behave improperly. In this state, the couple can say in a humorous tone: "I will take this as a family heirloom and give it to my future daughter when she gets married."
2. How to send a red envelope on the wedding day?
Before the newcomer sends a red envelope, "three looks" is the most critical!
"Look at the wedding custom". If there is no custom of returning gifts in your place, there is no need to return red envelopes to the guests.
Second, "look at the relationship." Although everyone attended your wedding, the red envelopes you gave the bridesmaids and groomsmen were definitely different from the red envelopes you gave the motorcade drivers. The better the relationship, the more you pay ~
Third, "watch the lucky draw", no matter whether the wedding atmosphere is luxurious or simple, a good lucky draw with a red envelope amount is a must.
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Red envelopes for returning guests.
In most cities in the south, such as Dongguan, guests' return gifts are sent together with wedding invitations, usually ten yuan. According to Lina, a century-old planner, some weddings in Guangzhou will reward 20% of the gift money, while others will reward 10 yuan.
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Rob relatives, block doors, red envelopes, small red envelopes
In Beijing and other cities, 10~20 yuan is the most common place to give red envelopes when robbing relatives and blocking doors. And 1 yuan, 2 yuan, 6 yuan, etc. And the voice of "one-dollar bridesmaid" is particularly high!
1, 2, 2, this small denomination red envelope, usually around 500~ 1000, is suitable for successfully entering the door, picking up the bride and throwing it at the wedding to celebrate.
3. How to give a red envelope on the wedding day?
China traditional wedding should pay more attention to etiquette. There are many steps, without which the woman's family will feel very uncomfortable. First of all, when getting married, the parents of the man should go to the woman's house to discuss, set a date, choose a way and so on. After the wedding ceremony is decided, the bride price will be paid. In addition to local customs, the man will give a red envelope at the bride price, which is the real bride price. According to the previous discussion, how much is it? There is no rule that less wealthy people should give less money. Besides, when the man has a bride price, quilts and the like are all two yuan in it, and cabinets, beds and pillows at home are all two yuan (and sugar, only money is put in the quilt. After the ceremony, the brothers of the woman's family went through everything, which is lucky (girls are not allowed to go through it). After dinner on the wedding day, the man will bring a lot of red envelopes when he gets married at the woman's house. ! Hehehe, got it? The woman's parents will prepare red envelopes for her son-in-law. When leaving the woman's house for the hotel ceremony, the man and mother will prepare a red stool (just stick red paper on it) to let the daughter-in-law get off. At this time, she won't get off until she sees a red envelope. There is generally no rule on how much money. If the man has too many brothers and the woman loves to fight for property, she may not get off the bus. However, this is very rare. After arriving at the hotel, the woman will go to the room to tidy herself up first. At this time, the woman will prepare a red envelope, no matter what it is, at least ten yuan, because there will be an elder to comb her hair (symbolic). There is no need to give red envelopes, and there will be girls in the south who wash their faces with water (symbolic). At the formal ceremony, the man's parents will give her a red envelope. It is singular. This is special. It means whether the bride is a good girl in a thousand or a good daughter-in-law in a thousand. Therefore, it is necessary to add a piece. When we got married, it was 10000 1. Now that the conditions are good, it is usually this number. In rural areas, it is more than 100 1. However, those with rich conditions are one in a hundred. (This eleven thousand is the sum of two parents: one is 5000 and the other is 500 1. Then there is the man's immediate elders (such as grandfather, grandmother, grandmother, grandfather, etc.). These are people's random wishes. Finally, on the wine table, when the woman toasts the man, the man's immediate elders will give him red envelopes (such as aunts and aunts). That is, parents, brothers and sisters and grandparents, grandmothers and grandfathers. Finally, ask the man to prepare an opened red envelope for the woman's brother, because this box is very important. There are clothes your man bought for her at the bride price, and money from both parents. This money is usually given by the woman's family. Double the man's house and lock it. The key should be kept by the woman's brother, and then the man will give the woman's brother a red envelope. ! ! However, traditional western-style weddings are not so complicated. Because western-style weddings are witnessed, in the church, the woman's father gives her daughter to her son-in-law and asks the priest to recite scriptures. Exchange rings, kiss and get a red envelope. Just pay the bride price according to China tradition before marriage. And the whole process should be quiet, because the church is sacred and the wedding is sacred and serious. Only when the priest allows both sides to kiss can there be sound and excitement. The combination of Chinese and western will be lively.
4. How to wrap the man's red envelope when getting married?
Hello, landlord, first of all, congratulations on your New Year! I wish you a happy marriage! Then let me introduce you to the custom of sealing red envelopes for marriage:
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Red envelope:
(1) Opening Ceremony-Give it to the driver when the groom gets off the bus. When the bride arrives at the man's house, she should also prepare it for the man who drives the door. )
(2) Candle ceremony-giving candles to the woman's mother and uncle.
(3) Bride gift-given by the matchmaker when tea is served.
(4) Face-lifting ceremony-makeup fee.
(5) Tea Ceremony-Compared with drinking tea, parents and grooms give more gifts than others.
(6) Divide the dishes+give them to the waiter who takes the table.
(7) Hold a washbasin water ceremony-give it to people who take hand washing water (if you entertain guests in a restaurant, you can omit it).
(8) Table-pressing ceremony-red envelopes on the day of engagement.
(9) Sister table gift-a red envelope on the sister table on the wedding day.
(10) A gift from the matchmaker-a red envelope for the matchmaker. The man has more gifts than the woman. (The woman should also prepare)
(1 1) staff red envelope-thanks to the staff who helped.
(12) The man should prepare more red envelopes for the matchmaker. When the relatives and friends of the man or woman have objections, the matchmaker immediately takes out a red envelope and says, "The customs and habits in this respect are not clear. Please forgive me for any disrespect. 』
Hehe, almost. I hope I can help you! If you have any questions, you can ask them. If you are satisfied, please give five points. Thank you for your understanding and support! Once again, I wish the love career a double harvest!
5. How do newlyweds receive gifts at the wedding?
1, you can't count the cash in front of the guests, but not counting it will cause confusion in the accounts. The best way is to write the guest's name on the red envelope and count it after the wedding.
2. If the guest's gift money is in the form of a check, don't put it with cash. It is more appropriate for the bank to handle it afterwards if the check can be cashed.
3. If the guests send valuables, most of them will wear them directly, so the income of jewelry is very easy to be confused, and sometimes a few pieces are missing, which wastes the guests' mind. Therefore, when receiving gifts, be sure to write down the guest's name and the variety of gifts, so as to check and send thank-you cards afterwards.
4. Pay attention to etiquette when receiving gifts. First, don't inadvertently measure the thickness of the red envelope while holding the gift money, which is as rude as counting the money in person. Second, don't be surprised when you find that the amount on the check is surprisingly small. It is likely that the guest made a mistake. You can ask the guest to reconfirm the check in some ways.
6. How to collect wedding red envelopes?
In fact, this is beyond reproach. From the moment the bride gives the bridesmaid a red envelope, we can see that the relationship between the bride and the bridesmaid is the closest, and keeping the red envelope for her is the most reassuring. But there is a better way to reflect the feelings of the new couple and solve their parents' worries, and that is to give the red envelope to the groom who is more intimate than the bridesmaid. When the bride turns to give the red envelope to the groom, this little gesture in detail shows the intimate relationship between you and the groom to the maximum extent, and at the same time, it will make parents feel that the two are close, and their money is not shared by you and me. Leave this wonderful impression to other parents, why not leave it to the newcomers?
A: I can give my mother-in-law a pillow. I hope my mother-in-law can rest easy. It means you can safely give his son to you. The old man has worked hard for your marriage for a long time and can have a good rest. It can be a shirt for my father-in-law, indicating that my in-laws are very satisfied with you. The most common gifts for parents are chopsticks, scarves, thermal underwear and other warm gifts. Some newcomers also send cups and cushions, indicating that they can rely on them all their lives. Cushions can be made of cotton satin, father and son or birthday characters. For example, embroider a cross by hand. You can also make your childhood photos into an album and give them to others. In fact, the most important gift for the elderly is to express gratitude, not necessarily something valuable, such as writing a letter, writing down what you want to say most on the wedding day and reading it to your in-laws and parents on the spot. I believe it is the warmest and most touching.
A: Give a red envelope; First of all, the delivery time is particular. As a symbol of celebration, the best time to send a red envelope is to sign your name in the sign-in book, shake hands with the couple, take a group photo and hand over the red envelope, and attach a blessing message, just right. Of course, there are times when it is sent out in advance. For example, some relatives and friends came to the scene early to help. These people can be sent out before the wedding. Late delivery is not recommended. On the one hand, it destroys the scenery, on the other hand, it also has some casual taste. Secondly, it is best to negotiate the name on the red envelope, and don't write it, which is easy to cause trouble. There is also a red envelope that needs to be "suitable". No big bags or small bags. Not good-looking, it is easy to make people feel "atmospheric"; It is best to choose clean bills before, and be sure to check the authenticity in advance, which will cause unnecessary misunderstanding.
Receive red envelopes: naturally, you should smile when you receive money, but it is impolite to count money in front of guests. The best way is for one person to receive the gift, mark the guest's name when receiving it, and then give it to another person to take it to the lounge for careful inventory. When you hold a red envelope in your hand in front of the guests, don't inadvertently measure the thickness of the red envelope, which is as impolite as counting gifts in person. When the gift given by the guest is not the right size and can't be worn on the spot, it is really inappropriate to put it aside if it is expressed in trust. In this case, trust can be said humorously: "I will take this as a family heirloom and give it to my future daughter when she gets married."
7. How to send wedding red envelopes?
There are many happy events in the unit. How should I give a red envelope to a colleague with a general relationship? As a tradition, giving red envelopes when getting married has its own positive significance, such as adding joy and feelings.
Of course, if, like Ms. An's husband, she receives invitations from more than a dozen employees who don't know her very well within one month, then whether or not to send red envelopes and how to send them are all issues we have to think about. It is good for colleagues in the unit to choose "refund type" as a gift when they get married.
Although the red envelope is only a form, the giver expresses his mind and the giver receives it, and neither side will feel indebted. Many citizens hope that the "welfare" gift-giving method can be promoted in the vast number of units. The unit regards employees' wedding red envelopes as a unified welfare, so that colleagues and leaders no longer need to "pay for themselves" and avoid the embarrassment of having to give red envelopes to unfamiliar colleagues because of face.
Now that the economy is in recession, everyone's money bags are tighter. It's really painful to give out red envelopes one by one, especially when you meet unfamiliar people.
So xdjm in the jar, let's talk about it. If it were you, what would you choose? .
8. How should I wrap the wedding red envelope?
Hello, I hope these can help you. .
Red envelope strategy helps you to attend the wedding easily.
Wedding red envelopes will be sold in large supermarkets or wedding gift shops, reflecting grades according to different prices. In order to emphasize marriage rather than Chinese New Year, it is best to choose a red envelope with the word marriage or meaning. At present, most popular wedding red envelopes on the market are rectangular, which is convenient to put in hundred-dollar bills. In addition, try not to fold the red envelopes that have not been sent yet.
Generally, wedding red envelopes have a fixed format. On the cover of the red envelope, you should write something like "I wish you * * * * unity and love forever (live together for a long time)-XXX, XXX, congratulations", especially your own name.
1, the number of packets depends on the relationship.
The amount of gift money is directly proportional to the intimacy with the new couple. Simply put, if you have a good relationship, you pay more.
2. Even numbers are the most attractive.
There are many kinds of "student bags"
If you are a student and have no financial strength, and your friends will go on the big day, I will provide students with two kinds of "student packages": one is "100+50+10+5+2+1=168". That is to say, "168" gift money covers one hundred yuan, fifty yuan, ten yuan, five yuan, two yuan and one yuan notes, and the other is "100+50+20+10+5+2+1=/kloc-" These two ways of wrapping are both affordable and attractive.
In fact, everyone has different views on how much a red envelope is suitable. The author believes that the most important thing is to coordinate the relationship between expressing one's mind and one's own economic strength.
"Original songs" send red envelopes to touch newcomers
Speaker: Ms. Li, a company employee.
Gifts are better than red envelopes.
Speaker: Miss Qi, an IT person.
"I just got married soon. On my wedding day, I received many red envelopes from my relatives and friends. What makes me most happy is the bedside lamp given to me by a good sister who grew up together. When decorating the wedding room, she saw the bedside lamp when she accompanied me to buy furniture, but she had to give it up because it had been booked by others. She is so careful that she always remembers. "
Don't send a red envelope to "smile" when you get married.
Narrator: Netizen "Forum Ranger"
"I don't see anyone who is confused about giving gifts to friends. After all, it is really unbearable if you get married with many friends in one year. The way of' getting married without giving gifts' is quite good. Giving red envelopes always comes and goes. In fact, both sides have a burden, so it is better for both sides to make an appointment not to send red envelopes. Now this method is quite popular in Jiangsu. "
It is reported that at Tao Jingying's wedding, star friends gave various gifts. Wu Zongxian has a package of 6.5438+0.2 million yuan, but he wrote on the cover of the red envelope, "Please refund the fee before the first anniversary of marriage"; Lan Xinmei said that she confiscated the custody fee, even if it was a big gift; Andy Lau didn't attend, but he gave a gift of famous brand Lu.