What are the customs and processes of marriage in Guizhou? Crying and burning incense are the characteristics of marriage.
The local folk customs in Guizhou are related to the ethnic groups where they live. Each ethnic minority living in Guizhou has its own unique wedding customs. If a wedding is held in a city, the process is actually the same. What is unique and worthy of being known is rural weddings. Generally speaking, weddings in Guizhou are mostly held in rural areas and are more down-to-earth. The wedding customs are both traditional and modern, and are relatively grand.
Combined horoscopes
After both parents agree on the marriage, a matchmaker exchanges their horoscopes. Find someone to combine the horoscopes for the two newlyweds to see if they are suitable for marriage. But it varies from person to person. Some people don’t believe this and just skip it.
Crying for marriage
In Guizhou, girls start to cry for marriage half a month before they get married. Local people will cry for marriage in the form of poems. You can cry for your parents, brothers and sisters-in-law, sisters, etc. Although you are crying, it means good luck and good luck.
Burning incense
There is a wedding custom of burning incense in Guizhou, which means that when the woman gets married and the newlyweds visit the church, they need to burn incense to worship their ancestors. When a woman gets married, she burns incense to bid farewell to her ancestors and pray for them to bless her happy married life. When a newlywed comes to worship, burning incense at the groom's house is a sign of identification.
The woman’s family treats guests
The custom in some areas of Guizhou is that the woman’s family must cook at home for relatives and friends. She is not allowed to invite guests outside. At the beginning of the banquet, arrangements must be made Several people serve meals for guests, which is also a wedding custom in Guizhou.
Gifts
During the spare time of the bride’s party, the groom should send gifts to the bride’s home. Gifts include: jewelry trays, red envelope trays, bridal clothing trays and other items. When the groom is about to enter the house after giving gifts, someone should arrange for someone to pour water for the groom to wash his face.
Send off the bride
After receiving the bride, the bride’s relatives will carry the gifts to the groom’s house. When seeing off the bride, the bride needs her relatives to carry her downstairs and walk in front holding a red umbrella. After sending the bride to the groom's house, the groom will cook midnight snacks for the bride-to-be and finally stay with the bride until two o'clock before going home.
Wedding Banquet
The wedding banquet is held at the groom’s house. In previous wedding banquets, only the man came out to entertain the guests, while the woman rested in the wedding room. Now, during the wedding banquet, the newlyweds come out to toast together and express their gratitude to their relatives and friends.