Michelle Chen's way of getting along in marriage: Don't care about the outside voice. Do you agree with her?
1, getting married is a matter for two people, so there is no need to care about other people's voices.
Some people like to care about other people's opinions and always think that other people's opinions are useful to them, but they are not. This is how two people get along. Two people know best, and others are not qualified to evaluate their marriage.
Only two people can say whether their marriage is good or bad. No matter what others say, he is not a party and is not qualified to judge. But some people like to evaluate other people's marriages and always like to talk about others from their own perspective. Others will directly say that their marriage will not last long.
These people are obviously gossiping. How to get married depends on the happiness of two people and their families.
2. Paying attention to the outside voice will only make you tired and unhappy in your marriage.
Some people will fall into a very sad mood when they hear others pointing fingers at their marriage, and then repeatedly observe whether their marriage is really problematic or not, but in fact, happiness in marriage depends mainly on two people. No matter how the outside world comments, it will only be comments after all, which will not play any substantive role. Some people say that two married people must be in the same city. Divorce in different places is easy, but sometimes it is not necessarily a bad thing. As long as two people's hearts are together, even if they are far apart, they are happy.
Through the efforts of two people, buying a house in a city and working hard, the result is still happy.
Whether the marriage is strong or not, two people know best.
Some people have experienced many ups and downs from falling in love to entering the marriage hall. These experiences will never be forgotten, and they also built a solid marriage foundation for two people. However, some people will say that they have experienced so many ups and downs in their marriage and believe that they will be unhappy after marriage, but I don't think so. Only when two people have experienced many difficulties and are happy together will the feelings after marriage be more stable, stronger and less easily influenced by others.
On the whole, I still agree with Michelle Chen that two people really don't have to care about outside voices in marriage. What they have to do is to get along well with the other half, cultivate feelings and walk the rest of their lives together.
If you live in other people's thoughts every day, you will feel very tired at first, and then you will have a lot of doubts about this marriage, or you will start to shake your beliefs. Many people just listen to other people's voices, which leads to their marriage deviating from the normal track step by step.