Why should a divorced woman be open-minded?
Responsible for both work and family. Be modest. The ancients said that people are empty-hearted. Without modesty and self-righteousness, how can you show great generosity? Always treat everything with a normal heart and work and live with a down-to-earth attitude. Sacrifice the spirit. Taoism says: one gains and one loses, and the sky circulates. In reality, the spirit of saving the big by sacrificing the small is definitely not open-minded, let alone generous. Have lofty aspirations. With high ambition, people naturally pay attention to right and wrong, but they don't have time for small details, so they don't haggle over trifles.
Kindness and thoughtfulness If you think that everyone except yourself is bad and stupid, you will naturally take precautions against each other step by step. What appears must be sharp and narrow. The starting point of looking at people is wrong, and even the best reasoning can only lead to wrong conclusions. The most important trait of a man is not his education level, money and high status, but his measurement and tolerance. The most attractive charm of a woman is not her charming appearance and considerate gentleness, but her kindness in her heart. If a person has a degree, his financial resources will roll in; If a woman has a kind heart, her blessing will come naturally. A happy family is inseparable from a generous man, but it also needs a kind woman.
two people together is the best feng shui for a family. A broad-minded person is rich. In Meng Jiao in the Tang Dynasty, there was a saying in "A Gift to Pei Shu Duan Gong": A gentleman is not very generous, and his chest swallows a hundred rivers. It means that a gentleman is broad-minded and can accommodate all rivers. Men aim in all directions. Since ancient times, it has been a man's duty to earn gold and silver to support his family and honor his parents. Then, a petty person naturally haggles with others everywhere and hides that others are better than themselves. Such people will naturally not have great ambitions. On the contrary, those broad-minded men dare to embrace everything and accept the fairness and setbacks of the world. Their popularity is naturally good and their ways are much wider. It is hard for such people to be underdeveloped.
When my colleague Li Ge was young, he was a very short man. At work, I'm afraid I'll suffer if I do more work. At that time, he didn't know how hard he was working at home. When he is with his wife, he always struggles for more housework and is greedy for less housework. He often quarrels about how many families his wife has given to his family. In the end, the two ended in divorce. Fortunately, they have no children. After several years, the company was on the verge of bankruptcy, so Li Ge had to stay at home with an uncle. After running outside for several years, I have changed a lot since I came back.