When you are poor in the busy city, no one asks what it means to be rich and have distant relatives in the mountains. Modern society is becoming more and more serious.

When you are poor in the city, no one asks what it means when you are rich in the mountains and have distant relatives. This sentence comes from "Zengguang Xianwen", which means that when you are poor in the city, no one cares about you, but when you are rich you are in the mountains and forests. There are also people who go to see you. If you don’t believe it, just look at the wine in the glass. Every glass is offered to the rich first. Even if you are rich and live in the mountains, people will visit you every day. If you are poor and live in a prosperous city, No one in the city will care about you.

Whether it is urban or rural, whether it is ancient or modern, it is a society that pays attention to human relationships. When you are weak, incompetent and poor, your relatives will pretend not to see you; when you are rich and capable, others will come to compliment you and want to benefit from you. When you are poor in a busy city, no one cares about you, but when you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives? This is still the case even in modern society, and it is getting worse.

When you are poor in the busy city, no one cares about you, but when you are rich, you have distant relatives in the mountains. In today's society, it is very realistic. Some people are indeed like this. When you are prosperous, people around you will revolve around you. When you are in trouble, it is too late to hide. No wonder some people lament the harshness of the world. Of course, there are two sides to the matter. There is a saying that goes well, if you succeed, I will accompany you to dominate the world. If you fail, I will accompany you to make a comeback.

This is a very real problem! People always say this because this is the reality that most people are experiencing! Based on the current social situation, this sentence can be understood from several aspects:

1. The most obvious thing is that there are many people who dislike the poor and love the rich! If you are poor, others will naturally not want to have much interaction with you, because there is no benefit to be gained! The rich occupy most of the world's resources, so other people who want to share the resources will naturally have to deal with the rich more!

2. From a deep level, a rich man must have his own abilities, so more people will recognize him and his circle of contacts will be larger! Even if you live in the mountains, people will visit you, because you have enough connections, or you have a lot of things to do! On the contrary, because I am weak and weak, I only know a few people when I come and go, and I don’t have many things, so naturally few people care about me!

This sentence expresses the coldness and warmth of the world and the incest and coldness of the world. In this ruthless world, sometimes blood relatives will not lend a helping hand to you in distress, but will often reject you indifferently. for help. . Isn't that what one sentence says? In this world, no one except your own parents will really hope that you live a better life than him. As an only child since childhood, I have a particularly profound experience. Question: Why do people always say that no one cares about poverty in the busy city? Does the rich have distant relatives in the mountains? Answer: We who complain always say that we are poor and no one cares about us in the busy city. Rich in the mountains, there are distant relatives to interact with.

We who complain always say that no one cares about poverty in the busy city.

If no one comes to ask, it means that we have no merits worth learning from others.

We hope that people will come to ask and make friends, so we need to reserve knowledge energy or explore our own strengths.

We cannot just live in poverty and gain energy while complaining that others do not come to make friendship with us.

Do others have the obligation to pay for our laziness and lack of progress?

Even if we do not need financial help from others, others are not willing to interact with us.

We have no skills, so there is no need for them to come and get acquainted with us, which is a waste of time. Everyone has something to be busy with.

We should learn to think differently in the busy city.

The busy market is suitable for doing business. We must seriously think about what we will do? What are you interested in? If our personality is not suitable for business, we will rent the house to others for business, go to the mountains to reclaim wasteland ourselves, or go to work in the construction site factory.

We should not always complain, we should learn to change ourselves and improve ourselves.

We want people to come and get to know each other, so we have to think more about the reasons why rich people in the mountains have distant relatives who come to get to know each other.

Why are rich people rich?

Rich people are rich because they are proactive.

Rich people are rich because they are wise and studious.

Rich people are rich through unremitting efforts.

Rich people are rich because they are diligent and thrifty.

The rich get rich by guarding against arrogance and immorality

The rich get rich by accumulating one penny of original capital.

The rich are rich because they have great wisdom to preserve the capital accumulation of their fathers and grandfathers.

We now know why rich people live in remote mountains and have distant relatives to communicate with them. Rich people have a steady stream of wisdom and energy and are worthy of friendship.

The rich people who interacted did not include the nouveau riche and the businessmen who had taken advantage of others by cheating and plundering.

About the author: A sanitation worker, named Wang Lili, pen name Zui Tingting, female. In her spare time during work and life, she likes outdoor cycling and reciting poetry and articles.

One sentence of poetry: Seize the twinkling light in your soul.

If you are poor in the busy city and no one cares about you, but if you are rich in the mountains and have distant relatives?, it can be said that it is a household name and everyone knows it.

Although it is heart-breaking to say, everyone agrees with the truth. The complete words are as follows: Human relationships are as thin as paper, and world affairs are like new chess games. The poor live in the busy city and no one cares about them; the rich live in the mountains and have distant relatives. If you don’t believe it, just look at the wine at the banquet, and drink to the rich first.

Among them, the poor in the busy city no one cares about, and the rich in the mountains have distant relatives?, these two sentences mean: When you are poor, even if your relatives and friends are separated from you Not far away and rarely visited. When you are wealthy, even if you live in the mountains, distant relatives will come to visit you. This is a fact, it is human nature and worldly customs.

Let’s use an inappropriate analogy.

Poverty is like a black hole, absorbing matter and energy; wealth is like a star, releasing light and energy. Just as Sima Qian wrote in "Historical Records: Biographies of Huozhi": When people are rich, benevolence and righteousness are attached. He also wrote: If the abyss is deep, fish will live there, and if the mountain is deep, animals will go there. ?

Since ancient times, not only humans, but the entire biological world have learned to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. This is also the result of natural selection.

Yes, if you are poor, or have financial difficulties, or are mentally poor, if you interact with them, you may need assistance or sympathy. Maybe you will be infected with negative energy? Avoid them. What's wrong with that?

When you are poor in the busy city and no one cares about you, but when you are rich in the mountains and you have distant relatives?, it allows us to understand the sophistication of the world and calm down our mentality. We should blame others less and be more self-reliant and self-reliant. When we are poor, we can take care of ourselves. Wouldn't it be better to be rich and help the world at the same time?

This is people’s life perception and knowledge for thousands of years. This fully reflects the harsh reality of the world, where the fittest survive and develop, otherwise they will be spurned, abandoned and forgotten. In today's society, people's profit-seeking mentality is more serious. Profit-seeking, comparison and vanity have become the main tone of society. Therefore, today's snobbery is worse than in history. People's behavior is more explicit, more realistic, and more straightforward. White, there is no need to hide it. More vividly. The performances at various gatherings were even more impressive. The rich were flamboyant, while the poor were arrogant. Everyone was so arrogant and uninhibited, flattering the superior and humiliating the inferior. To the point where they didn’t even need a fig leaf anymore. What kind of friendship between classmates. , the love of comrades-in-arms, the love of colleagues, and the love of relatives are all put aside. This is the harsh reality today, and it is becoming more and more realistic, until it reaches the predicament where the love between brothers and sisters has faded and they have no contact with each other. This is the rapid economic development. The human pain caused by it, and the trend and necessity.

It doesn’t matter whether this question is reasonable or not, it is a cruel reality.

Being poor means having no meaning to others. You cannot help others, you can only be helped by others; you cannot give to others, you can only be given to others.

Being poor means not having enough food and clothing.

Who wants to be with the poor and be with the poor!

Being rich means being willful and having willful capital.

Seeing that you are in embarrassment, it is so cool to throw away the big money.

Rich, countless friends, surrounded by beautiful men and women, and countless people who are willing to work like dogs and horses.

Once the wealth is gone, the building will be empty and the people will be empty.

If you don’t believe it, just watch "A Dream of Red Mansions". Suddenly, it sounds like a building is falling, and it is so dark and miserable that it looks like a light is about to burn out. Sighing on the world, it is difficult to determine the end.

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How many people can be poor but not have ambitions to become wealthy, poor and humble, and happy in poverty?

Just look at the money, not where it comes from; as long as you are rich, you will envy and praise him, no matter whether he is a saint or a tortoise.

Weaver Girl loves Cowherd, Zhu Yingtai loves Liang Shanbo, that is a myth, that is a legend, how many of them are there in reality?

Jack Ma, not handsome, has a beautiful wife. ?

The backbone of a nation that is obsessed with money will always be curved.

What are the consequences of being unkind for the sake of wealth?

The confidence of adults comes from money! Making friends in a social setting is like playing stud in a casino. If you are not short of money, you will dare to follow as long as you have cards; if you have no money, you will not have the confidence to catch good cards.

There is an old saying: Face is given by others, face is lost by oneself. Why should others give you face? Why are you embarrassed? The answer actually has only one word: money. If you have money, others will give you face. If you don't have money, you deserve to be embarrassed everywhere.

Rich man Ren Zhengfei once said a very classic and sadistic saying. The main idea of ​​this sentence is: The people who can achieve success in the world are all shameless people. Only those who have no future will not work hard to make money, but focus on maintaining their own face. This kind of people often don't make much money, but they always want to save face and suffer.

Face is given by others, but no one in the world will give you face for no reason. There is a prerequisite for letting others give you face, and that is to see how you are doing.

If you are rich and powerful and live well, others will give you face; if you are poor and live well, even your own parents may not give you face. It is human nature to follow the inflammatory trend and dislike the poor and love the rich.

Don’t socialize when you don’t have money in your pocket, and don’t talk to people who speak softly. If a person does not live well, has no money and still likes to talk nonsense in social situations, everyone will regard this person as a fool or a madman.

But if you are a rich man, even if he talks eloquently, talks nonsense, and talks nonsense, people will still listen to him. What's the reason for this? Because they have money.

How much a person's face is must be directly proportional to how well he gets along. In this age where materialism is rampant and heroes are judged by how much money they have, everyone's face will only be given to those who are rich.

As for those who don’t have money, it’s better to save some face for yourself. Go out less often, see less people, keep to yourself, and avoid people when you see them. This is to save face for yourself.

Always remember: the confidence of adults comes from money. If you don't have enough confidence, just put down your face and make money. When you make money, you automatically earn face.