My divorced aunt came to my house for a month, ruined my five-year marriage with my husband, and got divorced. What should I do?
This sentence, in my opinion, is wrong. Only those men who can't carry it clearly will treat their wives as clothes. Throw it away if you don't want to wear it, and treat your brothers and sisters as family.
A man, as an adult, is unsuccessful if he can't even keep his marriage. As the old saying goes: cultivate one's morality and govern the country.
Can a person do great things even if he can't keep his home? I don't believe it.
Zhang Lele's husband Liang Tao is such a confused person. After five years of marriage, it is still very harmonious, and occasionally there will be some small quarrels at home. Because the divorced aunt came to live at home for a month and got divorced.
After Zhang Le Le and Liang Tao got married, they moved out to live alone. They gave birth to a child two years ago, so that her mother-in-law could come from her hometown to take care of her. Originally, a family of four people, occasionally a little friction, is normal, but some human fireworks.
Liang Tao has a sister who is two years older than him. She got married early because her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law didn't get divorced. After the divorce, I had nowhere to go, and my hometown was too cold to live, so I had to take refuge in my brother Liang Tao.
At first, Zhang Lele treated him with respect as a guest, bought him fish and meat, and fresh fruit, and chose the best for everything.
Gu Jie wants to be a good person. She thinks this fish smells fishy, the meat is not cooked well, and the fruit she bought is not to her taste. She is like an ancestor in her brother's house, and she doesn't do housework at all. Zhang Lele didn't say anything for Gu Jie, thinking that Gu Jie would come to stay for a few days and then he went back. Why bother?
As time goes by, every day menstruation is here, she hates it. The Zhang Lele family bought a second-hand house. In big cities, it is well known that houses are expensive and cannot be bought. When I bought it back, I didn't have much money on me, and I owed a lot of debts to my relatives and friends, so I had to simply renovate the house and move in.
From the day I entered the house, my aunt began to dislike it. Why is the house so broken? You can buy it. If you go back to your hometown, you can use the money to buy a villa. I hate small rooms. I can only put down a bed and wardrobe, but nothing else.
Liang Tao explained to her sister that in big cities, land and money are scarce, so she can only buy such things, and there is no way out.
Originally, Liang Tao was telling the truth, but Jie Gu was more enthusiastic. She said, brother, are you stupid? If I were you, I would go back to my hometown to buy it. If you think you can't spend all the money, lend it to me and I'll help you spend it.
Liang Tao said that children should go to school here and our husband and wife should work here. There's nothing we can do. Moreover, there are few employment opportunities in my hometown and it is impossible to go back.
Jie Gu's resolute attitude is offensive.
After dinner, Zhang Lele will accompany the children to read picture books, usually go to work and spend less time with them. She can only spend an hour with her children at night, washing dishes and pots are all done by her mother-in-law.
Jie Gu sarcastically said, you work too hard, mom. You are just like your brother's nanny. You must take care of the baby and do housework. It is really lazy for a daughter-in-law not to do these things.
It was very quiet, but Zhang Lele heard it. Zhang Lele has put up with it for a long time, and now a month has passed. My aunt has no intention of leaving, but she must stay here. She also wants to go everywhere, pointing fingers, gossiping in her mother's ear every day, speaking ill of her sister-in-law in front of her brother and provoking the relationship between husband and wife.
Zhang Lele couldn't bear it any longer and stood up: "I said, elder sister, you are so strange. Can't you see that I am reading with my children? You have a bad relationship with your mother-in-law and are divorced. Don't try to provoke my family, let my family jump. If you go on like this, I won't welcome you! "
When Liang Tao saw that Zhang Lele caused a sensation, he shouted to her, "What are you doing? How can your relatives treat you like that? Can you be polite? "
"You're welcome? Your sister has been making irresponsible remarks since she entered the door, disrespecting three and four, and never spoke ill of me for a moment. I've had enough. I tell you, if she doesn't move out of this house, I'll leave, and I'll take the children! " You are welcome, Zhang Lele.
Liang Tao is really a dog in the manger, saying that my sister is divorced and has no place to live. It's pathetic If I don't help my brother, it would be unkind. I won't let my sister move away anyway.
Zhang Lele is crazy. Is it necessary for menstruation to stay in my house for one day if she doesn't remarry? Too many.
"Liang Tao, if you don't get rid of your sister, I will divorce you. You can say it, you can do it! " Zhang Lele ordered to die.
But to no avail, Liang Tao simply ignored Zhang Lele, thinking that she was joking and unreasonable. Unexpectedly, three days later, Zhang Lele threw the divorce agreement in front of Liang Tao: "Divorce, half of the property at home belongs to me, and I also have a share of buying a house, so I can get half."
Liang Tao at this time, just blindsided, the original wife is playing for real.
There is a saying that women are not ruthless and unstable. People are easy to bully. The more you tolerate them, the more people will stand on your head and shit. In the face of such a man who only wants a family instead of marriage, he should stop loss in time if he sees his true face earlier. Do you think so?
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