I watched a love story in Tokyo for the first time and talked about my feelings.
But recently, my sister strongly recommended it again, saying that it should be seen once a year. She made a fuss about the play. I didn't know if it was good, so I persisted. I watched the first episode reluctantly.
Then, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8 can't stop.
Shit, it feels like two people are breaking up. God, I can't take it anymore. I won't watch it. I just watch the first 1 1 episode.
Ah, ah, ah. Solve why I am crying to death, but I still don't want to watch 9 episodes or 10 episodes. I don't want to be abused.
So I watched the eighth episode from 1 again. Forget it, let's finish it.
So the second time, the third time and the fourth time. .
I can't remember how many times I cried.
Well, that's how I watch the play.
Today, I feel like I'm slowly coming out of the play. Let's talk about my own views and briefly talk about a few issues that we have discussed:
1. Is the meatball Ailixiang?
My answer is yes: love. Even this kind of love exceeds Maruko's love for Li Mei.
For Maruko, a simple country boy, Li Xiang is shining, full of surprises and expectations, just like Tokyo. Although Maruko, who first arrived in Tokyo, was full of anxiety, he resolutely chose to give up his job in his hometown and come to Tokyo, indicating that he was yearning for it. He doesn't know this city. He tried to be a "Tokyo man". This process is the same as his understanding of Li Xiang. He is full of curiosity and incomprehension about Li Xiang. But Li Xiang's bright spot has brought him infinite vitality, which he needs very much.
Li Mei is Maruko's first love. For each of us, the status of first love is always irreplaceable by anyone. As long as we are not together, this regret will always exist. The more regrets, the better, and the best you can't get. Li Mei has the traditional beauty that Maruko likes, but that was only when he was a teenager. Maruko is in high school. At home, there is absolutely no girl like Li Xiang around him. He has never seen or thought about it. However, Maruko has always had a crush on Japan and the United States. He never got it. This girl is so beautiful to him that she spits cherry stones in front of him. Li Mei is a teenager who yearns for love.
Five years later, Maruko came to Tokyo with an obsession with Li Mei. Although we still love Li Mei when we meet again, when I watch it, I always feel that facing Li Mei's meatballs is like being in high school, and all they have is high school memories. Maruko has never been with Li Mei. They are very cautious every time they meet, and both sides keep their distance. This distance makes Maruko still unable to get along.
Li Xiang is different. Li Xiang is real, real and naked. She generously admitted that she was a mistress, and also generously declared that she liked meatballs, and even directly proposed to sleep with meatballs. This is Tokyo-style love, modern and open. Maruko retains the Ehime-style tradition, which is difficult for him to accept and understand, but he has not refused. When Japan, America and Sanshang first got together, four people went out to play together. Sanshang asked Maruko what he thought of "Li Xiang", and Maruko said, "She said what I could do just to play with me". I think Maruko likes Li Xiang at this time, but he is not sure. He has his self-esteem.
For Maruko, Li Xiang is not only a girlfriend, but also a pillar in her work and life, which is the support of Maruko in Tokyo. How to distinguish between "love" and "dependence" is sometimes difficult.
Let me tell you my own real experience. When my husband and I were in love for four years, we discussed the issue of marriage. At that time, I began to doubt whether I loved this man or not, and then I began to ask myself what love was. My husband took good care of me during my four-year relationship. I'm used to everything around him. We witnessed each other's worst moments, and we knew each other. However, it's long past the time when we thought of each other's heart beating faster and holding hands and hugging. During that time, I often thought of someone, that is, my first boyfriend in high school. We didn't even hold hands in that young relationship. Compared with my boyfriend at that time, the memory of my first love made me feel dull, and I even regretted it. However, there was a time when my boyfriend was on a business trip and we didn't meet for two or three months. I don't know how powerful habit and dependence are. My heart won't beat faster when I think of him, but I will think of him when I eat, watch movies and take a boring walk. The trace of this person is too heavy, just like the meatballs of Dong Aili Li Xiang after her business trip. In fact, I didn't realize how deeply that person left a mark on your life.
I remember when I was watching You Are the One before, Grandpa Meng said something, but I don't remember the specific content. It probably means that this is not even passionate love, but habit, that is, no one is right except that person. I realized how I felt at that time. Now that we have been married for more than a year, I still feel that there is no passionate love, but without him, everything is wrong.
Whether Maruko is Ailixiang or not, although he is not sure himself. Tokyo is changing him, and so is Li Xiang. He is struggling with his conservative tradition, and the result is clear, but he doesn't want to admit it. This is what I hate most about him. Speaking of simplicity, Li and I want to live together, and Li wants to be like Li Mei. Full of hypocrisy. Japan and the United States don't want to spit cherry stones in front of meatballs. I really don't feel beautiful. I just feel pretentious, as if I were a fairy who couldn't shit. This feeling is probably only available at the age of 16 or 17. Of course, maybe I don't understand. After all, as soon as the play started, I took root in my mother's stomach.
Japan and the United States say that Maruko is most energetic when he is with Li Xiang. Li wants to make meatballs easy, and Japan and the United States let him carry heavy loads. You can look at the meatballs before and after episode 7. This is the key to eliminating the distance between Japan, the United States and Maruko. When the wall between them was demolished, Maruko still thought that Japan and the United States were beautiful. No, you can see the mood of meatballs. He is no longer cautious about Japan and the United States. Li Xiang painstakingly cultivated meatballs to adapt to the ever-changing meatballs, and gradually became confident that the excellent meatballs were dragged back by Li Mei. He began to feel inferior again, began to be conservative, and finally gave up Li Xiang painfully.
Without Li Xiang's meatballs, he worked harder and became his pillar. Is he happy with Li Mei? I don't know. With Li Mei, he is handy, comfortable and stable. However, his life is not wonderful or new. From the way he finally looked at Li Xiang, from the embarrassment when Japan and the United States tied their shoelaces, and from the fact that Japan and the United States were waiting for him downstairs in the company, he was not fifteen minutes early but late.
Li Xiang has made Maruko grow, and Japan and the United States have left Maruko intact. But in Tokyo, Maruko, how can you forget Li Xiang?
2. Does Li Mei have an abacus?
Japan and the United States have no calculation. If she had, she would have held Sanshang in her hand.
What does Li Mei have? Japan and the United States have the same memories as Maruko, absolute understanding of Maruko, and tears.
The person Li Mei really loves is Sanshang. She waited for Sanshang, pretending to turn a blind eye to Sanshang's philandering, until finally she couldn't bear to leave. Maruko is just a spare tire, which is traditional in Japan and the United States. Although Maruko is a spare tire, he is also a spare tire that knows the roots, especially a very good friend. We often say that there is no pure friendship between men and women, perhaps because most friends of the opposite sex have a certain degree of possessiveness towards each other. You may have a good relationship, but if one of you falls in love with someone else one day, I think for most people, there will inevitably be a sense of frustration at this time. Although I know that I can't get it, it will be embarrassing for others to get it, especially when this person still likes himself.
Li Mei is like this. Maruko was her only support when she lost her third year. Of course, she can't let go of meatballs, a simple and honest man who meets her various standards. Li Mei is a traditional woman who needs men to rely on. Unlike Li Xiang, she can take it alone. Li Mei can't. She was used to being surrounded by sanshang and meatballs since she was a child. She is used to being a fairy. She is also used to weakness and asking for help. Of course, she is used to herself.
So, she has no scheming. Maybe she knows that Maruko's heart is not entirely on her, but she can accept 50% of Maruko, and she doesn't want to lose it completely. Who else can she rely on?
3. Love about Li Xiang is heavy.
I have seen countless answers about the ending reasons of Maruko and Li Xiang, the most of which are "Li Xiang's love is too heavy", "Maruko can't afford it" and "Li Xiang's request is too pure". To tell you the truth, after reading these comments, I seriously doubt that it was all done by boys. What do you mean love is too heavy to bear? Li Xiang's request for meatballs is pure love. I know someone will say "love is the hardest thing to give". What else can I say when I say this? What can we talk about without love?
My own feeling, on the whole, is not that Li Xiang is demanding, not that Li Xiang loves too much, but that Li Xiang's love is too mature, so mature that both people should have a heart, which is unique and can stand all kinds of tests. This doesn't match the meatballs at that time. Meatballs are too simple, just like a big boy. He doesn't understand all this. He is confused about the relationship between Li Mei and Li Xiang. He doesn't know who he loves more. He can't lie to Li Xiang. You can't ignore the inner beauty.
So meatballs were too timid at that time, and he didn't deserve Li Xiang's love.
Three years later, the minister said to Maruko, "Now you can get along well with Li Xiang."
Why? Because Maruko has grown up!
Therefore, for many people who accuse Li Xiang of loving too much, I just want to say how not to say that I don't deserve it. (very angry)
Why do you love someone so wholeheartedly? She's lonely. She is lonely, brave and self-reliant, but she is just a girl. Many times, she is lonely, just like staying at home alone for a long time. If you have guests, you can't wait to bring out all the delicious food at home, and so can Xiang. It's hard to meet someone you like, of course, you have to be whole-hearted.
Some people say that "no one wants to serve a demon all his life", and Li Xiang is too demanding. Li Xiang's request, just want to let her in the heart of meatballs. She never stopped Maruko from looking for Japan and the United States. All she wanted was the choice of Maruko, who didn't even make a choice. For men's wavering feelings, which girl is willing to continue to be confused?
4. Why aren't you together?
Who knows?
Maruko and Li Xiang don't know themselves.
Everyone has his own answer.
Many times, the regret that life misses is only a moment. Even then, we may not realize what we are losing.
I have no doubt that in Maruko's heart, there must be memories of loving Li Xiang and being loved by Li Xiang.
As for whether you still love Li Xiang later, how can you still love him? This person is in your heart, you worry about her and pray for her. You cherish all the memories with him, even a little distressed. It's just that you can't leave everything behind to find him, and you can only miss him deeply in the long years.
This is also a mature love.
5, finally say a few words.
When I first wanted to write, I had a lot of things in my mind, and I was penniless when I wrote. I found that what I can express is less than one tenth of what I thought. Let's just say.
The first time I loved Maruko and Li Xiang, and the second time I loved Sanshang and Li Xiang.
The ending of grade three is the best. He has two women who are the most important to him at the same time.
Maruko and Li Mei are both stable and practical. But not enthusiastic. After all, both of them have their own defects in their hearts.
Li Xiang has her best, which is the best after three years, Maruko and former minister. Li Xiang deserves better love.
Just let it be, personal feelings, don't spray if you don't like it, Li Xiang protects yourself!