The true and correct method of choosing burial date among the people
1, avoid the day of heavy mourning.
Heavy mourning refers to the situation that some of their family members or relatives died in succession within nearly 100 days or as far as one year after death. The first thing to consider when choosing a date is to avoid heavy mourning. There are two reasons for the heavy loss. One is the heavy mourning on the day of the death of the deceased, and the other is the heavy mourning on the day of the funeral.
2. avoid the days that are unfavorable to the eldest son and grandson.
China has always attached importance to his eldest son and grandson, and regarded them as representatives of future generations. In dealing with family affairs, the important position of the eldest son and grandson is obvious. When choosing the date of funeral, we should give priority to the numerology of the eldest son and grandson and avoid the unfavorable days first.
3. Avoid the days when you are in conflict with Tai Sui.
Too old to control the good or bad luck of the world for a year. Old, quiet. The funeral itself is full of sadness. If the selected day conflicts with Tai Sui, I am afraid it will touch Tai Sui, annoy Tai Sui and bring disaster, so the funeral day must not conflict with Tai Sui.
Funeral etiquette
Funeral etiquette is a special culture passed down by all nationalities in the world, and there is a great gap between different regions. Even in villages separated by dozens of miles, some remarks and practices are not the same. The main ways to deal with the dead are burial, funeral and funeral. Burial of the Han nationality has a history of thousands of years. In ancient times, it was emphasized to be buried in the ground. Because "Zhou Li" stipulates that "all sentient beings will die, and when they die, they will return to the earth", and a heavy burial is filial piety.
Burial, also known as burial, is popular all over the world and originated in the middle of Paleolithic Age. In western Europe, most tombs are the earliest known tombs. In primitive times, all clans had fixed cemeteries. In slave society and feudal society, families also have fixed burial places. Burial graves usually bury a body, but there are also several people or clans buried together, and burial is the most commonly used in funerals.