Dictation of urban emotional articles
1: When people reach middle age, use wisdom to make love last forever.
Author: Yang Yang
? Honey, I have a chance to get promoted. Do you think I should go?
? I should. Do you have to ask?
? But I will stay in Changsha for a long time, and I can only come back once a month. ?
Gan Song used a bunch? Benefits? Filled my silence: if I go, the company will provide me with a car, which will be left for you to pick up your daughter. Don't you want to buy another suite? I will earn more than 200 thousand a year in the future, just around the corner! ?
Two years ago, Gan Song and I? Discuss? Go to work in Changsha. The blueprint he drew is so vivid and concrete, isn't it? Know the big picture? All wives should support it. But there is always something awkward in my heart.
After Gan Song went to Changsha to take office, he called home every day. By the end of the month, he will not only give me a lot of money, but also buy gifts for my daughter and me. He bought me three designer bags by himself last year. However, I feel worse and worse. In the past, I especially hated Gan Song's snoring. I can't sleep now that he doesn't come back. When I hear footsteps in the corridor at night, I will subconsciously prick up my ears. In fact, I know in my heart that today is not the day for him to go home, but I always have an expectation. Maybe he wanted to surprise me. I will stick to Gan Song for two days when he comes home, but after a few words, we are all bored.
Last March, I discovered a secret of Gan Song, who joined a QQ chat group in Changsha. I always feel that only people who are particularly empty and lonely in reality will seek sustenance on the internet; I never thought I would look through my husband's laptop, did I? Self-taught? Like an experienced private investigator. Perhaps, women will show great potential when they perceive emotional crisis. In a word, Gan Song went back to work that day, but I had a thrilling experience at home.
I haven't found out that Gan Song cheated. However, many names in that chat group are ambiguous, and men and women are in full swing. I have a strange hostility. These people must not have so much to say to their wives and husbands. Gan Song sleeps next to me, but I don't think this man's heart is on me! What's the secret in his computer, and whose heart is it now? I decided to find out.
What does your partner lack?
I applied for a QQ number, took a very attractive name, red high heels, and successfully entered the chat group where Gan Song was located.
At about 10 in the evening, Song Gan made a joke about current politics, and I immediately replied. This is the tacit understanding between the two. 16 couples can't have a tacit understanding? On the third day, I simply proposed a private chat.
I asked Gan Song? You are very popular in the group. Have you ever thought about what will happen, and he will answer immediately? I just came to work in Changsha last year and wanted to make more friends. But you, the name is easy to misunderstand. ? I made up a story: my husband has been abroad for a long time, and my children are at grandparents' home. I am empty. ? You can read more books or learn something! ? Gan Song inspired me. Women over 40 should dress themselves up and improve their taste. Times have changed now. Look at those female stars in Carina Lau and Rosamund Kwan. More than 40 years old is more interesting than 20 years old. ?
I won't give up. Go ahead. No matter how innovative I am, it's just new wine in old bottles, which is always inferior to a brand-new person in my husband's eyes. Well, it is inevitable for a man to be tempted, but you must believe that he can grasp himself at the last minute. It is precisely because families are prone to problems in this period that women should carefully manage and enhance their charm. ?
I'm running, okay? Temptation? Gan Song went there, but I really talked to him, but I didn't have that idea. More importantly, with our new identities, Gan Song and I can speak freely. Before he asked me to change my image and learn something, I would definitely think that he was dissatisfied with me. But now, I can accept it.
After chatting for a few days, I got up the courage to ask a question that has been hidden in my heart for a long time: Are you satisfied with your wife? You ask this question, which means you don't understand marriage yet. ? Gan Song said,? No one can make the other party 100% satisfied, such a request is too selfish! I just want her to get used to it. Of course, I can adjust my expectations myself. ? There was a strong and firm warm current in my heart at that time. I can do what Gan Song said, not to mention putting on makeup and reading.
Transform real marriage with reference to dreams.
After talking with Gan Song for three or four months, I gradually found that he was very lonely inside. Once he said: I hope my wife can worry less about children and the elderly. I often feel that she has divided herself into many parts, one for children, one for the elderly and one for work, so of course there are very few left for herself and me. I can't blame her, but I always think we should have our own lives. ? At that moment, I shed tears.
On National Day, Gan Song came back to organize a family reunion. I looked at him when he was busy, and I was in a trance for a moment: Is this person the same as the person on the Internet? Why can't we speculate about life as we do online? Our marriage looks lively and complete, but there is too little communication. This kind of communication does not mean to be caring and attentive, not to ask about the price of vegetables and children's homework, but to communicate in depth!
? Eleven? Before the long vacation ended, I pretended to chat with Gan Song. I'd like to see the book "A Bleeding Life" that you mentioned. You can show me that he stared at me with wide eyes as if he didn't know me. I went on to say:? I want to have my hair cut short. You said short hair was fashionable before, didn't you? He suddenly smiled and nodded.
I told him that day, in fact, people can't just talk about love once in their lives, thinking that once they step into marriage, they will be once and for all. Both husband and wife should try to maintain a state of mutual concern when they are in love. Whenever they feel dull, they should talk again, so that their marriage can be stable. He suddenly asked me: Who taught you all this? I said, I'm imagining things. ?
After Gan Song returned to Changsha, we chatted online. He said that he was particularly happy to find that his wife had become coquettish and loved to discuss books with him and even compete with him. His tone seems to be complaining, but it is full of sweetness only for a man who loves his wife. I laugh at him? Is Sun happy? . I have discovered a new world myself. It turns out that a 40-year-old woman can live out her life outside the family, pick up her favorite literature books in college, and put on red high heels that she was afraid to wear when she was young.
(The characters in the oral record are pseudonyms)
Best of all, I have a crush on you all my life.
Author: Simao
This kind of secret, tortuous, youthful and contradictory feelings of teenagers are only once in a lifetime, so they are precious and unforgettable. He didn't know all this until later.
/kloc-at the age of 0/6, he has Mohican hair, likes to watch young and dangerous people, and like his eldest brother Chen Haonan, he has a group of younger brothers at school, which is very prestigious. One early winter afternoon, he skipped class and wandered outside the school gate, and was seen by a group of gangsters in the technical school next door. He secretly cursed a dirty word, thinking that his brother was just not here, and even he was going to see blood today.
But no, when the gangster approached, she stopped beside him on a motorcycle and let him get on the bus.
He turned around and saw a young woman wearing a white cotton-padded coat smiling at him and saying, in broad daylight, wearing a school uniform, why not stay at school?
He felt very strange because he didn't know her at all. Strangely enough, he got on her motorcycle.
I saw her again a week later, when she stood on the podium and smiled and introduced herself as the new head teacher. This class is a famous mouse nest in the school. Girls only know how to dress up. Boys are bullies. He is the leader. Not long ago, he left the last class teacher first. Since then, no teacher in the school is willing to take this hot potato.
As soon as she entered the school, she was pushed into the fire pit by the leader without knowing the personnel and being confused.
But for her, he can't do any practical jokes. He told himself that because she had saved herself, as the eldest brother, she should at least be loyal to the Jianghu.
Unexpectedly, after a while, all the students who encouraged him to play pranks turned against each other and put an end to it. Because, in a group of unhappy female teachers, only she always wears a gentle smile; When the whole school turned a deaf ear to their class, she still walked through the flag-raising platform with the momentum of the whole class, as if taking them as the greatest pride; Even if the classmates who talk to her get worse grades, she will look at each other with smiling eyes; She talks about literature in class, and those ancient poems trickle out of her mouth, and a group of children who never study stare at her with fascination.
Girls talk to her about clothes constellations after class, and boys play some harmless jokes around her. He always has a glib tongue, and always tells some jokes on purpose to make everyone laugh. When he sees that she is amused by herself, he can't help being happy. There's a name in her name Huh? Word, everyone calls her Sister Ya. He follows suit, sister ya.
One afternoon, he was playing basketball with the boys in the class on the playground when he suddenly heard her calling her name. When he turned around, he saw her passing the playground and said to him with a smile. He plays basketball well and is handsome. ? He suddenly felt sweet in his heart.
He read Jin Yong's novels and saw Yang Guo sigh. Ten years of life and death, nothing to think about, unforgettable Looking at her on the podium again, I finally realized that if Yang Guo hadn't met the little dragon girl, he would never have become a true warrior with a strong heart and tenderness.
He really restrained himself. Playing truant, being late and fighting are all in the past. However, the feud with the technical school gangsters is not a day or two. When he received a challenge from the other side, he still took a group of brothers to fight. At that bloody age, this is called fighting for glory.
I didn't expect the other party to come prepared this time. He made his own cover and let his brother escape. After the fight, he was covered in injuries and blood, and he didn't know where to go.
He called her. She came to see him soon, surprised and worried when she saw him. On the way to the hospital by motorcycle, she didn't say a word, and the expression in the rearview mirror was always gloomy.
She took him to the hospital to get medicine. The doctor said that he needed two stitches in his forehead, and it was best to check his concussion. Her eyes turned red when she heard this.
When sewing the needle, the doctor secretly smiled and said to him, look how much your sister cares about you. Do not fight. Look, she is crying. ?
Her tears convinced him that he was above others in her heart. The little dragon girl spent sixteen years, and finally waited until Yang came to find her. He also wants her to wait for him. It won't be long before the college entrance examination is over and he graduates from college. He will definitely come to see her then.
The school held a basketball match. She not only encouraged the whole class to participate actively, but also set up a cheerleading team with girls. Every time between performances, he tried to find her place in the crowd. He tried his best to throw a beautiful three-pointer to her.
On the day of the competition, their class won the first place in the whole school. Everyone throws things and cheers on the playground, and everyone shouts? Sister ya, sister ya? Gave her an excited hug. When it was his turn, he pretended to be relaxed and calm. Sister Ya, I was very handsome on the court just now.
Without saying a word, she approached him with a smile and took the initiative to embrace him with open arms.
The symbolic hug lasted no more than three seconds, but after that, his heart was pounding all day.
In a blink of an eye, he arrived in senior three. When he was struggling to solve the problem, he regarded himself as a fearless knight in the era of cold weapons. The college entrance examination is the last obstacle. She is a princess trapped in a castle. As long as he passes the college entrance examination, he can come to her on a bloody BMW.
In the winter vacation of senior three, his only leisure time after studying every day is wandering around her house. Several times, he really met her, and she looked like a layer of happiness-quiet and soft light.
Until that day. She wears a white cotton-padded coat, holds a man in her arms, and sometimes leans her head on the man's shoulder to act like an innocent girl.
When was the first time you got drunk in your life? When did you first want to cry? For him, these two firsts happened on that day.
After the school starts again, the countdown sign for the college entrance examination has been hung high. She didn't go home, but lived in a single apartment at school, accompanying these children to advance and retreat. His grades have advanced by leaps and bounds. She noticed his tired appearance and asked him to combine work and rest with concern and pay attention to rest. He really wants to tell her that this kind of fatigue is not due to the pressure of study.
Summer in the south is hot and humid for a long time. During a class, she inadvertently revealed that the apartment was close to the grove, and the mosquito-repellent incense in the school store was probably pirated, which made her benefit from mosquitoes every day. He secretly remembered. On the same day, he skipped class and took a taxi to the largest supermarket nearby. He selected a dozen different mosquito repellent products, packed them in a whole box and put them outside her dormitory during lunch break.
The next day, she said in class that I don't know which classmate cares so much about the teacher and sent so many mosquito-repellent incense, which will be used up next year.
He shook his fist nervously and watched her smile on the platform, hoping that she would guess it was him and that she would never know.
This kind of secret, tortuous, youthful and contradictory feelings of teenagers are only once in a lifetime, so they are precious and unforgettable. He didn't know all this until later.
So, what happened next?
No later, he walked into the college entrance examination room, he was admitted to a famous school, he left the small city and went to a distant place. He fell in love, graduated, worked, started a business, got married and had children. He lives soberly, happily and seriously in this muddy world.
In the summer vacation of senior three, she died unexpectedly one month before the wedding. He went to her mourning hall, and she was still plain and elegant in the black and white photos. She was 28 years old that year. Every day from now on, whether she is 18, 28, 38 or 48, she will always be 28.
Ten years of life and death are two boundless, disapproving and unforgettable. Thinking of her at the age of 28, he thought, so? Ten years of life and death? That's what you mean.
The knight arrived, but the princess disappeared. His youth ended on that day.
Meeting you is the best thing in life.
Author: Ju Jingwei Source: Yilin
I don't know how Chen Xiao and I got here. Even in retrospect, I will be shocked.
Chen Xiao and I belong to two completely different worlds. She likes to enjoy every casual moment in her life and never thinks about the future. After three years in college, she has eaten all kinds of delicious food near Wudaokou. Going out to eat with her, she will habitually take out a lot of membership cards.
And I have my own dreams and pursuits day after day. Love and food have never been so important in my eyes. However, she is imperceptibly changing me, and I don't know it.
Watching her gain weight day and night, I didn't care if the tone was right, so I told her straight away: Chen Xiao, you fat bastard, you never eat. ?
Chen Xiao's tone was not angry at all. She said? I ate your rice. Oh, no, I will drink your porridge in the future. ?
I really can't do anything about her, but it wasn't like this at first.
I got to know Chen Xiao because of the activities of the department. When the people in the department were having dinner together that day, suddenly a young girl stood at the door. Later, when she sat down and introduced herself, I realized that her name was Chen Xiao. I don't have a good impression of her first impression. In short, she is not tall enough and her face value is not enough. She can only rely on a baby's fat face to make up. Moreover, I am a person who especially hates being unpunctual in time. She was late for the first departmental dinner. I have no interest in getting to know such people.
The most important thing is that I had a very loving girlfriend at that time, and even if I met a girl I particularly liked, I wouldn't expect it. So within a year of knowing her, we didn't have anything in common or even talked.
Of course, other things happened this year, such as my girlfriend and I broke up.
Breaking up is not peaceful enough. Everyone knows that I was dumped by her, including Chen Xiao.
I was in a bad mood. There was a departmental meeting to discuss the activity plan. When the discussion was fruitless for more than ten minutes, Chen Xiao suddenly appeared at the door of the conference room with a guilty expression on his face. I didn't give her a good look and scolded her. Next time you are late, you can leave here. ?
Chen Xiao didn't slam the door to leave, but quietly found an empty seat.
After the meeting, everyone left directly, but Chen Xiao didn't leave the meeting room directly, but put a note beside my hand. I was just about to ask her what she was writing when she had already walked out of the door.
Open the note and read it. It says: If you are in a bad mood, I can take you to eat delicious food.
I thought, do we know each other? Then I threw the note into the trash can, but the next night, I called her and asked her where she was, and asked her to take me to enjoy the gourmet sanctuary.
From then on, I knew she was a lively girl. She is optimistic, as if she had never concealed her sadness. Most importantly, she can really find a long-lost smell in every corner of the street.
The following year, she took me to eat a lot of places, and I gradually got out of the shadow of lovelorn. Sometimes I joke with her: Chen Xiao, do you have any plans for me? The threshold for being my girlfriend is quite high. ?
She never lets me get the upper hand:? Come on, if I had a crush on you, you would have been my type, and I will wait until today. ?
Actually, before one thing, I didn't want Chen Xiao to be my girlfriend at all. Although I am relaxed and happy with her, falling in love and being friends are two different things. I always feel that I can't find the feeling of impulsive love in her. I don't know what kind of feelings she has for me, and I don't want to know if she has the same idea as me.
When my ex-girlfriend asked me to get back together, Chen Xiao finally helped me clean up the orderly world. At that time, I began to avoid Chen Xiao. I'm afraid Chen Xiao will say I have no backbone when he finds out. Of course, I didn't reply to my ex-girlfriend. Chen Xiao found me in my usual coffee shop after I ignored her for a week. She seemed to know something and asked me directly what I thought, without giving me any room for manoeuvre.
I said:? I don't know. ?
Chen Xiao said: Since we haven't forgotten, we should be together. ?
I said:? But some things can't go back, and I don't want to hurt her. ?
Chen Xiao said: Then let her make it clear. ?
I didn't ask my ex-girlfriend out to dinner, so I sent her a short message: I'm sorry, I don't think I used to be. I can't like you as much as I did then.
My ex-girlfriend didn't say I didn't suffer. She replied to my short message with unexpected kindness: Is it the girl who often walks with you? She looks simple and suits you very well.
After being with Chen Xiao, our life is no different from before. The places where we often go on dates are all kinds of snack streets or new restaurants. She said to me: I like you, so I will take you to eat delicious food. I am willing to share everything I like with you. ?
Sometimes I ask her: What can you do besides eating? She's not angry. She told me in the tone of submitting a challenge. I like you. ?
To tell the truth, I have never liked Chen Xiao before. I don't think this kind of girl can become a climate, too petty and short-sighted. Being with such a girl for a long time will make you feel uncomfortable all over.
So I began to dislike Chen Xiao.
I called her and told her: Chen Xiao, I don't like girls who know nothing, and I don't like fat people who know nothing. Take care of yourself. ?
I felt a little regretful when I said this sentence. I think I should be tactful.
Chen Xiao is very sensitive. It was past zero that night, and I received her short message: I know I have never been what you like. I know I'm lazy and aimless, but after being with you, I'm really trying to catch up with you. I never thought you would always be with me. If you want to leave, I'll send you away as I did. So, I agree with you to go. Let's break up.
When I saw the message, I felt very bad. I called her, but the phone rang for a long time and no one answered. I sent her a message: I will wait for you downstairs in your dormitory, if you forgive me.
When I ran downstairs to her dormitory, the figure of ordinary couples had long since disappeared. I took out my mobile phone and looked at the time. It's almost one o'clock in the morning. I also forgot to charge my mobile phone. At that time, I gnashed my teeth and said to myself: you'd better not come down, and I will definitely give you a look. ?
I sat on the edge of the lawn, recalling some past events.
When I was lovelorn before, Chen Xiao took me out to dinner. I didn't want to go back to school early, so I asked her to accompany me around the school. The road I took her was no stranger. It was the road I used to take with my ex-girlfriend.
Chen Xiao made a very unreasonable request to me at that time. She asked me to be her guide. She said that she would close her eyes and walk for a while and asked me if I could hold my skirt.
I didn't refuse.
Later, I got my wish. When I was walking on that road, my predecessor was no longer the first thing I thought of. Instead, I will inadvertently think of the few minutes when Chen Xiao took me across the street corner. I will laugh out loud for no reason.
It was almost two o'clock in the morning when I heard someone coming out at the door of her dormitory. When the street lamp gradually lit up her face, I ran to hug her without a plan.
? Fool, who said anything about leaving you? ?
At that moment, I felt that even if she knew nothing, as long as she was by my side, it would be enough. I broke up with her for the first time.
Chen Xiao never broke up with me again. Although she began to consciously learn something valuable in my opinion, her love for food did not decrease.
It is natural that she is fat.
Later, someone asked me, what do you like about Chen Xiao? I said, I don't know, I just can't do anything about her.