How do men solve the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?

1, reconciliation

When you are alone with your wife, you often whisper in her ear, telling her how much your mother loves you, how much you miss your daughter-in-law, how afraid you are that her daughter-in-law will suffer in this family, and telling her that she wants to honor her mother with you; When I was alone with my mother, I often blew a breeze in front of her, saying that her daughter-in-law was virtuous, that her daughter-in-law often took the initiative to honor her mother, and that her daughter-in-law was afraid of not doing well. In short, let them feel each other's care in each other's hearts.

Step 2 spread good words

As the saying goes, "what can be done is covered on both sides, and what can't be done is spread on both sides." A man who can deceive both sides is very clever. He can not only skillfully make two women's dissatisfaction with each other disappear, but also please each other for two women, increase their goodwill and promote the harmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Men who live from both sides are stupid. Many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law didn't have much contradiction, just a little friction. However, after the small friction in the middle is conveyed by the man, it will also produce a "big spark", which will make the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law extremely sharp and complicated. In addition, some women are too narrow-minded, which will lead to a "problem" that can never be solved. The end result is to throw the messenger into the deep water fever.

3. Even sum

When a man treats his wife and mother, he should not be partial. He should not give his mother the impression that he forgot his mother when he married his daughter-in-law, nor should he say anything to his wife without love.

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If you are in front of your mother and wife, both of them will love and take care of you. If you only accept one, you will ignore the other, which will lead to the contradiction between the two. There is no way but to provoke it, adopt a compromise and not offend two.