Misfortune never comes singly
The death of relatives, car accidents, illness, and the breakup of my girlfriend, a series of blows directly made me question life...
Is this the legendary "misfortunes never come singly"? N years ago, when I was lying on the hospital bed, I cast doubt on life for the first time.
My cousin died of cancer at the age of thirty-six. When I heard the news, I was confused, sad and impatient. My cousin is the kindest person among the brothers. I was confused that the sky was playing tricks on a good person, and I was plagued by injustice and even resentment. This emotion lingered on for a long time.
While driving to my hometown to express my condolences, I bumped into a little boy who was riding a children's bicycle on the road. He looked about eight or nine years old. The child stayed in the hospital for a month, and the medical expenses alone cost nearly One hundred thousand. Shortly after this incident, he fell ill, and then his girlfriend of three years announced their breakup.
Outsiders didn’t say anything, but in their hearts they were sure of the so-called “misfortunes never come singly”. My relatives and friends showed me their care and sympathy. And I kindly advise you that during this period, your fortune will be bad and your life will be full of misfortunes, so it’s better to go out less often. A kind-hearted friend hired a master who studied Feng Shui and Bagua to help me improve my luck. Mr. Feng Shui walked around our ancestral grave and observed it several times, and finally determined that our ancestral grave was buried in the wrong place and collided with something, which caused such a series of troubles and misfortunes. When my parents heard this, they suddenly realized that this was the case, so the whole family rushed to move the ancestor's grave.
Grandpa firmly disagreed. He always believed that the ancestor’s tomb was visited by a Feng Shui master, and he swore that that gentleman’s Taoism was ten times better than the one in front of him. If this geomantic treasure land is touched, my uncle who is currently an official will definitely lose his official position. If he loses his official position, then the cronies recommended by him will definitely lose their official positions, and the cronies of his recommended cronies will definitely lose their official positions. Save. And my second cousin, who is doing a prosperous business, will definitely go bankrupt. If he goes bankrupt, all the people who invested in his business will also go bankrupt. My aunt relies on the reputation he has gained in various situations. , labels will also go bankrupt, and the various glorious titles that our cousins and cousins have received because of him will also go bankrupt. Grandpa said that the loss of moving the grave seemed to be more serious than not moving it, so everyone unanimously decided that they would rather sacrifice me.
When I was lying in bed waiting to die, I thought I was going to die, but then I suddenly discovered that it was another serious joke.
In my free time, I have a pot of old wine, two plates of side dishes, and read various books. I developed a strong interest in "Misfortune never comes alone" that everyone fears and blindly believes in. After various studies and calm and careful thinking, I finally came to the conclusion that "this so-called blessing is not important" in Liu Xiang's "Shuo Yuan. Strategy" of the Han Dynasty. The golden sentence "When the time comes, misfortune will come again" has been completely broken. So I soberly and calmly restored the truth of my entire series of disasters:
The untimely death of my cousin made me devastated. In the midst of extreme sadness and emotional breakdown, I was at a loss. Driving a car. A little boy was playing on the road. He was still young and didn't know how to avoid things. But at this moment, I ignored him due to my low mood. Normally, I would slow down the car for even a kitten or puppy to let it pass safely, but at that time, I ignored a living child until a desperate cry came...
As a result, the spirit became even more broken and the mood became more unstable. Apology, sadness, anxiety, disappointment, despair... some negative and mixed emotions attacked me in a short period of time. I started to become irrational and lost my moral bottom line. The use of foul language and sometimes even fisting came in handy and became a weapon of catharsis. My girlfriend saw that I was deteriorating day by day, and tried to persuade her many times to no avail. After a big quarrel, she left sadly...
Excessive emotional fluctuations and struggles, and the negative energy in my body has become saturated, and my body If you can't bear it, it's like a computer that has a virus. Negative energy is also the same as a virus, so it crashes directly. I was seriously ill, that's what everyone else said. How serious it is, even the doctors haven't found out why. I didn’t think about food and drinks, I was getting thinner day by day, I had bloated and stretched abdomen, I didn’t eat, I burped all day long, and I even had intermittent auditory hallucinations...
Two months later, I walked out of the ward, calm and composed. I greeted my relatives and friends. They looked suspicious, and they must have been curious about why I wasn’t dead.
How could I die? I am still so young. There are still so many beautiful things in life waiting for me to discover! What is "misfortunes never come singly"? This is pure nonsense. If you want to change your behavior, you must first change your mind. Your own mind is just confused. The only solution to the problem: be immune to all kinds of chaos and poisons, and maintain a calm mind. Let "Misfortune never comes singly" stop here and disappear.