Is the blind date's request for "Kyoto household" just a compromise of marriage for the weak?
The word "contempt chain" is very popular on the internet, but it still makes people feel helpless and angry to see "blind date contempt chain". In the major blind date corners, we can't see the beautiful yearning for pure love in reading comprehension. On the contrary, every word is careful machine and big calculation. People on blind dates wear hard armor and are full of their own pride, for fear of exposing the softest and most vulnerable side of their hearts.
The blind date will arrange all the external indicators, as if to bring everyone back to the middle school grade ranking. The first place and the hundredth place seem to be far apart, until they meet again many years later, shaking hands and talking and laughing. The obvious fact is that even if "the door is right", the eight characters and the zodiac are perfect, and the two sides enter the marriage hall. If there is no love foundation, it is difficult to guarantee that life will not be ups and downs in the future. The report said that the abacus of individual blind date "taking advantage of divorce" may not be purely stigmatized.
Blind date may get love, but people with love will never go on blind date. Fortunately, the vast majority of people who are active in the blind date corner are parents in their twilight years. They are experienced and are not afraid of outside comments. For any school-age youth, it is by no means an experience of promoting hormone secretion to divide the whole self into multiple indicators and classify and refine the score. Even if you are a doctor and a beauty, it's a pity that you didn't get a point in the life exam of love.
Well, even if you don't say "love uniqueness", from a more secular point of view, standing on the blind date platform "let anyone choose", you have actually admitted your weakness and powerlessness. The haggle over every ounce of the blind date angle is nothing more than to save a city and a pool in the oldest resource exchange ceremony of mankind. As we all know, there is no big pattern in marriage, and it is naturally impossible to open up a broader territory.
After entering the year of marriage and love, a large number of people participate in blind date, which often gives people a sense of dislocation between tradition and modernity. In fact, blind date will always keep up with the times, and the blind date angle is almost a melting pot of all the problems of the times. No other place is as keen on giving feedback to social troubles as the blind date corner. A joke that is not short of realistic foundation is that since the formal establishment of xiong'an new area, the traffic of dating websites in this area has increased dramatically. "I have a suite in Xiong 'an" has become the most accurate alarm.
In marriage, it is not the original sin to ask for the right person, but the right person without love foundation is the problem. Careful calculation step by step, be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, often mislead people's children and do harm to people. Of course, the vested interests in the allocation of social resources have the ability to be willful, but the disadvantaged groups and the middle and lower classes do not have to compromise. You may cry when sitting in a BMW, and I may smile brightly when sitting in the back seat of a bicycle. It is not only boring but also incompetent to cater to some social values in one place at a time.