What should I pay attention to when I go to my mother-in-law's house for the first time, and what gifts should I bring?

First, the first time to the woman's home taboo:

1, avoid being glib. Speak simply and frankly, like a pool of clear water, crystal clear; No labor, no oil.

2. Avoid boasting. Understand: not that you are smart, but that you are smart; Not exaggerating one's virtue is virtue.

3. avoid timidity. Understand: the more you are afraid of saying the wrong thing, the more you will say the wrong thing; Not afraid of making mistakes will make you speak fluently. Timidity, formality, and shyness are taboos in the first conversation to love others.

4, avoid swearing. Language must be civilized, impolite mantras, idioms, etc. Must be abandoned.

Second, the performance of going to the woman's house for the first time should be:

1, emotionally stable, confident, sincere, natural and graceful, absolutely welcome; Hypocrisy and affectation are bound to be rejected. With self-confidence, the nervous mood will gradually calm down.

2, understand the situation, understand their family members, parents' occupation, culture, interests, experience, personality, etc. The more detailed the better. If you are familiar with the situation, you can be prepared first, and you can be targeted when you speak.

3. Initial content. Think about what questions the other person will ask. On this occasion, future parents-in-law often ask about your family, work, hobbies and so on. You can also make some preparations yourself.

4. Prepare gifts properly, visit each other's home for the first time, and send some gifts to parents appropriately. This not only shows your respect for your elders, but also shows your sincerity. Generally speaking, the parents of the other party will accept it, but it should be noted that the gift should not be too expensive, otherwise the starting point will be too high, for fear that you will be unsustainable in the future.

5. When the parents of the other party ask questions, they should be able to explain and respect, and their voices should be slightly lower and softer. Speak clearly sentence by sentence, and speak politely.

6. Don't look at your watch from time to time, or her family will think that you don't want to stay at her house.

(2) gift selection:

1. Cigarettes: It's definitely no problem to bring cigarettes to your parents' house. In this society of China, carrying cigarettes is still quite popular.

2. Wine: China has a rich wine culture, so it is no problem to give wine as a gift. This is very good.

3, milk powder: the elderly, it is always no problem to drink some milk powder, bring them some milk powder, it should not be wrong.

4, fruit bowl: it is definitely not wrong to send a gift to a fruit bowl. Fruit is basically a necessity for every household. It is ok to buy some fresh fruit.

5, clothes: buy some clothes for the elderly, it should be right, come on, hahaha, you are very good. Always wear clothes, but buy something that suits you.

6. Jewelry: You can buy them some jewelry, such as jade and watches. I think it's still good.