Do you really like the pseudo-exquisiteness displayed by many people nowadays?
In those softwares, the most beautiful little sister and the most fashionable and handsome little brother are gathered. They drink afternoon tea, milk, coffee, go to the SPA, take turns to work out, and never leave their hands. They are radiant at work and close at leisure. They take selfies to make their own breakfast during the day and drink their lives with steak and red wine at night.
Their painting style is basically: carefully set breakfast, fresh fruit, freshly baked bread, and words full of positive energy, such as "The whole day has started again, come on!" This makes people who eat pancake fruit and drink soybean milk every day, or people who eat pickles under steamed stuffed bun porridge, embarrassed to say that they have breakfast.
Of course, several girls went to have afternoon tea together and took some selfies with pouting gestures. Against the backdrop of delicious food, this charming face becomes more and more moving. And more women are busy with work, housework and children, and they can't even drink a mouthful of water a day, which is really in vain.
Or holding a book with clear joints that says, "People who can read are really exquisite." Therefore, even some stars can't avoid the custom. Taking photos at the airport to study is for these exquisite people.
It's easy to say if you have the money to play this exquisite, but many people's "exquisite" life looks beautiful, which is bought by moonlight and the advance consumption of credit cards. Will you still envy them?
Nowadays, with the prevalence of ritualized and refined life, a large number of people live a "pseudo-refined" life, which has spread widely as an infectious virus.
Not only young people pursue such exquisiteness, but middle-aged and elderly people also begin to pursue exquisiteness accumulated with money. For example, there is a post-60 s woman around me. In order to pursue a refined life and overdraw her credit card for plastic surgery, she thinks about how many loans she has to repay every day. Isn't this life tiring?
These people live beautifully in social software, but their lives are chaotic.
In order to take good-looking photos, they hated eating vegetables, so they had to bite the bullet and order a big bowl, just because it was colorful.
The most amazing thing is their home, which is in a mess and it is difficult to find room to stand. The scary thing is, when you want to take pictures, put things aside, leave an open space, and be your "exquisite" self again.
Their exquisiteness is three words, white but their white is fake, just like the painting style that was popular in Weibo for a while was all kinds of brand-name bags, jewelry, shoes and a rich and handsome boyfriend. Even the bulldog breeds at home should be deliberately emphasized as purebred, which attracted many netizens.
However, the false is always false. White people collapse like icebergs in the sun, and most of the brand-name bags are A goods or out-of-season products. The so-called exquisiteness is fake, but even if the fake whiteness is maintained, it will make ends meet.
I don't know when, there are always some people who have been brainwashed by "exquisiteness", so we must prove our uniqueness with exquisite and shiny luxury goods.
If we say that everyone has the right to pursue a better life, it is not an exaggeration to assume a little debt.
But every month, Moonlight's assets and overdrawn credit cards are more like punching a swollen face and filling a fat man. This "pseudo-decent" exquisiteness is not really exquisite.
What is even less well known is that the messy room is full of all kinds of express boxes, finished snack bags, piles of dirty clothes and hair falling all over the floor. ...
In fact, there is nothing wrong with pretending that your life is exquisite. After all, whether life is bitter or sweet is your own.
The biggest fear is pretending to believe. "
In fact, many people misunderstand the meaning of exquisiteness.
Exquisiteness is not as simple as putting on Chanel, painting Givenchy, going back to the past, eating several high-end western restaurants and reading several best-selling books. ...
Exquisiteness is an attitude of living with heart, an upward vitality from the heart, and making life as interesting as possible within the scope of ability.
Li Yinhe said:
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True exquisiteness is never an appearance.
Think of an old man, she is the famous actress Qin Yi. She may be one of the most elegant and beautiful women in China in the last century.
Young or old, she is so charming. She created Mrs Hiro in Lin Zexu, Mrs Fang Lin in Flying Tigers and Ms Lin Hong in Song of Youth with superb acting skills.
In her nineties, she played an old maid-in-waiting in The Legend of the Demon Cat directed by Chen Kaige.
Never let yourself be so down and out.
We all expect to be exquisite people, but we unconsciously jump into the trap of "pseudo-exquisiteness". Then wrap yourself in material and show off that you are doing well.
As we all know, unseen decency is far more important than visible exquisiteness.
In this way, some people say that exquisiteness belongs to the rich and has nothing to do with us ordinary people, so they let themselves become rough, and even went to kindergarten primary school to pick up their children in pajamas, with messy hair and gaunt face. You look depressed.
Exquisiteness has never had anything to do with money or material things. It's more like an attitude towards life. Even if you don't have money, you can clean up your house, dress appropriately, and have few clothes, but you are neat and generous, and you can simply make up every day, which is also exquisite.
Strive to enrich your heart, and you can become the exquisite person whose flesh and soul fit together.