How many times does a man have the chance to change his destiny in his life?
Few people are satisfied with the status quo. Everyone wants to change their destiny, but what is a good destiny?
There is not much discussion on the spiritual level, and there are also happy beggars. Let's discuss it on the material level.
There are only a few chances to change your destiny in life, and every correct decision will profoundly affect the development track of life.
The major choice is about several time nodes, and I hope I can give you some reference opinions.
1. family of origin
No one came into this world by their own choice. We took different scripts and got on the same stage.
Some people are kings, others are beggars. It's not up to you to decide, and you don't have to envy others. Everyone can be happy as long as they play their roles well.
a good birth is decisive for life, and the starting point is the destination of others.
after so many years of development, the capital society is stronger and stronger, and the difference between people is bigger than that between people and dogs.
There is no substitute for the knowledge, wealth and insight brought by family of origin. As the saying goes, it's hard to have a noble child from a poor family.
Few people can improve their knowledge through books under poor conditions, and they experience unimaginable obstacles.
Hunger, cold, affection, disease, and poverty are numerous obstacles that delay the pace of promotion.
The Battle of the Poor Rich is a reality show of Radio Television Hong Kong (RTHK). The rich who participate in the show will experience how to write the word "poor" in five days: live in a shack in a slum, even sleep on the street, work and live without anything.
Tian Beichen is the vice chairman of Hong Kong Xinmin Party, the founder and chairman of G2 and U2 clothing brands of Zongheng 2, Group, and a member of Dong, Tang, Tian and Rongzhong Tian Yuanhao, four families in the south of the Yangtze River in Hong Kong. I have lived a good life since I was a child, and I am a veritable rich man.
He is an MBA from Harvard University. He believes in the free market and the law of the jungle. Before attending the program, he said, "If you have the fighting spirit, the weak can become strong."
He firmly believes that the poor are poor because they don't work hard enough, they don't have enough self-discipline and they don't want to suffer. The problem lies in people. But at the end of the program, he had to admit that even starting from scratch with a knowledgeable brain is still extremely difficult.
2. College entrance examination
Education is a cliche. Cognition determines the upper limit, and you can never make money beyond cognition.
The media likes to peddle stories about becoming a big boss through their own efforts, and people like to listen to these stories. These people are either stupid or bad.
if it had been 3 years ago, there might have been such an opportunity, but today, in the information age, the internet has smoothed out the information gap to the extreme.
you can easily find the information you need, the price of goods and all kinds of knowledge, which are completely open to everyone and within your reach.
And education can give you a sober and intelligent brain, interpret the right and wrong information, and choose the best solution in each choice.
even in terms of utility, just that diploma of 985,211 gives you enough choices.
The threshold for job recruitment in many enterprises is there, basically starting from junior college.
If you can't get into junior college, you will probably have to do manual labor.
at present, reading is the best choice to change your destiny.
3, the first job
Many people don't realize the importance of the first job, and they choose their jobs in a panic. As the saying goes, men are afraid of entering the wrong line.
Your first job determines which city you live in and which industry you will develop in the future.
changing careers after working for several years is tantamount to giving up all kinds of contacts and resources accumulated over the years.
if you don't start your career well, you will be confused and confused in the middle of your career, so that you will be left behind by your peers.
choosing a fast-growing city and a sunrise industry largely determines the subsequent income level and quality of life.
This is an important turning point to change fate, but the impact occurred in the second half, and most people didn't realize it.
4. Marriage
Intimacy is an indispensable part of a successful life.
When you come home full of wounds, she can heal your wounds and give you strength.
if there is a little noise in three days and a big noise in five days, all the energy has been exhausted just by the processing work.
I have to check with my wife when I get home, and it is very difficult to improve.
Apart from emotional factors, marriage is the integration of resources of two families.
It's often said that junior girls hold golden bricks and junior girls hold golden hills.
In fact, the same is true for girls. In the marriage and love market, girls usually choose someone older than themselves.
Age advantage is reflected in wealth, ready-made garage, and the lower limit to ensure the quality of life.
Therefore, the choice of spouse can be said to be a life-long happiness index.
5. Buying a house
Aside from the investment value of the house, simply consider living.
man is a creature that is easily influenced by the external environment.
The environment determines your life, neighbors, circle of friends, job opportunities in the city, etc.
The location of the house purchase is very important, and the life in the first-line and 18th-line counties is completely different
Meng Mu moved three times for a good environment.
to change your life, the most important thing is not to work hard, but to move.
move to a place closest to your dream.
for example, you can go wherever you want to be.
If you want to be an actor, move to Hollywood, and if you want to realize your dream of e-sports, move to Shanghai.
If you want to be a knowledgeable person, move to the library.
Birth is beyond our control, but the environment can be decided by everyone.
geomantic omen has existed since ancient times. The wisdom left by the ancients is not metaphysics, but the law of summing up a beautiful and happy life.
1. Reborn power.
family of origin and its city almost determine the upper limit of one person.
2. Enter the university.
Students in 985 live more comfortably than most of their peers.
3. Work.
After being admitted to a civil servant in a big city, I feel more comfortable than ordinary people all my life, and I have a lot of peace of mind in medical insurance, house purchase, pension and family.
4. Get married.
if you marry a rich and capable daughter-in-law, you can struggle less for many years. But marriage is also an interest relationship, and it is very important to be suitable for each other.
5. Passive income and sideline business.
wages can only solve the problem of food and clothing. If you want to get rich, you need passive income. It is best to have a sideline that you are good at and increase your selectivity.
6. Middle-aged and elderly people are in good health.
health is the premise of everything, especially for middle-aged and elderly people. Being free from illness means saving money and reducing the burden.
7. Seize several opportunities to get rich in your life.
For example, in the bull market from 25 to 27, I bought houses in first-tier cities, Vanke, Maotai, Gree and other stocks 3 years ago, and kept them.
Both men and women, if these steps are correct, life will be more comfortable than others.
A man has about four chances to change his destiny in his life.
first time, born. The choice of birth is very important. If you were born in a rich family, or in a Gao Qian family, such as a military compound, your platform is many generations and times higher than that of poor children in mountainous areas. If you were born in a rich family, you may be surrounded by a lot of people. You received an aristocratic education from an early age, and you may have been sent to study in the West since childhood. You studied in a prestigious university all over the world. After graduation, you will become an executive in one of the world's top 1 enterprises, or you will return to China to accept your possessions. If you don't want to take over the family business, maybe rich dad will give you hundreds of millions of dollars to practice, which is money that poor children may not earn in a lifetime. Born into a rich family, even if you don't do anything, you will stop your family's business, and the remaining assets will not be spent for generations as long as you don't gamble or stock. If you were born in a military compound, maybe you will be a general commanding thousands of troops in the future. Anyway, the starting point is much higher than the average person. In case you were born in a remote mountainous area and your parents are migrant workers, and you become a left-behind child, maybe your parents want to earn your tuition, so you seldom see them once a year. Maybe you will hold their hands after the Spring Festival, and you will be reluctant to leave their hometown with tears in your eyes. Living in backward mountainous rural areas, even if you study hard, it is difficult to get into two books. Even if you are poor in knowledge, it is easy to feel inferior. If you stay in the city after graduation, high housing prices will overwhelm you. Of course, a small number of rural children in mountainous areas have won their lives through struggle, but compared with the second generation of rich second generation officials, the success of poor children is much harder.
The second chance to change your destiny is the college entrance examination. The so-called knowledge changes fate. Nowadays, many enterprises recruit people with academic qualifications. There will be many more employment opportunities for 985,211 college graduates. If you can't pass the college entrance examination, you will probably engage in manual labor with low pay. Of course, a small number of people with low academic qualifications will make a fortune through struggle. However, with the development of society, this opportunity is getting smaller and smaller, and the overall development of high academic qualifications is better than that of low academic qualifications. It is also very important to choose your major after entering the university. Choosing the right major will have a great influence on your future work and career. Therefore, it is an important opportunity to change your destiny by studying hard to get into a good university and choosing a good major.
Third, choose a job after graduation. The first job after graduation and employment attitude have a great influence on life. It is difficult for many majors to find suitable jobs after graduation, and it is difficult for some majors to apply what they have learned in their work. At this time, it is necessary to hold your breath, learn from scratch, and exercise your ability at work. Going to college is a kind of ability to learn again, so your first job and work attitude after graduation are your chance to change your destiny.
fourth, get married. Marriage is also a good opportunity for a man to change his destiny. Finding an only daughter of a rich second generation to marry may completely change his destiny, turn over a salted fish and struggle less for a lifetime.