Description of the feeling of giving birth
Description of the feeling of giving birth
Description of the feeling of giving birth. Indeed, giving birth is a very hard thing! Especially for pregnant mothers who have had natural births, today we I will talk about the feeling of giving birth in detail. Friends who are interested are invited to come and take a look. Description of the feeling of giving birth 1
If you want to use an idiom to describe it, I think "too painful to give birth" is the best description. That kind of pain is something that ordinary people cannot understand. If you use a knife to describe it, If the pain of a cut on your body is level one, then the pain of giving birth will be level ten.
I think that for women who have experienced childbirth, whenever they mention the process of giving birth, they will feel a sense of fear in their hearts, but behind the fear is a surprise, because they are pregnant. The October baby is finally coming to this world, and the joy is indescribable.
When my sister was pregnant with my little nephew, I was in high school in the county. My sister’s house was near the school, and she didn’t have a mother-in-law, so my mother and I lived there. In her family, on the one hand, it is more convenient for me to go to and from school, and on the other hand, my mother can also take good care of my sister, so I have watched her sister's process from pregnancy to childbirth, and I am also very aware of the suffering she has suffered. .
First of all, she was fine in the first two months of pregnancy. She did not have much reaction during pregnancy. However, starting from the third month, she had morning sickness. First, she had this problem with some foods. Later, I couldn't eat anything oily, and I suffered from insomnia for a long time. My whole body looked very haggard. I finally made it to the birth date, but the most painful period had just begun.
It was Saturday night. My sister had a severe stomachache. Later, a group of us sent her to the hospital. Outside the delivery room, my brother-in-law, mother and I were waiting anxiously. We only heard the words " There were bursts of heartbreaking cries. After a while, a clear cry broke the tense atmosphere. The nephew was born, but the sister fainted from the pain. Description of the feeling of giving birth 2
Advantages and disadvantages of pregnancy in your 20s
Advantages
1. The chance of miscarriage is small, only 2-3%;
2. There are fewer concerns about maternal and child health, there are fewer chances of suffering from pregnancy syndrome such as hypertension, and the rate of infant malformations is low. The probability of a woman in her 20s giving birth to a baby with congenital dementia is also low, about 1/1500;
3. She is energetic and has a strong ability to care for her baby around the clock. If you give birth to a child in your early 20s, there will be no difficulty in having more children in the future.
4. If you are not very successful in your career, it is easier to make the decision to be a stay-at-home mother; if you plan to go out to work after your children go to school, you have a wider range of career options, and you don’t have to think too much about age. .
Disadvantages
1. You will feel special in your circle of friends, and you will feel abandoned by others from your past pleasant social life.
2. If the working length is too short, you will not be able to enjoy postpartum benefits; you may not have any income while studying at all.
3. If you have just started working, you will not be financially secure.
Pros and Cons of Pregnancy in Your 30s
Benefits
1. Postpartum complications and postpartum physical recovery are no different from those in your 20s.
2. The relationship between husband and wife becomes more stable.
3. Those in their 30s who have a stable job and some achievements are more likely to receive full postpartum benefits.
4. Financially well-off and able to afford childcare expenses.
Disadvantages
1. After the age of 35, fertility declines sharply and the miscarriage rate increases, reaching 4-5%.
2. The birth rate of deformed children in their 30s is higher.
3. People over 35 years old have more premature births. Prone to high blood pressure, gestational diabetes and other complications.
Advantages and Disadvantages of Pregnancy in Your 40s
Advantages
1. You really want a child and it is the result of many years of expectation.
2. Women in their 40s are already older and wiser, and most of them are not first-time mothers and have experience in raising children.
3. Older women are more reliable both financially and psychologically, and the relationship between husband and wife is relatively stable.
4. Many women have fulfilled their career aspirations in their 40s and do not consider children to be an obstacle to their careers.
Disadvantages
1. After the age of 40, the risk of miscarriage is as high as 13-15%.
2. The probability of genetic defects is higher.
3. The desire to have children decreases sharply, unless you are very healthy and really want to have children.
4. When the child is a teenager, the mother is already over 50 years old. There may be a generation gap with the child, because your youth has long become a distant memory. Description of the feeling of giving birth 3
Feng shui layout for giving birth
Houses facing west to east are also called "Shang Ding Houses". Since the house in this direction is weak in sex and wealth, even if the couple works harder to create a baby, the chance of happiness is still low.
Avoid facing rocks and rocks in your house
If the windows of your house face rockery or rocks in the park, pregnant women at home should be especially careful. These rocks are also known as "Leakage stones" can cause fetal instability and even risk miscarriage.
The best way to solve the problem is to move or move to another room. If there is any inconvenience, move the bedside, always close the curtains or place round ornaments next to the window to block the evil spirits, and do not place them inside the house. Artificial stones and bonsai. In addition, the entrance area should also be kept clean and tidy and should not be messy.
Keep the south side well-lit
In Feng Shui, there are two directions that have a very important impact on the health of the baby. The direction of the house The south side should be kept well-lit, and a few more lights can be installed. Beige is the best color, as it can bring prosperity and happiness. If it is not convenient to install lighting, you can use red posters and carpets instead, which can also promote prosperity. However, trees should not be placed in this location, so do not place potted plants.
Place green items in the north
The second position is the north. You can put the head of the bed facing the north, and add a full set of green bedroom supplies, use wood to make a fire, and use the green color of wood. Prosperity belongs to fire, and putting green plants and four branches of lucky bamboo have the same effect. If there is an air conditioner or fan in the north, you can always turn it on to drive the magnetic field. If not, you can also place the phone here, and the effect will be equally good.
Feng Shui secrets for giving birth to a boy
1. Plant pomegranate trees
You can plant them on the balcony, or in the courtyard if you have a courtyard at home. You can plant pomegranate trees with many seeds. Many grandchildren, or if you grow an osmanthus tree, you can have noble sons, or if you can grow bananas, you can have many more sons and grandsons. This is a symbolic meaning.
2. The bed should be firm
In Feng Shui, the bed should be firm which also means that the fetal air can be retained. Try not to use a sofa bed, camp bed, or water bed. Try not to wait, a sturdy traditional bed is best.
3. The bedroom should be private.
The bedroom should be private. Of course, you have a window outside. Make sure the window is not far outside. Just let someone look over. Don’t tell anyone around you. Family, because some people live with their parents-in-law, their parents-in-law will often come to disturb you at night.
4. Relatives and friends give expensive gifts
Generally, pumpkins are given. South represents men, and the melon represents many seeds inside. This is symbolic, and blessing you will get pumpkins. Or the custom in Taiwan is to send lanterns during the Yuanxiao Festival. The lantern in Taiwanese is Ding, and sending lanterns means adding a child.
Three taboos in Feng Shui when giving birth
1. Large houses
As the saying goes, rich people have more children, because after these rich people get rich, They all like to live in big, empty houses. Every furnishing in the house will absorb people's aura. Such houses are often large and have few people living there, which are prone to energy dissipation. If the body is dissipated, it is difficult to have children, or only girls can be born, but not boys.
Solution: This pattern is easier to deal with. You can place more furniture or set up a tent on the bed in the bedroom to gather energy. At the same time, you can invite some relatives and friends to come over and play to increase the popularity.
2. The room is damp and dark.
Feng Shui believes that if the yin does not grow, the yang will not grow. That is to say, if the environment of a person is composed of yin and yang, a man cannot give birth to a child, and a woman cannot give birth to a child. If the room is dark and damp, it means that the environment is a solitary environment without Yang Qi to neutralize it. It is like the room is a woman without a man, so such an environment is not capable of fertility. Windows that are too small, too many clutter, the distance between buildings is too narrow, the space in the room is not large, there are too many fish and flowers, and lush trees outside the low-rise buildings will cause darkness and dampness in the room, which will affect fertility.
Solution: Remove everything that affects the light and moisture. Open windows as much as possible, remove clutter, turn on lights if the room is dark, move away all flowers and fish tanks and give them away, and try to live in a room with better lighting. You can set up mirrors in the hall to absorb light, but only in the hall, not in the bedroom. If you really can't change it, you can rent or borrow someone else's house to get pregnant and come back after giving birth.
3. Houses with weird shapes
Feng Shui believes that what kind of shape will produce what kind of aura, what kind of aura will produce what kind of people, so-called This is the truth that a place's water and soil nourish its people. Therefore, in order to save space, modern architecture has created a variety of house types, which are also in line with modern people's problems in Feng Shui. In home feng shui, the southwest position represents the position of the hostess, and the northeast position represents the position of descendants, so these two positions should not be missing or prominent, or there are toilets, kitchens, or there are road rushes and sharp shots in these two positions. Bad things such as holes, holes, and broken bones will affect fertility.
Solution: If the external situation is not good, if the distance is not too close, just use some evil spirits to block it. If there are missing or prominent ones in the internal situation, here is a shortcut Dharma can live in the position of the conjunction palace. For example, the east gate lives in the southeast, the southeast gate lives in the east, the south gate lives in the north, the southwest gate lives in the southwest, the west gate lives in the northeast, the northwest gate lives in the southwest, and the north gate lives in the southwest. It is located in the south, and the northeast gate is located in the west. If these palaces in the southwest or northeast are missing, you can choose to have a bed on a day when these palaces are prosperous to make up for the lack of earth energy with good weather.