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What if my elders don't agree with my idea on a date?

1. The selection criteria and thinking concepts of elders are too different from ours.

When introducing each other, some elders often stand in the perspective of their generation and pay too much attention to the dimensions they care about as the screening criteria.

Individual elders want you to get married as soon as possible, and seldom understand your feelings and needs. A lot of times, it's unsociable.

You said you like young and handsome little fresh meat, and he introduced you to a rich and paunchy man.

They don't know or agree with some of your ideas. If you refuse, they will find you difficult and too picky.

2. There are differences in information and cognition between blind date objects.

Sometimes, you can't believe everything the introducer says, and you need to read the subtext. In fact, it is very important whether the referee of the blind date is reliable.

Many aunts and aunts are so enthusiastic that they are pushed to you by the opposite sex. In any case, in their eyes, as long as they meet a man (woman), they can make a living slowly.

They will be urging you: you are so old, what else do you want? Look at your primary school classmates who all gave birth to a second child. You didn't even become someone else's "spare tire".

3. Too much intervention and concern have affected the communication between the two sides.

Many elders often stare at you and ask questions, so you are repeatedly questioned, like a clown on the stage, which makes people watch and gossip.

They will also give you some completely unreliable advice. I will advise you that feelings can be cultivated slowly and persuade you to get married.

In the process of communication between two people, insert the "goodwill assistance" of several people. Among the elders, you have no privacy. They often interfere with your communication and the scene becomes chaotic. So, you became a marionette.

4. Turn the communication between two people into cold data.

Love needs affection, and most blind date objects are basically direct data such as height, occupation and income, which seems to make blind date objects become a commodity.

Elders pay too much attention to the "data" they care about. In fact, when two people are together, they often need to feel and get along, not just some gorgeous "data".

As a result, blind date is like an aunt who goes to the vegetable market to buy food, picking and choosing. And I seem to be a green vegetable and a radish, waiting for others to choose.

A large part of blind date targets are unreliable people.

Sometimes, the blind date of the younger generation may be that the elders are meddling, and the other party doesn't want to participate at all, but under the pressure of the elders, they have to "take part in accidental amusement". As a result, both sides were embarrassed.

On the other hand, in the process of blind date, some people you meet may have some problems themselves.

Blind date itself is a low probability thing, just like a number game. After a certain number, you may meet someone who really suits you.