Is it really difficult to bring a blessed child, and the smarter the child, the harder it is to bring it? Why?
Blessed children are not easy to take care of.
1, the smarter the child, the harder it is to bring. Is that really the case? Why?
Taking care of children is a time-consuming and laborious thing. Many mothers lose tenderness in the process of taking care of their children. Lovely baby also becomes a little evil in day-to-day communication.
Why is mom getting more and more irritable? Not only because these little things are too difficult to do, but also because of shortcomings, challenging mothers' bottom line again and again, let mothers!
But sometimes I think. Are some behaviors of our children really shortcomings? In fact, naughty children are often smarter. These four obvious shortcomings of children are simply the representatives of IQ values, but you have not found the bright spot of children. Don't always complain that children are disobedient. There will be signs of being a champion at home.
Mother Lotus Leaf: My Dabao is simply a small office with amazing power. Whether it's a big toy or a small toy, or something my father and I have, as long as he can get it, he will open it. With luck, he can restore it to its original state, otherwise it will be scrapped again.
Analysis: In fact, children like to disassemble things, which just shows that children have strong hands-on ability and good coordination between hands and brains. They are good at discovering and exploring, and they also have the ability to think independently. Doesn't this prove that children have higher IQ? However, in order to reduce the loss, parents can guide their children how to install things during the disassembly process and develop the good habit of "cleaning up their own mess".
Feifei's mother: My son seems to have a thorn in his face. He can't sit anywhere honestly. He always jumps up and down. I always wondered if he had ADHD. Why is he so active? I took him for a physical examination. The doctor said the child was normal, but lively, just too lively.
Analysis: Active is not necessarily "ADHD". Such a baby is just active. Their thinking is more active, energetic and adventurous. They can always be pioneers in a field, because their brains never stop working while they dare to try.
Why do you say "the smarter the child, the harder it is to take care of it"? What is the secret?
Qingqing's mother: My daughter is all right, but she likes to answer questions and always asks questions. When you explain to her why the sea is blue, she will ask all kinds of questions and insist on fighting you to the end. Sometimes she feels that her parents can't stand it, and too many questions are too tiring.
Analysis: Children who like to get to the bottom of the matter have an advantage, that is, they will draw inferences from others, have a strong desire to explore and have a quick brain response. Although such a baby can sometimes be difficult to do, even his parents will be speechless, but it is precisely because of this that the child is extremely smart.
Pumbaa's mother: My son has been a crosstalk performer since he was a child. His little mouth will never stop jumping and jumping, and he will always be able to say surprising things, making adults think that the child must have crossed. But sometimes talking too much is annoying. Say how to know if the fetus is.
Analysis: The talkative child has a high language talent, and the child can speak amazingly, which also proves that his brain is fast and his memory is better than that of normal children, so don't disturb the children and guide them to say something more meaningful, so as not to bury their talent.
To sum up, the more difficult it is to take care of the baby, the smarter it is. Because their brains react quickly, their actions are different from others' quietness. In the eyes of parents, they are stubborn. Why don't you look at the child differently? Maybe you can see the bright spot in him. A woman with a precious son in her life.