Zhang Zetian and Guo Degang’s son’s high emotional intelligence resolves unspoken rules in the business world. Netizen: It all depends on one mouth

Recently, a photo of Zhang Zetian's wife from a wealthy family leaked out, leaving countless netizens speculating about the wealthy family.

Ever since she made her relationship with Liu Qiangdong public, there has been a surge of ill will, but she has used her high emotional intelligence to resolve them one by one.

During the interview, she was deliberately asked: "How much pocket money does Liu Qiangdong give every month?"

She smiled calmly: "It won't be less. Brother Dong is very talkative at home."

In just two sentences, he calmly resolved the difficulty and gave him some dog food.

After the divorce incident, she studied abroad in the UK and was questioned by netizens for focusing on eating, drinking and having fun. She responded gently: "On the days when I don't post photos, I am studying."

There is nothing The sharp words are convincing and attract fans. No wonder she continues to be popular.

Guo Degang’s son, Guo Qilin, is also a winner in speaking well.

When he was a guest on "The Strongest Brain", he was questioned about his "low academic qualifications", "relying on his father to get the position", and "imitating his father". He resolved all the crises with just one sentence: "I really I'm not imitating, it's genes."

He has won the love of many seniors with his eloquent mouth. Even Zhou Xun said bluntly when he first met him: "I don't know you, but. I just like you.”

Talking well is indeed a plus for us. It also revealed an unspoken rule in the workplace: Your mouth is your Feng Shui.

01

My classmate once shared with me an incident that happened to her:

In the year she graduated from college, she went there with her roommate Xiaohong Interview with a company.

When introducing herself, she thought about how many internships she had done in her senior year. She said confidently:

She was originally very ambitious, but she didn’t expect that the interviewer would not listen at all. Ruthless: "You have no point, what do you want to say?"

A basin of cold water poured over her head, she was extremely embarrassed!

When it was her roommate Xiaohong’s turn:

The classmate said that as soon as Xiaohong opened her mouth, she was frustrated to find that the interviewer showed a completely different expression to her. Xiaohong cast a focused look and an appreciative smile.

At that moment, she knew that she lost.

In this way, she watched Xiaohong become one level higher than her as soon as she entered the company.

Moreover, in the second month after joining the company, Xiaohong posted this to a circle of friends:

“The first lesson I learned when entering the workplace: People need clothes, and words need packaging. ”

Seeing this circle of friends, even though I have been friends for many years, I still feel a little sad in my heart, but I have to admit: those who can talk make money as soon as they open their mouths!

02

Later I thought, it’s okay if I can’t do well in the interview, the job still depends on the specific ability!

Unexpectedly, I was slapped in the face again.

During a multi-department meeting, the leader suddenly asked us to report on our quarterly work.

I panicked all of a sudden, and quickly stumbled and said: "Well... I don't have any big projects this quarter, just a few things... first... and then... ."

After talking for less than a while, he was directly interrupted by the supervisor: "If you have nothing to do, don't waste everyone's time by talking about other things."

I felt very aggrieved. During that time, I worked overtime until very late every day, but I left the impression that "I did nothing".

When it was Xiao Hong’s turn, the supervisor was still rude: “Why did our sales drop so much last month?!”

I was secretly worried about Xiao Hong, but I didn’t Thinking of her, she didn't panic:

"Yes, sales did decline last time. According to statistics, it was 5%.

”

I think there are three main reasons:

My solution to these three points is:

Acknowledge the problem, analyze the cause, and provide a solution Plan, 3 steps, Xiaohong pressed me to the ground and rubbed me hard!

The most uncomfortable thing is that I also want to get these reasons and solutions, but why, I can't immediately! What do you mean?

I have to admit that people who are good at talking are more popular than themselves who only do two or three things, but it sounds like they have done ten things!

Soon after, the position was adjusted and she became my immediate supervisor. Knowing the result, I was mentally shattered again.

Even though we were doing the same amount of work, I was considered to be fishing in troubled waters. But she got promoted. Is it really because of my lack of ability?

I couldn't sleep that night... I thought about it for a long time before I figured it out:

The boss is so busy. I can't see what every employee is doing. If I can't communicate with the boss efficiently and reflect the results of my labor and thinking, I will probably be an irrelevant person in the eyes of the boss!

03

The core of expressive ability is actually thinking and methods. For example, in the last report, my classmate’s roommate used a method in the shelf theory: problem-solving shelf, that is: problem- Reason-Solution.

Only by learning to master such specific methods can you use the most concise language to convey the most valuable information and become an efficient expresser.

As long as you can find the right one. Training methods and learning expressions are actually not difficult.