How did the "marriage of gold and jade" and "alliance of wood and stone" in the Red Chamber come about?

The fifth time in A Dream of Red Mansions wrote: "All roads are golden marriages, and I only read the alliance of wood and stone." Geng's explanation of marriage with Mu Shi refers to the marriage between Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai, and there is a saying in the book that gold locks match jade. The former alliance of wood and stone refers to the love between Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu. In the book, there is a mythical description that a waiter in Shen Ying irrigates crimson pearl fairy grass with nectar. Let's start with the alliance between wood and stone. Logically speaking, the alliance between wood and stone comes first, and the marriage between gold and jade comes later: Lin Daiyu entered the Jia family before Xue Baochai, and her love with Jia Baoyu developed to the point where everyone in the room knew. Xifeng said with a smile, "Since you have eaten our tea, why don't you give it to our family as a wife?" They all laughed together. Lin Daiyu blushed and said nothing, then turned away (for the 25th time). Chi Yanzhai commented: "The second jade thing, all the Jia people-that is, scholars and storytellers-believe in a good couple, and books often talk about it;" That's not true. Hey! " For the first time, when the monk told the story of Shen Ying's love affair with Jiang Zhucao, he was criticized: "Take hard rocks and grass for example. You have experienced all kinds of ups and downs and tasted the taste of love. There is no way to end this cause and effect, so as to vent your sadness in your chest. The ancients said that' a flower and a stone are intentional, and people can laugh without words', which is also called. " The third time I wrote that Lin Daiyu met Jia Baoyu for the first time, "I was shocked and thought,' It's strange, but I seem to have seen it there. "How familiar!" "Zhi Yanzhai's comment on writing is:" Exactly. I must have seen it by the Sansheng Stone on the bank of Linghe River. " Grandmother Jia said to Baoyu, Go and see your sister! Baoyu glanced at Lin Daiyu and said with a smile, "I've seen this sister before." Zhi Yanzhai's comment on writing is: "Crazy talk. Concentric with Daiyu, it is two kinds of pen and ink. " The twenty-eighth time I wrote: Lin Daiyu's worries about Baoyu yesterday have long been forgotten, and she cares about today's affairs, because she said: "I am not so blessed, I can't stand it. I can't compare with Miss Bao. We are just grass and trees! " Zhi Yanzhai's comment on writing is: "Since Tao is crimson pearl grass." Baoyu has only respect for Baochai. Although he likes other girls, his focus is on sister Lin after all. The twentieth time, Baoyu said to Daiyu, "You are a smart man, aren't you ... First, we are uncles and aunts, and Sister Bao is two aunts and sisters. As far as relatives are concerned, he is rarer than you. Second, you go first. We can eat at the same table and sleep together. He is new here. Has anyone spared you for him? " Baoyu was envious when he saw Baochai's white and straight arm. He thought to himself, "This arm should grow on Sister Lin, or touch it and it will grow on her." (See Chapter 28) Baoyu has twice expressed his eternal love for Daiyu. "If you die, I will become a monk." Unlike Liang Wudi's persistent pursuit of Mo Chounv, Jia Baoyu later realized his promise. Lin Daiyu also thanked the waiter in Shen Ying with her own tears. The relationship between Baodai has always been to give your heart to each other's bosom friends. Both Xue Baochai and Shi Xiangyun advised Jia Baoyu not to hang out in the pink team all the time, but to learn more about his career and economy, so as to entertain world events in the future. As a result, he couldn't get off the stage. Baoyu thought that Miss Lin had never said such nonsense, or she would be separated from Lin Daiyu. Daiyu was surprised and happy when she heard this ... She always regarded him as a confidant, and he was indeed a confidant. (Back to the 32nd time) Daiyu was very concerned about Baoyu, and Jia Baoyu was brought back to life by the beheading of a monk. "I heard that eating rice soup saves personnel. Before others spoke, Lin Daiyu read' Amitabha' first. " (The 25th time) Once, she helped Baoyu put on the hemp fiber and hat, but she smiled: "Where did the fisherman come from? Baoyu also wants to send a hat to Daiyu. "It snows in winter. Daiyu said with a smile, "I don't want him." . Wear it, and you will become a fisherman who wears it in a picture and a play. "At some point, I remembered that I didn't remember it, and I linked it with Baoyu just said. I regretted it and blushed (45th time). Baoyu was beaten black and blue by his father, and Daiyu's eyes were swollen like peaches. On the old handkerchief given by Baoyu, he wrote three poems: "For whom?" Moreover, both Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu have the same word "jade" in their names. Baoyu's sister said after her name, "There is a stone name in the west, which can replace the ink of thrush." This can not only reflect their love of "leading an honest and clean life", but also reflect the ingenious arrangement of writer Cao Xueqin (Daiyu has kept her virginity and won't spend her honeymoon with Baoyu as easily as Cui Yingying). Remind readers that there are two words in the name: Miaoyu and Redjade. The fiftieth time, Li Wan sent Baoyu to the Jade Hall to ask Miaoyu for a red plum, and he got it. Miao Yu, who practices with her hair, actually has a crush on Jia Baoyu, who is both talented and beautiful. Gao E continued for the eighty-seventh time. "That wonderful jade suddenly remembered Baoyu's words during the day, and she felt her heart pounding and her ears burning." Redjade is the daughter of Lin Zhixiao, the housekeeper. Because her name emphasizes the word "jade" of Baoyu, she changed her name to Xiaohong. She was once very fond of Baoyu and was accused by Baoyu's maid. Later, she and Jia Qin established a love relationship. Because of her cleverness, she was appreciated by Wang Xifeng and accepted as the king's maid. According to Zhifu, Jia Fu suffered a property seizure, and Jia Qin and Xiaohong went to the prison temple to visit Jia Baoyu and Wang Xifeng. Besides, Jin Yu. Both Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai have a word "Bao" in their names, which symbolizes family property. When Jia Baoyu was born, he had "psychic Baoyu" in his mouth, which read "Don't forget, don't forget, live forever and live in Heng Chang". According to the maid Yinger, the gold lock worn by Xue Baochai was given to Baoyu. "It was given by a monk with a monk's head. He said that he must hang it on a golden device." Zhi Yanzhai's evaluation here is: "It's obviously a couple." The golden lock is engraved with the words "Fang Ling will always follow and never leave", which is very consistent with Xue Baochai's female virtue. As soon as Aunt Xue arrived at Jiafu, she preached that the Taoist priest said that gold was inlaid with jade, suggesting that Baoyu and Baochai were a match made in heaven, and their marriage was a "golden wedding". The popularity of Xue Baochai's entry into Jiafu and Jin Yupei directly threatened Lin Daiyu. Lin Daiyu has always been jealous of this and said to Baoyu, if you have a sister, forget her. He said to Baochai, "Sister, take care. Even if you cry two cylinders of tears, you can't cure the sore. " Daiyu naively thought that Baochai's beauty and virtue could not touch Baoyu's heart (the 34th time). Baoyu is disgusted with the saying that gold matches jade, and has dumped "psychic Baoyu" in public several times. Baochai went to Hongyiyuan to see Baoyu. Baoyu fell asleep and Baochai was sewing for Aroma. Suddenly, Baoyu shouted in his dream, "How do you believe what monks and Taoists say? What is a good marriage? I prefer to say that it is a wooden and stone marriage! " Hearing this, Xue Baochai was dazed (back to 36). Baoyu had this dream for a reason: first, Yuan Fei gave Baoyu and Baochai the same gifts, and so did Sister Lin's gifts to the second girl, the third girl and the fourth girl. Baoyu thought it was a mistake; Second, Baoyu hooked up with Grandmother Jia and praised Lin Daiyu, instead of praising Baochai, which surprised Baoyu. Mrs. Jia, Mrs. Wang and other maids supported Xue Baochai. Baoyu told Daiyu his heart. Daiyu didn't believe it, so she left and caught Aaron by mistake. Aaron was worried that the two of them would commit an ugly act between men and women, so he made suggestions to Mrs. Wang and won the appreciation of his master. Lady Wang told Wang Xifeng, "Take out two hundred and twenty pieces of silver from my monthly account and give it to Xiren." The monthly cases of maids such as Qingwen Sheyue are a fraction of those of Xiren, and those such as Jiahui are only 500 pence. Xue Baochai is Mrs. Wang's niece, so she naturally chose Baochai as her wife. Wang Xifeng and Xue Baochai are sisters and the niece of Mrs. Wang. Of course, they support the marriage between Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai. Besides, Jia Baoyu and Xue Baochai's marriage also has some real evidence. The alliance between Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu was a fantasy, and eventually romance turned into a love tragedy. Although Baoyu and Baochai became husband and wife under Jia Jiaquan's matchmaking, they eventually became widows because Baoyu became a monk. Readers, don't forget that good or bad luck should also include the marriage of Jia Baoyu and Shi Xiangyun. Shi Xiangyun is the granddaughter of Shi Taijun, and Jia Baoyu is a big aunt and big sister. She arrived in Jiafu earlier than Daiyu. The 29th time, Zhang Daoshi gave Jia Baoyu a golden unicorn. It suddenly occurred to Jia that someone's children also carried such a unicorn. Baochai said with a smile, "Sister Shi has one, smaller than this one." It happened that Jia Baoyu was careless and left Jin Qilin in the Grand View Garden, which was picked up by Shi Xiangyun. Daiyu "thought," Recently, Baoyu got a rumor in unofficial history that talented people and beautiful women often have small toys, such as mandarin ducks, phoenixes, jade pendants and sharks, all of which are made for life. Today, I suddenly saw that Baoyu also had a unicorn, and I was afraid to use my life to do those beautiful things with Shi Xiangyun. " When she heard Baoyu refute Xue and Shi's theory of career economy and praise her words, she eliminated her misunderstanding of Shi Xiangyun and her hostility to history and made up again. "The old traces of Xiangjiang River are blurred" is one of Dai Yu's three unique poems. Lin Daiyu, alias Princess Xiaoxiang, is combined with Shi Xiangyun, and coincides with the second princess, Queen Hubei. Lin Daiyu and Shi Xiangyun are very similar, both suffering from the same disease. Lin is weak and sentimental, while Shi Xiangyun's character is the opposite, optimistic, naughty and chivalrous like a man. Later, Shi Xiangyun and Lin Daiyu joined hands to rebuild the Peach Blossom Poetry Society in the Grand View Garden, and joined poems in the concave crystal pavilion, which became the predictions of their respective fates: one was widowed, "crossing the crane shadow in the cold pond", and the other died young, "Leng Yue buried flowers".