Birthdays measure their marriage.

You are a insincere couple. Both of them are wary of each other and have reservations in the process of communication. Your marriage is just a combination of love and hate. Both of them want to be the overlord of the family, and you mistakenly base your love on belittling each other.

When Mr. Dog still had a trace of sincerity, Mrs. Long didn't cherish it. Once Mrs. Long finds herself pampered and unreasonable, and Mr. Dog becomes more silent, eccentric and even furious, your feelings are basically irreparable.