In life, what do men say casually when they secretly love you?
Before that, we must be patient, learn to wait and enjoy this unguarded time. It's a little bitter and painful, but it doesn't matter. The best will come.
Choose the right direction and stick to it, and you will eventually reap happiness.
The greatest cleverness in life is not management, but being good at choosing.
What men say casually is actually evidence that they secretly like you. First, prepare to buy a house. In fact, his house has little to do with you, but he wants to hear your advice and is willing to accept your opinion. This is the key. After all, the person who can make up his mind on such a big thing as buying a house must be the most important existence in his heart.
Second, I picked up the car. Give you more extensive care and love, take you to all the places you want to go, shelter you from the wind and rain, give you the preference and uniqueness you want, and the co-pilot is his exclusive to you.
Third, I graduated. Where you are is his distance. Actually, it doesn't matter where a man works and lives. Most importantly, where you are, his heart is there. When he graduated, he thought of you instead of himself. This is the proof that he secretly likes you.
Try to overcome your preferences and control your selfishness. Such a man is actually secretly in love with you. Don't miss it easily.
These casual words of a man are actually evidence that he has a crush on you.
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I'm ready to buy a house?
The house is not about the size, but about the laughter inside. This is what happiness looks like.
A man tells you? I bought a house? Not to tell you that he has fixed assets, not to tell you that he is more capable of standing on the society than you, not to show off to you, but to let you know that his happiness is half of yours. Why do you say that?
The house pays attention to geomantic omen. Whenever geomantic omen involves the combination of yin and yang, then if there are only men at home, it will be a little yang, and if there are only women, it will be a little too yin. Therefore, only a small nest built by men and women can be regarded as a happy home.
A girl met this problem, and one day a male colleague suddenly told her? I'm ready to buy a house? I hope to get her advice, such as the size, type, location, loan or full payment of the house and so on. But the girl didn't respond, so she replied to him casually. These things are not easy to give advice casually. You'd better ask your family or girlfriend.
This sentence makes the boys so embarrassed that even the female colleagues on the side can't stand it. They quietly told the girls that they were confessing and coming prepared. How can you answer that?
Girls are also very direct, telling female colleagues that buying a house is such a big thing, and her suggestion is not good, absolutely not.
In fact, a man who takes the initiative to discuss buying a house with you seems to attach great importance to your opinion, which only shows that he has a crush on you. He hopes to give you a testimony in this practical way. After all, who doesn't like a stable nest? Probably only people who don't love it won't be interested.
Love can make people romantic, but not love can make people realistic.
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I picked up the car.
What does it mean for a man to carry a car?
When a man tells you that he is going to pick up the car, he actually wants to tell you that his co-pilot can take it, and you happen to be the co-pilot in his heart. Of course, if you want to be a driver, you can be a driver, but only if your driving skills are good. It won't scare him into a pool of mud, will it?
Many men compare cars to girlfriends, daughters-in-law, wives and so on. Their car-loving attitude is completely comparable to love, so his driving is equivalent to loving you deeply. Through this hint, he wants to see your attitude, whether it is boring or ready.
The man who loves you really wants to pay for you, including everything about him. In order to shelter you from the wind and rain, then the car he said can help him give you better love and care, consideration and warmth. Some things he can't do, such as traveling, going to the suburbs, going to the desert, going anywhere he wants to go, and so on. In other words, the car has become a man's long legs that love you.
Although he used to love you, his ability is limited. Now he still loves you, but he has better skills. He and his car can achieve what you want and what you can't expect.
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I graduated?
Generally speaking, when you graduate, you can say hello and be polite at best, but if a man who has a crush on you tells you that he has graduated, it often means that he wants to be closer to you.
This is closer. What does this mean?
The so-called closer, in fact, is that his choice of the workplace will be biased. If you read this hint and give him a fair response, then he will know well, for example, to work in your city; Keep up with the pace of work, work in your hometown, etc. But he will tend to keep a certain intersection with you.
People learn to be moved when they should be moved, and learn to be rational when they should be rational. This is the best attitude towards life.
Isn't it a meaningful irony to be rational when it is time to be rational and rational when it is time to be rational?
Tell you voluntarily? I graduated? Such a man must have had an affair with you before, but he hasn't confessed yet He won't say that until the time is right, he thinks it's time to break up with you. He has only one purpose, that is, a word you casually respond to may change his life.
If he works and lives in your city, but you are not together, then this embarrassment must be a lifelong struggle.
If he keeps a long-distance relationship with you and you promise his love, then this helplessness will also become a kind of pain in the future.
If it happens to hit it off and the result is a positive result, it will be a very precious memory to look back on this beautiful past many years later.