My parents let us break up because we couldn't get along. Should I listen?

Don't listen to my superstition about birthdays. My girlfriend and I have a good relationship, so I was hit by a stick!

Five years ago, my girlfriend and I met at a college debate. After dating for half a year, I took the initiative to confess to her. Because of the disparity in family, she refused to promise me. Then I spent a lot of time chasing after her. After communication, I found that she is an independent girl and has her own position on the issue. We found a good job after graduation. At the end of each month, she will send most of her salary home, which makes me very moved. She is really a filial girl.

I took her back to her hometown this Spring Festival. She made a very good first impression on my parents. After meeting her, my parents supported us very much. But last week, I suddenly got a call from my mother. On the phone, my mother eagerly told me that she invited someone who knows Feng Shui to calculate our wedding date. I didn't expect my husband to say that my girlfriend and I don't fit in, and everything will go wrong after marriage.

My family told me to break up with her immediately, but I didn't agree. I had a big fight with my mother on the phone. I told her not to be superstitious about this new society, but my mother didn't listen at all, and said that as long as she was alive, I couldn't marry my girlfriend. In order to break up my girlfriend and me, my family calls me every day. I really can't stand it. My girlfriend and I have deep feelings. If I break up for this ridiculous reason, I really feel unwilling. I have never talked back to my parents since I was a child, but I really don't want to compromise this time.

My stubbornness made my family turn their attack on my girlfriend. They talked a lot in front of her in order to break us up. I remember one time, my girlfriend just arrived at the office, and my mother cried and went in to make a scene, saying that she was a scourge and pestering others. After the office storm, my girlfriend submitted her resignation and chose to leave.

After learning the whole story, my mood completely collapsed. Now is a scientific and democratic society ruled by law, there is no need to talk about feudal superstition! ? Although I respect my parents, the woman I love deeply has been hurt by them. I want to get my kind girlfriend back and show my family my determination not to marry her!

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