Ask some people in history who loved each other to death.
In Shaoxing, Zhejiang, there is a Shen Garden. During the Southern Song Dynasty, it was called Yin Shan. Legend has it that a long time ago, there were two poems named "Feng Feng" on the powder wall of Shenyuan Garden. It is said that the first poem was written by Lu You, a famous poet, and the second poem was written by Lu You's ex-wife Tang Wan. Although these two queci poems are written by different people, they are filled with the same feelings and frustrations, because they both tell a sad love story-Tang Wan and Lu You's Shen Yuan dream.
Lu You was a famous patriotic poet in the Southern Song Dynasty. He was born in a wealthy scholarly family in Yang Shan, Yuezhou. In his childhood, when the Jin people invaded the south, he often fled with his family. At this time, his mother's uncle Cheng Tang and his family had a lot of contacts with Lujia. Tang Cheng has a daughter named Tang Wan and her name is Huixian. She has been quiet and elegant since childhood, but she is not good at words but understanding. Lu you, who is similar in age, hit it off very well. They are childhood friends and bosom friends. Although in the war, two inexperienced teenagers still spent a pure and beautiful time together. As they grow older, a lingering feeling gradually arises in their hearts.
In their youth, Lu You and Tang Wan were both good at poetry, and they often poured out their hearts through poetry. Before and after the flowers, they sang poems to each other. Their beautiful figures were in pairs, just like a pair of colorful butterflies dancing among the flowers, and their eyes were full of happiness and harmony. The two parents and all relatives and friends also thought that they were a match made in heaven, so the Lu family took a beautiful heirloom as a keepsake and booked Tang's marriage. As an adult, Tang Wan became the daughter-in-law of Lujia. Since then, Lu You and Tang Wan have been deeply in love and addicted to their world. I don't know what imperial examinations, fame and fortune, and even family members are temporarily forgotten. At this time, Lu You has been promoted, but this is only the first step to become an official. Next, he will go to Lin 'an to take the "lock-in exam" and the does exam. The newly married Yaner's land tour lingers in the gentle village, and she has no time to take care of the exam homework. Lu You's mother, Tang, is a dignified and bossy woman. She is looking forward to her son being admitted to the top scholar, taking the official position and shining brilliantly. Seeing the present situation, she was greatly dissatisfied. She reprimanded Tang Wan several times as an aunt, and even reprimanded her several times as a mother-in-law, ordering her to put her husband's future in the imperial examination first and be indifferent to her children. However, the relationship between Lu and Tang was deep, and the situation did not improve significantly. Because of this incident, Lu mother was disgusted with her daughter-in-law, and thought that Tang Wan was really the jinx of the Tang family, which would delay her son's future. So she went to the boundless buddhist nun in the suburbs and asked the nuns in buddhist nun to predict their fate for the sake of their children and daughter-in-law. Miao calculated and said seriously, "Tang Wan and Lu You don't match. First, it is misled and will eventually die. " Lumu was scared out of her wits. She hurried home, called Lu You and forced him to say, "Set a piece of paper and divorce Tang Wan, or I will die with her." This sentence is undoubtedly a bolt from the blue and shocked Lu You. Lu You, who has always been filial, had no choice but to swallow her tears in the face of her resolute mother.
Forced by her mother's life, Lu You had to promise to send Tang Wan back to her family. This situation seems unreasonable today, and the feelings of two people are not allowed to interfere with others. But in China's ancient society, which advocated filial piety, the mother's life was the imperial edict, and it was impossible for her son to get it. In this way, a pair of affectionate mandarin ducks will be torn apart by unreasonable filial piety, secular merits and emptiness. Lu You and Tang Wan were inseparable, reluctant to leave, and could not get together. So they quietly built another courtyard to house Tang Wan, and went to visit them when they had the chance to tell the story of lovesickness. But the paper can't wrap the fire, and the shrewd mother Lu soon noticed. They were strictly ordered to cut off contacts and marry another docile and filial daughter for Lu You, completely cutting off the long-term love relationship between Lu and Tang.
In desperation, Lu You had to pick up his bitter water. Under the urging of his mother, he resumed the imperial examination and studied hard for three years. At the age of 27, he left his hometown of Yin Shan and went to Lin 'an to take the "Lock-up Examination". In Lin 'an, Lu You won the appreciation of Lu Fu, the examiner, for his solid knowledge of Confucian classics and brilliant literary thoughts, and was recommended as a leading figure. It happened that Lin Qin, the grandson of Qin Gui, the prime minister of the Tang Dynasty, won the second place in the same subject. Qin Gui was deeply ashamed of his face, so he simply refused Lu You's test paper as an excuse when he did not take the exam the next spring. Lu you's career suffered from wind and rain from the beginning.
As expected, Lu You returned to his hometown, where the scenery remained the same and his face was completely new. What I saw and the people I thought of made me sad. In order to dispel his melancholy, Lu You always walks alone among the green mountains and green waters, or sits idly in a wild temple to visit the ancient times. Or go in and out of restaurants to recite poems; Or a street singer crying. So I live a leisurely and dissolute life. At noon on a warm spring day, Lu You casually strolled into the Shen Garden of Yuji Temple. Shenyuan Garden is an elegant garden with lush flowers and trees, verdant rocks and winding paths. It is a good place for local people to enjoy flowers in spring. On the secluded path deep in the garden, a woman in a cotton-padded coat came over, and Lu You, who was walking with her head down, suddenly looked up. It turned out to be his ex-wife Tang Wan who had been away for several years. At that moment, time and eyes were frozen, and their eyes were glued together. Both of them felt in a trance, not knowing whether the dream was true or not, and their eyes were full of emotion, resentment, thinking and pity. At this point, Tang Wan has been married by his family to Zhao Shicheng, a scholar in the same county. Zhao is a royal descendant of a prominent family. Zhao Shicheng is a generous and affectionate scholar. He showed sincere sympathy and understanding for Tang Wan who suffered emotional setbacks. Tang Wan's traumatized mind gradually calmed down, and new feelings began to sprout. At this time, the unexpected encounter with Lu You undoubtedly reopened Tang Wan's closed mind, and the old tenderness and myriad grievances that had been accumulated for a long time suddenly poured out, and the weak Tang Wan could not bear this feeling. Lu You, though he has been studying hard and writing poems for several years to suppress his yearning for Tang Wan, at this moment, the old feelings buried deep in his heart can't help but gush out. Four eyes are opposite, thousands of thoughts and mixed feelings, but I don't know where to start. This time, Tang Wan and her husband Zhao Shicheng went to Shenyuan, and Zhao Shicheng was waiting for her to have dinner. After a great trance, Tang Wan, who is already someone else's wife, finally took a heavy step, took a deep glance and left, leaving only Lu You in a daze among the flowers.
The breeze woke up Lu You who was immersed in an old dream. He couldn't help following Tang Wan to the pond under the willows. He saw Tang Wan and Zhao Shicheng dining on the waterside pavilion of the pool. Vaguely see Tang Wan lower the head, frown. He stretched out his jade hand to drink tea intentionally or unintentionally, and drank slowly with Zhao Shicheng. This deja vu scene broke Lu You's heart. Yesterday's dream, today's delusion and today's resentment are all around my heart. I am deeply touched, so I began to write a title on the white wall, "Feng Feng", which is the first word mentioned at the beginning.
Subsequently, Qin Gui died of illness. Lu You was re-employed in North Korea and was ordered to work as a bookkeeper in Ningde County, far away from his hometown of Yin Shan. The following spring, with an inexplicable longing, Tang Wan came to Shenyuan again, wandering among winding corridors, and suddenly caught a glimpse of Lu You's inscription. Repeatedly chanting, recalling the scene of two people's poems singing together in those years, I couldn't help but burst into tears and my heart vibrated. I unconsciously neutralized a poem that was written after Lu You's poem. This is the second "Hairpin Phoenix" mentioned at the beginning.
Tang Wan is a woman who attaches great importance to friendship. Her love with Lu You was a perfect combination, but it was destroyed in the secular wind and rain. Although Zhao Shicheng gave her emotional comfort, after all, the sea is difficult for water. The unforgettable love with Lu You has always remained in the deepest part of her emotional world. Since seeing Lu You's inscription, her heart has been difficult to calm down. Recalling the watery past, sighing the helpless world, the emotional fire tortured her, making her listless and unhappy, turning into a fallen leaf in the bleak autumn and quietly passing away with the wind. There is only a sentimental "Hairpin Phoenix", which makes people cry.
At this time, Lu You's career was in full swing. His literary talent was praised by Song Xiaozong, who was newly enthroned, and was awarded the background of Jinshi. Since then, my career has been smooth sailing, and I have been a servant of Bao Hua Pavilion. During this period, he not only devoted himself to politics, but also wrote a lot of poems reflecting his concern for the country and the people. At the age of 75, he wrote to ask for retirement and was awarded a gold belt to go home. Lu You has been wandering around the world for decades, trying to forget his sad past with Tang Wan. However, the farther away from home, the more Tang Wan's shadow haunts my mind. After returning from this tiring tour, Tang Wan has already passed away, which is already a twilight year. However, he still has a deep attachment to the past and Shen Yuan. He often wandered alone on the secluded path of Shenyuan, recalling the scene deeply imprinted in his mind, which was when he wrote "Shenyuan Nostalgia".
Shenyuan is Lu You's homesick place and also his sad place. He is thinking about Shenyuan, but he is afraid to go to Shenyuan. When spring comes again, it's sultry pink and annoying birds and flowers. Although Lu You, who is in his twilight years, can't go to Shenyuan to look for traces of the past, the meeting with Tang Wan, the iraqis' sad eyes, poor manners, helpless steps and embarrassing appearance all make Lu You fresh in his memory, so he wrote the poem Sleepwalking in Shenyuan.
2. Chen Shou, a Song man, hired a family as his wife, but he didn't marry. Chen Shou got leprosy. Chen's father asked the matchmaker to cancel the marriage, but his fiancee insisted on not marrying Chen Jialai.
Because Chen Shou was seriously ill, he didn't want his wife to come near, but she didn't avoid evil spirits and served her husband humbly.
Three years later, Chen Shou, afraid of dragging his wife down, quietly went to buy arsenic and planned to commit suicide by taking poison. After his wife found out, she secretly ate half of arsenic and wanted to die with her husband. I didn't know that Chen Shou would be fine if he ate arsenic, and his wife didn't die after eating arsenic. After this ordeal, the relationship between the two became better, and they loved each other all their lives.
3. Liang Zhu has become a butterfly.
Green grass, flowers in full bloom,
Butterflies have been wandering for a long time.
Tell about eternal affection,
Sambo loves Zhu Yingtai forever.
I studied with my classmates for three years.
Kneeling side by side, no need to guess.
18 I want to sincerely send my affection.
Who knows? It's on the balcony.
Don't hate the sea when you are on the balcony.
Butterfly wings stained with tears,
Come to the flowers.
After all the hardships, the fact is,
Never part.
4. He Shi
Shi is the first female underground worker in China. She was sent by Gou Jian, a professional revolutionary, and successfully entered the core organization of reactionary Prince Fu Cha by offering (similar to paying public grain). Her task is relatively simple, that is, to stifle Fu Cha's revolutionary will, so that he should not be corrupt when he is corrupt, and should not play with women when he is playing with women. As for transmitting information, sabotaging and conducting sports in enemy-occupied areas, it has nothing to do with her. This is really the most humanized underground working method in human history. Humanism is mainly embodied in that her work does not involve any secrets, so there is no danger. Of course, Shi has successfully completed the task, but she has no choice. She just went to bed to chat and play with Fucha as a beautiful woman. If this task cannot be completed again, there may be only two reasons. One is that Fu Cha is impotent or gay, and the other is that Shi is not a beautiful woman. In fact, Focha is a tough guy who can rank in the top 50 in the history of China, and he is definitely not gay. Shi is also the first woman to look down on her since written records. If this is not true, the history of China will really be rewritten.
In order to overthrow Fu Cha, revolutionary youth Gou Jian came up with all kinds of strange tricks, including tasting shit himself. Xi Shi is just one of many plans, and it's not too bad. According to the later development, the fact that Gou Jian tasted the shit of Fu tea played a decisive role in the success of the revolution, which greatly weakened the significance of underground work. After Fu Cha was destroyed, Gou Jian never thought of stone again. In this way, another professional revolutionary who has been engaged to Shi for a long time naturally completed his agreement with Shi.
Fan Li is not a simple person. He was neither Vietnamese nor Wu, but Chu, one of the superpowers at that time. In order to help like-minded revolutionaries Gou Jian, he came to Gou Jian not far from Wan Li, and he was an internationalist revolutionary. Because he comes from Chu, a developed country, he naturally has some emotional appeal unrelated to the revolution, and his revolutionary will is not as firm as Gou Jian's. However, he is a tried and tested soldier around Gou Jian. When Gou Jian took the initiative to go to Fucha as a hostage (in fact, he was drafted into the army), only he followed. It was 99% his idea to let Gou Jian taste shit. When he returned to Vietnam, he came up with a plan to give Fu Cha a beautiful woman. Gou Jian asked him to do so, so he met Shi.
As you can imagine, a well-informed and nightlife-rich person never imagined that there was such a beautiful woman in Yue, and Shi was just an ordinary village woman in Yue, a poor and backward third world country. Seeing that there are also successful people in Chu, a western developed country, he thought it was a good thing, so he hit it off and fell in love at first sight before meeting Gou Jian. Later, I met Gou Jian, a revolutionary who came down from kharrazi. He said, damn, there are such beautiful women in our country. If Fan Li hadn't warned that Fu Cha was an old hand in the romantic Jianghu, you wouldn't have acted rashly, and Gou Jian might have been corrupt long ago.
Gou Jian didn't dare to be greedy, but Fu Cha and Shi did spend several years swooning. Stone, who is good at calculation, also compares Fu tea with him in his heart. Fu tea is definitely not reliable. This man is fooling around with men and women all day, and there are enough women in the harem to form a phalanx of female soldiers. If this corruption continues, there will be a bad day. Gou Jian can't do it either. This kind of revolutionary youth is the most inhuman. When the revolutionary enthusiasm was high, they became powerless. Fan Li is still relatively reliable, petty bourgeoisie, emotional appeal, will be liked by women, and has received higher education in developed countries. Intellectuals, in the future, will only be a loss to eat woman. Besides, I like him emotionally. Then, before Focha's bones are cold, Xi Shi will live in his new house.
Two people are in bed together at night, well, don't follow Gou Jian. This boy is not authentic. He was a slut when he saw it that day. That was not the case. Just after the success of the revolution, Wen Zi was described as a traitor. It is estimated that Fan Li should be said to be a spy in a few days. Fan Li thought that he had been engaged in revolutionary work for half his life. In a few days, he should take a rest and write his memoirs later. In a word, the two of them ran away that night, and they didn't manage to seal it. They went to Taihu Lake, bought a few plots of land, got a boat and lived a small life. Later, when I saw that farming was hard and fishing could not make me rich, I gritted my teeth and took the money from Gou Jian's corruption to do business in the developed countries of Qi. I make a lot of money, but when I have more money, I have nothing to do. So Shi and I played a trick and started the pseudo-scientific research on the contradiction between Yin and Yang. I have written several memoirs that are not of interest to booksellers. One day I had a quarrel with Shi and threw them into the stove. I had a revolutionary experience for half my life.
5. Li Qingzhao was a famous poet before and after the Southern Crossing in Song Dynasty. /kloc-When she was 0/8 years old, she married Zhao Mingcheng, a college classmate one year older than her.
Ming Cheng is knowledgeable and versatile, and the married life of the young couple is very happy. The couple like to collect antique calligraphy and painting.
Organize exhibitions and play, and stay up late at night. When they are tired, they sit back in the hall and make tea. They love turning over books and blocking tea.
Say a thing is in a book, in a volume, on which page and on which line, and see who remembers it correctly. The winner can have tea first.
Qing won, as always, and smiled proudly. Sometimes she spilled all her tea in the cup, but she didn't drink it. Such a couple,
What a perfect couple!
6. Su Dongpo waited on Yun Linggen of Yuji Dynasty, reciting Buddhist scriptures for many years, but his body was very thin. As a result, he died of illness at the age of 34, leaving a young son.
Dongpo was heartbroken and buried her in the bamboo forest (also known as "West Lake") south of Tagu Mountain in Sheng Da, Huizhou.
After walking to the clouds, Dongpo often met her in dreams, only to see that her skirt was all wet, and asked her why. Chaoyun said, "I go home from the lonely mountain every night to feed my children, and I wade in the lake." Dongpo woke up in great pain, making it easy to walk in the lake. This is Su Causeway in Hufeng Lake today.
Of course, there are more,
For example:
Sima Xiangru and Zhuo Wenjun,
Zhang Sheng and Cui Ying.
The story of Lu Bu and Di Xin.
Dong Yonghe, seven fairies.
Xiang Yu and Yu Ji
Li Ying and Sun Erniang.
Shun Di and ChristianRandPhillips.
Cao Zhi and Zhen Fei
Zhu Maichen and his wife.
Yang Feifei and Yang Xiaoli.